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    Hello everyone I am new to the site and fairly new to the strip club scene. I spent some time with a particular dancer a few months back ( 5 ) .We did have some fun ( no sex ) and she made some good money off me but then things went bad . All of a sudden my wife started getting phone calls and some stuff in the mail .Yes I was stupid enough to give this dancer my number but the funny thing is the wife only gets call at work and for the most part the info given in the calls means nothing.
    I know that I am paying a price for something but I honestly dont know what .I may have said or done somthing wrong but again I dont know what .I did not ask for extras and dont want them I was not drunk ( dont drink ) I was a gentlemen at all times .
    So heres my problem I went to the club and appologized for anything I may have done and stopped going. And now all I have to do is respond to something on several message boards not even about strippers or any thing to do with adult entertainment ( i.e ) motorcycle insurance and the wife gets a call ( this post is a sure bet )
    Can anyone please !!!!!!!! help

    P.S just for your info my wife knows everything and is watching me type this.

    THANKS

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    Default Re: PLEASE HELP

    I'm not sure that I understand your situation ??? ???

    How do you and your wife know that it is the dancer? What does the person say on the phone? What did she receive in the mail? You admit to giving your phone number; so how did she get your wife's cell or work number, how did she get your address? How does this dancer know what message boards you go to?

    You'll have to be more specific if you want advice. IMO is sounds like you're down-playing the specifics because your wife is watching you type.

    I've been dancing for many years in so many clubs in many states and I've seen a few nutty dancers; but I can honestly say with quite certainty that either you or your wife are not telling each other the whole story. We can't help you without details because I doubt any dancers on this forum know anything about a dancer stalking and harassing some random customer.

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    Default Re: PLEASE HELP

    wow...guess you learned a lesson...never give a dancer your number.

    funny, though, whenever men give me their numbers I just toss them. im surprised she actually put it to use.

    im sorry that its causing stress b/w you and your wife...hopefully there is enough trust there to keep things smooth. it sounds like maybe you were just struck with temporary strip club insanity and didnt really think shed call anyways. you sound really regretful about it so hopefully your wife will understand and hopefully youve learned! no numbers!

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    I guess you should really think about why you gave her your number in the first place?

    What exactly were you initiating by doing so?

    A telephone number means (usually and probably) that you desire contact...beyond the walls of the club.

    It bit you on the ass and you've been revealed - its the price you pay for your actions - i.e. responsibility.

    I for one never ask for nor want any customers number.

    The ones that offer it up - I smile to be nice and when they leave I chuck the number. I have absolutely ZERO interest in ANY customers phone number, or ANY contact outside the walls of my employ.

    Mind you - many girls use the number to keep in contact with regulars...another facet of the industry I am also not interested in.

    If you didnt want the contact why give the number? And if you wanted to be her regular - well hell you know where she works already so...?

    Anyway - good luck in repairing the damage to your home situation.

    I dont mean to be cruel but its not like she had your license plate numbers traced and then proceeded to stalk you - you provided the contact number. Deal with it.
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    Default Re: PLEASE HELP

    Ladies, this post is pure BS. I wouldn't waste time answering.

    Two clues: he claims he gave his number to the dancer, but the calls come to his wife at work. I have to assume he didn't give the dancer his wife's work number, so how does the dancer know that number?

    He also claims that every time he makes a post on any message board he gets a call (presumably from the dancer). Now, how would the dancer know 1) what message boards he is posting on, and 2) that it was him posting?

    Nothing in his post makes any sense.

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    Default Re: PLEASE HELP

    My thoughts precisely, Santos.

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