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    Default Just a note to all of you lovely dancers

    I really don't know why I am saying this.

    This can be applied to almost everyone, although I am saying it in reguards to the dancers.

    You never really know the impact or effect that you can have on someone.

    A while back I got sick and had to stop working and my life has drastically changed. I was thinking of two things today.

    One of the was a girl that I use to visit a lot, the one I mentioned earlier that I finally got the nerve to send her flowers, well I think of the well spent time that we got to spend together in the club. I treasure it so much and think of her often.

    The other thing is there is another dancer that I use to know that has the same disease as me. She is dancing, I can't imagine how she does it but she does it and she is an inspiration to me that someday I will get better. That someday I will be back to working and being a productive member of society.

    It may not mean much to many of you, but maybe what I am saying means something to someone.

    These guys that you dance for, maybe someday they will be like me and become disabled and are unable to work. Maybe they will think of you and have fond memories. Some of my best memories are times that I spent at the clubs. Its not like that is all of my good memories or even anywhere near 1/4 of them, but I still have fond memories of going to the clubs and visiting the ladies and spending time and money on them. Especially that special one.

    Well that is all I wanted to say, my thought for the day. Just don't forget the positive impact that you might have on some of the guys you dance for.

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    Thank you for posting that Redbeard! I think alot of ppl don't realise what kinda impact they can make on someone's life which is why i always try to make an effort with every body i come across which of course is sometimes hard like if your having a bad day etc.

    I am really sorry to hear read about your illness.... I am sick too which is why i am not working at the mo and i will be having my second surgery in a few weeks... Thank god this will be the last time and i should be fine after.

    I don't know what illness it is that you are suffering from but pls pls remain positive it is amazing what positive energy and thoughts can do for ppl!

    Anyway when i do start dancing i will definitely kep this in mind.

    My thoughts and prayers go out to you.... Seraya x


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    Default Re:Just a note to all of you lovely dancers

    wow, that's beautiful . it's good to know that dancers have a positive impact sometimes, and i hope i've done that a few times...puts things things in a new perspective.
    thanks red

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    Sereya, I am sorry your sick. Good luck with the surgery.

    As for me there is no surgery that can help. I could make a long story, but basically about 2 years ago i had a closed head injury about 6 months after I passed out at work, got some tests done and found out that I probabally have MS. About 6 months ago I was told I defintely have it. I do have a positive attitude and I am not going to give up. I am still young. I am only 31. Anyways I am getting off the topic here. There are other places that I can go to talk about that. This is not the place.

    I just wanted you ladies to know what I said earlier.

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    Redbeard it's guys like you i adore! You remind me of the guys who can't make it out to see me, or it's very hard. I have danced for a couple years for a man in a wheel chair. I adored him!

    And phone sex....Alot are disabled, and this makes me feel good about what i do. I know i have mentioned this before. But i love making a guys day, and not sexual. A great conversation can go along way!

    Thumbs up to you!

    Pamela

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    I hope someone has nice thoughts of me. Thank you Red, it's nice to know some of us are good at more that just stripping
    Tranquil Waters

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    Default Re:Just a note to all of you lovely dancers

    It's a nice thing to say to let us know dancers and a friendly reminder how we impact those people's lives. It's not only just dances but a company as well. I hope I did make a differences in their lives after seeing me at the club.



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    This is too good of a thread to let wander down the list...

    For me, dancers started as a source of grief- anxiety, stress, and frustration. Working in a club, close to one, being tossed in the middle of quarrels, expected to be an impartial mediator, and constantly thrust into lose-lose scenarios... it taints one's outlook on things and I didn't step foot back into the business for 9+ years from that loathing experience. Prejudice took priority.

    It all changed this year... my perceptions shattered, my prejudices lifted. One special person opened my eyes, showed me what was missing from my life.. gave meaning to the long, hard hours I've buried myself in the past several years. I consider her my friend, my confidant, my motivation, my source of unconditional joy when I so need it the most. I am inspired by her ability to be so selfless and giving, and do so every single night- through her own tribulations of life, occasional sorrow and pain, yet still be able to bury all this and put on her smile and gift love, joy and open arms to anyone who needs it.

    I've had some pretty tough times this past year, and she insisted I lean on her as my source of motivation and strength. I don't think I would have made it through without her gift. Her fellow workers, total strangers, have all been so quick to give the precious part of ourselves... that of compassion and honesty. My fears of surgery, shared by the lifting of a bikini to show scars for similar, and honest testimony of what I had to suffer through... and her, the special one, making it a point to emphasize what I'll have waiting when I return, the importance of my return, and what to think about when in pain and at loss. I've watched my life enrich more in the last six months than it has in the last six years, and I can only return the favor by illustrating this fact. These aren't the same people I knew 9 years ago... and it feels good to be proven wrong.

    I see a little of her in every woman I meet. My normal weekly social activities start with her, and end with new relationships all over the city. With few words and indirection, she's pointed out the real man within me, awakened the dormant animal, and tamed it all at the same time. I thought my single life was fulfilling before, but I was wrong. The new women I meet all sense that I am finally grounded and complete. And the few I consider worthy will get the opportunity to meet the source.

    She dances around her past from me, maybe she thinks it might change the way I feel, but others so jealous and shallow are quick to throw it at me unsolicited and unwanted, yet it pisses them off to see it makes me more proud of her. I'll never inquire, and when she trips over it on her own, I'll always be there to lead her out of those trenches. When she rarely stammers on her words, she sees in my smile that I got the message. I've tangled my tongue a time or two as well, and her smile returns the favor.

    My rewards seem so petty by comparison.. you can't put a price on gifts so precious. I feel the genuine warmth within her embrace, I hope she feels mine in return. I get excited every time I'm about to see her, and I know that excitement will continue long after she is gone. It seems unfair for her to be so unnoticed, unappreciated and deserving of so much more. Redbeard knows that feeling. I'm comforted by the fact that karma always rules in the end, and with interest. I wish her a speedy retirement, spirtual partner and fulfillment... but I know I will miss her when she is gone. She created a new kind of love for me- one that rests on the border of love for a sister and love for a woman. She sits comfortably on that line, and I share in that comfort as it adds meaning to my life, but doesn't interfere with my private life or hers.

    So for all the women here that give above and beyond, we salute you. Your gifts may not be recognized by 90% of your customers, but rest assured, there are those you have touched, even if they don't always say it. You'll feel it in their embrace and see it in their eyes.
    It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=1;threadid=5154;start=msg54881#msg54881 date=1071360764
    This is too good of a thread to let wander down the list...
    I agree Pole cat.... and thanx for sharing your story.

    I wish more ppl could see that strippers are ordinary ppl just like everyone else and that we are not all bad! ( damn i'm not even a stripper yet and i'm saying "we")

    Seraya.


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    Default Re:Just a note to all of you lovely dancers

    That post is so sweet! Just because of it I'm going to be unusually nice to everyone tonight. Really, truly I am. Thanks for the positive feedback!

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