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    Hi all -
    Well~
    I think it's about time to announce my engagement & retirement from the Stripping world! My fiance proposed to me in April, and tonight I have a meeting with my future-boss, in a totally different , but fun industry.

    I have been dancing for 2 years now, and it will be HARD to leave the girls and the money, but it's just about that time for me, and I'm excited to start a new part of my life with the man of my dreams! It has been such a learning experience for me and I've met some of the most wonderful people I've ever known - including you SW members , though we've never literally "met".

    Anyway, I just thought I'd let everyone know, though I wont be leaving till the end of Sept, or beginning of October - and I'll probably be utilizing the marketplace for my TONS of dresses & shoes that I hardly or never wore!

    Of course, I'll still be hanging around stripperweb along with the other girls who've retired, and I'll still be doing bachelor parties for the occasional mucho-cash influx! All of you have been awesome and lovely

    Love & hugs,
    Jax
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    Congrats, Jax! What will your new job be? I hope your fiancee takes great care of him. Glad you are sticking around!
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    Congrats!

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    Hey "Aredhead",

    I got married on May 31st. My husband is cool with me making my own choices. Ironically, he has never seen my dance. He has no desire to go to a club with me. He would if I asked him, but I don't really want him there.

    He really isn't into it. I offered to get him a stripper for his bachelor party, but he really didn't want one.

    I haven't quit completely,but I have really been scaling down my shifts. I don't get quite as much of a thrill out of it since I have been married. I can't really explain why.

    Whenever I have a problem with anything, I just talk it out with my husband and friends and it usually gets resolved one way or another.

    Do you miss performing or is it for financial reasons that you want to keep dancing? If it is financial, you may want to bring up the positive reasons to keep on dancing and talk to your husband about it.

    Good luck,

    Corey
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    Congrats, Jax. Best of life and love to you.

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    Well, mentally I am this weird dichotomy of liberal and conservative. So as a result, it just doesn't work for me personally to be married and to be a dancer. I tend to absorb my surroundings and as a result, I just think that it will be hard for me to balance the two . And as a Libra, balance means everything!

    thank you all for your sweet wishes! Juliette: I'll actually be working in a new hotel that my friend owns and just opened here in manhattan - it should be a lot of fun. And though I won't make the same money in dancing, I'll still be getting hefty tips and will do parties on the side.

    I think I'll miss dancing as well. Though there are elements that I WON'T miss, either. But I think that's true for many things in life - college, old jobs, old lifestyles. So I'm just accepting this life change and am seeing where it takes me.
    My fiance has no problem with me dancing, but he does see some changes in me that have come about since I've started, and while some of them are good, some of them are not good, and it is just not healthy for me, I think , personally - while married.

    "You have no idea what a long-legged gal can do without doing anything." -Claudette Colbert

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    Congrats and good luck! [cheers]

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    I just wanted to say congrats, hun! [clap] Wishing you and your fiance all the best!!
    *I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false and to incur my own abhorrence.* -Frederick Douglass-

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    Congrats Jax!!! All the best for you and your man!

    ARedhead: I have to say the idea of your hubby feeling he HAS to be there if you dance, seems weird and unhealthy to me, but there can be a million reasons and I can't judge.....but the decision is ultimately yours and since you're married you of course need to seriously consider your hubby's feelings on the issue. If you'd never quit, that's one thing, but since you've already quit and are thinking of going back, his feelings should have alot more weight in the matter than before.


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    Jax,

    Best of luck to you and your sweetheart. The best advice I ever heard about marriage came from an uncle of a old freind. He was a cool guy and among other things he had done in his long life, he was a magician in a traveling Medicine Show! Seriously.

    He told me, "Marriage is a 50/50 deal in which both partners have to try every day to give MORE than fifty percent of the time, because even if you try you won't always be able to so you have to make up for each other's failings."

    Best of luck to you and your's from me and mine.
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    [clap]Jax, may I offer my congrats. Glad to see you'll still be sticking around. The newbies can always use your wisdom.

    Every dancer has to hang up her stillettos eventually and I'm glad we have ladies here who can do it gracefully and make a smooth transition to mainstream work.

    Best of luck to you and your future husband.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    Congratulations Jackie! Hope it all works out for you. Don't be a stranger. Drop in on us and let us know how you are doing.

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    Congrats Jacqueline!

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    A husbands need to be in the club with you stems from him being uncomfortable with you being around other men.

    A club employee/owner such as Crazy Bob has a wife who dances but he understands the business.

    Dancing is just a job and most secure guys have no problem with a wife/girlfriend dancing as long as they fully understand the club environment.


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    How did i miss this! CONGRATS!!!!
    The best wishes for you both.
    Lotsa luv,
    Pamela

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