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    I tell myself over and over that this is MY club and the guys are visitors on MY territory. It makes it so much easier to approach them with full confidence.

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    Yep. I walk around like I own the damn place. Confidence is key.



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    I hustle our pool table all the time for dances, and I definitely always cheat a little.
    Of course in the cute, but i'm topless kind of way.
    When they joke about me cheating I always follow up with, "Hey, this is my house mister." They eat it up.






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    Yup. I tell myself I'm the hostess of the party, that's why I have to go up to guys and chat them up and make sure they're having fun. If they act like I'm out of line for "disturbing" them -- a little commoner than I'd like at my club, especially during a sporting event -- then they're being bad guests. I'm doing nothing wrong.

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    I never looked at it that way. Very nice....

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    I consider myself to be a greeter. It is my job to let the guys know what their options are. No apologies are necessary.

    I don't talk for long. If, on my first contact with the custy, he is not ready for a dance within one song, I smile and say let me know when you are ready. Then I move on to the next guy. If you are friendly, and just go back a couple of times, to see if they are ready, you will have a better response. The reason for this, is because it does not feel like you are desparately trying to force them into giving you money for hanging out with them. You are just a friendly dancer checking to see if they are ready for a lap dance yet. If they ask me to hang out and talk then I tell them about vip and let them know that we can back there for a period of time for x amount of $. That way they know that if they want to talk they have to pay x amount of $ for whatever period of time. And if he still just wants to talk, now he knows how much it will cost him. No apologies necessary. I am being honest and doing my job.
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