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    Yep. This is the ad from a local paper. Offers $35/hr to start. Some individual is seeking nurturer as part of intimacy therapy. Says clothes stay on and non-sexual.

    Hmm. Aside from all other considerations, if all you do is cuddle, and it goes no further, why is it suggested that pay will be raised? Wonder what kind of people will respond... Heh.

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    hey, I wouldn't mind just being able to cuddle. that is actually one of my more common "specal requests" I make when I get a vip dance. I find that a lot of dancers don't mind either,

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    Alot of things to take into consideration here. This person may (after he/she feels that the two are compatable, that the other person may want to move in, cook watch movies etc. All non sexual.
    Of course then the price will go up. Touch therapy helps save lives, and this person may be ill. (mentaly yes, if this is a front to get sex, rape etc.) I would be the curious kind and call. Just to see what this persons needs are. Sure a red flag goes up. But maybe this person lost a spouse not long ago, or something else is going on, very lonely for example.

    I have seen adds similiar, but not with the words cuddling. Dunno, could be many reasons. Maybe a friendship on the phone first, a meeting in public places for a time, the true "person" will come out by having public meetings (usually) especially if the conversation turns sexual.. Oooops BYE> Pamela

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    It could be legit, but if it is you should talk to the therapist that they're working with first.

    I actually thought about being a sex surrogate for a while - you work with a sex therapist and help people with sexual dysfunctions learn to have healthy sex.

    Lena



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    Just sounds like someone who is lonely and prefers the company of a woman instead of sex. I think they have probably seen escorts but it was too superficial for them and they want more of a friend/romance but without the sex? Of course the person could be whackec as well

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    Hey, I've paid for cuddling. It was sensual cuddling, though, and I paid escort rates. I did get a substantial discount after the first session once she realized I was serious (she insisted). It's a great way to spend a couple of hours, talking and cuddling and getting to know someone better; when I'd leave I'd be walking on air. A total endorphin rush. It did leave me with the equivalent of a hangover after four or five hours, though. Still I'd recommend it highly if you ever find yourself making WAY too much money.

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    This seems kind of wierd to me. Spending a couple of hours cuddled with a stranger (even if they are attractive). I think the charge should be at least $100 per hour for something as intimate as that.

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    blu, I'd tend to view this offer in the same vein as "the check is in the mail", "I won't cum in your mouth" etc. There might be some surface pretense about "cuddling", and there might be some small number of customers who really are only seeking some "cuddling", but the vast majority of girls and customers will be doing more than just "cuddling".

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    I'm up for this. Email me at [email protected]

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    $35? what if he's super ugly or stinks? Nope I don't think this is for cuddling , I think this is seriously a bait and switch move. You get there , you cuddle and then he starts whipping things out.

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    I can relate to the stated purpose in the ad. I have been going to a club to see just one woman for more than 3 ½ years, every week. I just sit there by myself and wait till her very good regular leaves. (He buys her for several hours.) She then sits with me for anything from 1 hour to a few hours. She knows I am ok with her stepping away as she wishes.

    She knows what I seek; genuine conversation about her life and mine plus opinions. At least as important as the conversation, extended hugs. She knows that I will get 1 to 3 dances with her. Though I never have her dance or even remove her sweat shirt and long skirt. She sits on my lap and we embrace.

    There is no groping, fondling or kissing. She doesn’t have such feeling for me. I imagine that it took awhile for her to become comfortable that I was not after more than sincerity and hugs. Considering what is at stake for her, I think all of this is a huge extra.

    I have always been honest with her. From the first I hoped to have this from her. These years later, I am comforted to see that she was never far from that. I know this because after seeing her about 6 months, she began sharing with me about a 501c-3 that she is involved in. It does events open to the public. She gave me permission to come to one and I have been to most of them since.

    At the events, I have gotten familiar with her SO. I like him. He is a good man. I am glad that she has let me know her. By knowing her, I have seen the feeling and commitment she has for her SO. It warms me deeply to see that he has as much feeling and commitment for her. It is emotionally nutritious for me. I do care about the person she is.

    She knows my condition and I have been open about my income (it’s not much). I always tip her for the dance, never less than 50%. What she provides me is deeply important to me. Literally, she stays the rate of my collapse. If I could do more for her, I would.

    Yet, I am not in love with her. I realize that even if her SO did not exist, she would not come my way. I am not that person. So much about her fits me so well. I don’t understand why I am not in love with her. Even unrequited, being in love brings with it an energy that I need to feel (I’ve been there).

    Wow, I’m not doing so well tonight. Normally I would have gone to see her today, but she called off.

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    Default Re: Get Paid For Cuddling

    Siiiiiigh...

    Cuddling is a new therapeutic movement that started a few years ago. It started with in home cuddle parties. Groups of people getting together in a persons home to do nothing but cuddle for an out. ppl bring a pillow, sometimes a fuzzy blanket and they all pile up together in a nice relaxing atmosphere to enjoy some human contact.

    The movement came about as a new wave therapeutic answer to the digital age. With so many people jacked in to electronics it can be really hard to get the face to face interaction that humans need.
    Cuddle parties tend to work on the theory of pack healing. Take a pack of wolves for instant. Wolves will group together and rub up against one another to give each other a feeling of calm, comfort and solidarity. The closeness of the other bodies helps to heal the group as a whole and the individuals within it.
    These parties have been proven to have amazing positive effects on the people that participate in them. There is absolutely NOTHING seedy going on.

    It is quite possible that this person really is only trying to solicit another person to cuddle with as cuddle parties are not widely known so they may not have been able to find one in their area. Or they may not like the idea of cuddling in large groups but prefer a one on one situation. Some people just like to cuddle.

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