Hey everyone
I just want to share a bad experience i had at the club iam currently
working at. iam a new dancer been in the business 3 mths now and have just begun to notice the ugly side of it all. last night i had this really bad experience with a customer and one of my fellow dancers. it
all began when this guy a regular of mine came in as i spotted him i immediately when up to him to greet him and hugged him since i hadnt seen him in a week i went and sat with him we were chatting for about
five minutes when one of the other dancers approached us and greeted him and said hello this guy used to be her regular and i found out way after i met him and spent a few times on diff occasions time with him doing dances and vip rooms so i figured she was just trying to chat him up to get him back which i never took him away from her since i didnt even know he used to be her customer before me but i found it extremely disrespectful for her to just stand there touching his face and chatting him up knowing that i was sitting with him first and was talking to him she interrupted our conversation uninvited and then the worse thing happens she starts telling him how she thought he had been mad at her all this time and all and he said that he wasnt mad at her then all of a sudden he goes ok lets do a makeup dance so u guys must know how i felt iam a newbie so this is the first time this has happen to me but i felt so humiliated and embarrased when he just got up without saying another word to me and went with her as she grabbed his arm to the private dance area all my coworker saw what had just ocurred and about two of the other dancers came on over to
tell me how messed up that was and how i shouldve confronted her what do u guys think pls i need some advice u guys are the experts i know this business is not as easy as it seems but i would like to know ur opinions how would one of u girls have handled that situation and am i being a wimp for feeling sad and embarrased.


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Unfortunately some of the women that we work with can be really catty (and rude at that) Almost all dancers know it's an unwritten (and in some clubs written!) rule that you don't approach customers when another dancer is sitting with them. Some are just too rude or disrepectful to abide.

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