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    Default Giving out e-mail addy?

    Hey girls,

    Do any of you give out an e-mail address to customers? Does this help cultivate regulars, or help you haul their ass in during a slow week? I’ve thought about this, but I don’t know if the benefits outweigh the hassle. I will also be relocating shortly and almost definitely working in a neighborhood club where this would probably not be as beneficial.

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    Oh, I totally give out my email address - if you're worried about privacy, just get a free account, like maybe here at StripperWeb or at Yahoo so that you can maintain your anonymity. It definitely helps to keep in touch with your regulars, especially those that travel to town on business. Even guys in neighborhood clubs have email!
    And where's the hassle? It's not like you're stuck on the phone, and you only have to answer the emails you want to.

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    I agree giving out e-mail addresses is a good thing. One tip is to create an e-mail address that guys can remember.
    Also when guys give you their cards, you can follow up with an e-mail.

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    It haelps me alot and also I get more customers

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    I carry on several e-mail correspondences with dancer friends. Helps to keep in touch, and it's much more secure than a phone number, certainly. And yes, it's gotten dancers some business from me, too.

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    an anonymous email addy is great for keeping in touch with customers. i got one of those freebie hotmail accounts, and it works wonders. just be sure to use a false name and address when you sign up for it to keep your real identity REALLY hidden. a separate freebie email account is far cheaper, easier and safer then giving out a cellphone number.

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    Thanks for the great input! Now all I need is a cool address.

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    Yes! I always tell customers no phone number but yes address. Only one of my customers has my cell phone number, but he's been a regular for a year, and is trusted.
    Since I usually skip out one night/week on work (tonight might be the night - it's snowing like crazy!), it's good for me to keep customers updated as to whether I'll be there or not. It also lets them feel more connected to you outside of the club, without invading your privacy.
    As for your address, make it something customers can remember, like integrating your stage name. sometimes if they write it down, they lose the number or sometimes it's the end of the night and there's no time to write it down. mine is [email protected].... it's my name, and all they have to remember is putting nyc in front of it and yahoo as the email server. everyone seems to remember it w/o writing it down.

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    If you click "Email" at the top of this page you can sign up for [email protected]. I'm a little backed-up, but I'll be cleared in the next couple of days.
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    So much struggle for meaning, for purpose. And in the end, we find it only in each other. Our shared experience of the fantastic. And the mundane. The simple human need to find a kindred, to connect. And to know in our hearts... that we are not alone.
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    another fun free email service is wildemail.com. They have all kinds of cute addresses, and it is free.


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    I always hand out a business card with a toll free number on it. (just happend that way from doing webcam, had to get myself a tollfree # to make more $$$$.) I never thought about an email address to give out, probably because i thought some guy would want phone sex, or ask for pictures. Great idea however. Pamela

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    Giving out an email address is a great idea. It is an easy way to keep in contact with guys without having to give your number out or having to get the guys' numbers. Plus, you can communicate with a whole bunch of guys at once by sending out a general note every week or so. That way if you change clubs or something you can let all of your customers know at once instead of calling them and talking to them each individually.

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    Do you guys have your own business cards with your email address on it? i seem to remember people talking at one time about having business cards, but I don't see how it would work with most guys wanting to keep their visit to the club secret from their wives/girlfriends. I mean, what would be more proof than a business card from a stripper?!

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    very true
    i had a wife call me once because she found my # on a book of matches from the club no less
    e-mail is the best way keep in touch with customers..just as colett said..u don't have to be on the phone and u can answer when u want
    and when u have'nt heard or seen from then it's good to drop them a line...remind them of your beauty and he'lll be in to see u in no time..since i got my computer a couple months ago, i've been giving my email out and it's really made my regulars more regular khow what i mean.
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    OK i guess I'll finally start posting here........

    I was just thinking about this last night as I left a club before getting another dance from a particular dancer I had taken a liking to. If had her email address, I would have emailed her as soon as I got home to see when I could catch her again.

    email = great idea!

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    I actually don't mind giving out my cell number b/c that is what I use for guys who want to book bachelor parties. However, it is important that girls make it clear to the guy that she is giving out her number for business purposes, not so he can call her and see when she wants to go out to dinner or something. Some guys reason "oh, she gave me her number, she must want me." I have had this happen before and it is so annoying, so I definitely make it known that my number is only to be called if you are interested in coming to see me at the club and you want to know on which days I will be working.

