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    Default Re:a question about asking for dances

    "Customer Development" as a general strategy probably works better, but as the ladies have been saying takes judgement and some experience. Finding "the Hook" or reason for you to sit with a guy
    for him to get to know you would work better. If the club doesn't have many customers and you are getting alot of "no's" taking a few minutes to talk with prospective guys wouldn't be any loss of income in hopes of developing a customer.

    I am just now struck by the fact that dancers in the clubs have the smae
    role in a general sense as guys in the real world looking for dates from
    girls.

    In general we have to find some reason for girls to get to know us
    and at least notice us. Thus in a club, I tend to remember that in
    the artificial world of a club, the dancers are under pressure to get to meet guys and that at times it is hard to do that.

    Because I have frequently been in similar situation as dancers, I tend to remember what it is like and give more attention to a dancer
    who finds a reason to get to know me and talk to me.

    In other words I give attention to a dancer who takes a small risk on me
    over the mechcanical "Wanna Dance?" format.

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    Default Re:a question about asking for dances

    Quote Originally Posted by Zoe83 link=board=9;threadid=4130;start=msg64502#msg64502 date=1074531684
    now what I really hate is when I pick a guy to talk to and i offer my hand and/or ask his name, and I tell him my name, he asks something to the effect of, "no, what's your real name?" I usually find the guy asks this if he is with a group of his friends. I've also noticed that this guy will never buy dances. This is probably just an atempt to piss me off. I usually just say, "Wouldn't you like to know?" with a smirk and walk away. Any advise for this situation? Because at my club I get that a lot.
    "When you have become a regular customer of mine for at least 6 months, I will tell you."

    If they persist, you persist with telling them that they have to spend money in order to get something like THAT in return.

    Even if they don't spend money, it is the way you handle them that might influence his friends to spend.... or other patrons who are watching.


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    Default Re:a question about asking for dances

    In my club we are not allowed to ask for dances. I have introduced myself to men and they just say hey and look the other way. I have kissed men on the cheek after I have been tipped on stage and they just say thanks and turn away. How am I supposed to make them interested when I can't hold their attention or ask for dances.

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    how do other girls sell dances? I'm a tad confused. Are you allowed to sit with them? Are they supposed to ask you for a dance? Or is it a system where they sign up and wait?

    I wonder why you can't ask them for a dance...


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    Default Re:a question about asking for dances

    Anna........all you can do is your very best while at work ........it's al you can do.....and if you get discouraged ...just hang in there and don't give up...keep trying as you do and hope for the best......instead of asking 3-4 guys and then going to the dressing room after getting shot down..try sitting down with someone and talking a bit then pop the question...and continuee on to the next and so on ..............usually for men it's not what you say but how you say it......be flirty and friendly and smile, eye contact.........hope this helps some.

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