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    Sounds like giving out the e-mail adress is a great idea, I hated when guys were always asking for my phone number, especially when I didn't want them to have it so I would give a fake number, now I won't have to!

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    My only problem is i am not big on emailing. So i had business cards made up again, this time my new area. I give them out. Toll free number. If a customer accepts, great. It is up to him to watch his card closely, once it leaves my hand. Alot of my customers i notice, just put the number in their Palm pilot, which has a locked area where you need a password to get in. Works fine. With email, i found "can i have a picture of you" Or im so horny right now, "can we just do a bit of phone sex, or cyber. What the ??? It just makes it hard for me with the whole email and customer connection. With my number i can always be busy while on the phone, if you want to come to the club tonite let me know.. now. I don't have time to chat. And they seem to respect that just fine. Pamela

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    With email, i found "can i have a picture of you" Or im so horny right now, "can we just do a bit of phone sex, or cyber. What the ??? It just makes it hard for me with the whole email and customer connection.
    I'm guessing this is a fairly common thing. But in my experiences, I've had better luck with 'non-dancers' in chat rooms than with dancers. Many non-dancers give out there pics online all the time, but anytime I've ever emailed a dancer about a 'sexy' pix, I've never had any luck. LOL. Wassup with dat?

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    Yep, I give out my email address. I have business cards that have my work schedule, my email address, and my website addy. It really helps maintaining a customer base. (plus there is nothing better than coming home from a bad night at work to a nice email from someone who adores you *g*)

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    Yep, I give out my email address. I have business cards that have my work schedule, my email address, and my website addy. It really helps maintaining a customer base. (plus there is nothing better than coming home from a bad night at work to a nice email from someone who adores you *g*)
    I don't think there is anything wrong with giving out your email addy. However, the person they adore is the one found at the club, which hopefully is not the same person found outside the club. Customers are just that, Customers. Most of the time they say they love you, adore you, or whatever...but how much do they really know you? and hopefully you don't take too much stock in whats said, there is always a motive. I'm sure its nice to have a nice message when you get home. Just remember to keep it business.

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    If you ladies had to guestimate; what percentage of dancers do you think have computers? It's probably a safe bet that dancers in certain areas of the country are more likely to be online than lets say those in the midwest. I would think that if you took a national average, it's probably less than 25% of dancers are online.

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    I would say more than 25%. Doesn't just about everybody have computers these days? Its not like dancers can't afford them. Plus, the girls who dont have computers at home still likely have access to them---at school, at thier day jobs, etc. I'd say more like 50% or higher.

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    I don't think there is anything wrong with giving out your email addy. However, the person they adore is the one found at the club, which hopefully is not the same person found outside the club. Customers are just that, Customers. Most of the time they say they love you, adore you, or whatever...but how much do they really know you? and hopefully you don't take too much stock in whats said, there is always a motive. I'm sure its nice to have a nice message when you get home. Just remember to keep it business.

    Thank you very much for the concern It's one of the reasons I called the information I give out "business cards". Nice emails from nice clientele is always wonderful to get, especially after a night dealing with the "not-so-nice" customers. It's also a great way to keep in touch, let them know any schedule changes, etc.

    As for a guestimate on how many dancers have computers, mine guess would be about 40%-especially with the ability to burn music CDs. I would say even more at least have access to one.

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    If you ladies had to guestimate; what percentage of dancers do you think have computers? It's probably a safe bet that dancers in certain areas of the country are more likely to be online than lets say those in the midwest. I would think that if you took a national average, it's probably less than 25% of dancers are online.
    I remember hearing on a late night talk show (??rikki, jenny or jerry??) that there are around 2000 strip clubs in the U.S. Lets say that there are, on average, 40 dancers at each club, that equates to roughly 80,000 dancers in the US. Please note these are unverified stats, and I'm just trying to make somewhat of a point. Now, can we accept that this message board is the most active SC site amongst dancers, if so, why are there only about ~800 (give or take a hundred) registered dancers on this site. That means, only 1% of dancers are on this site. Whatcha think?

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