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    Default Am I a slut?

    Two years ago I had a place in the world. I was a regular. OK, I was a regular
    of two different girls, but I was steady.

    Then came the dot-com bust. My economic situation changed, not as bad as some
    people's, but I can no longer drop 200 bucks without blinking. These days if
    I can make it into a club more than once in a month I'm doing good. And I'm
    working all over, so I can't even hit the same clubs regularly. So what
    happens, I meet a girl, buy 2 or 3 dances, have a wonderful time, make an effort
    to find out what her schedule is, but I usually can't follow up. Even when I
    can, it seems like turnover at the clubs is greater than it used to be, so I
    generally wind up with someone different anyway.

    It's nice in a way because I've met a bunch of really great people. It sucks
    because just when I'm getting to know them I have to leave and by the time I get
    back to that club they've changed their schedule or left.

    So I've met seven or eight really terrific women in the past year, and I'd love to
    be a steady source of income for every damn one of them. Instead I'm like a bee
    constantly flitting to the next source of nectar.

    So I guess what I'm saying is this: that guy you ran into last month, the one
    who seemed so appreciative but then you never saw him again, try not to think
    too badly of him. Maybe it's just economics.

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    Default Re:Am I a slut?

    i understand what you are saying i never think bad of people because you do not owe me or anyone else(i'm hoping) anything ....if you cant make to the club then you cant make it ... no need to feel obligated ...the only thing i hate is when guys make promises ......(which most of the time i never take them seriously to begin with ) so be easy on yourself ...just don't make any promises to these girls be up front ...trust me they'd appreciate it
    us: us: us: devil in disguise....

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    I don't think i was able to look at a customer like that. Ever. It was like ok...one guy gone, if you even remember him, (because alot of dance for many guys, so sometimes it's hard to remember "Joe" is gone.) and another walks in the door. Actually alot in life is pretty much like that. So, i feel conditioned from early childhood, to keep moving along with or without.

    Pamela

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    Am I the only one confused? What does any of this have to do with being a slut?
    You get what you put up with

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanilla_dog link=board=1;threadid=5214;start=msg54977#msg54977 date=1071373310
    Am I the only one confused? What does any of this have to do with being a slut?
    i guess he's trying to say that he keeps moving from girl to girl when normally he would only have one or two special girls that h does dances with :
    us: us: us: devil in disguise....

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    vanilla i was gonna ask the same thing and then i saw your post.

    guywholikesdancers i understand what you mean i haven't started dancing yet but i couldn't imagin feeling this way.... its a job and if you happen to make friends with cutomers well then thats a bonus.

    you don't have to make promises to every stripper you get dances from or even the ones you have a connection with.... you pay them for their time and thats good enough in my book!

    Seraya.


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    Quote Originally Posted by guywholikesdancers link=board=1;threadid=5214;start=msg54913#msg54913 date=1071365308
    So I've met seven or eight really terrific women in the past year, and I'd love to
    be a steady source of income for every damn one of them. Instead I'm like a bee
    constantly flitting to the next source of nectar.

    So I guess what I'm saying is this: that guy you ran into last month, the one
    who seemed so appreciative but then you never saw him again, try not to think
    too badly of him. Maybe it's just economics.
    Oh no worries, my dear. The attitude you just expressed should get an "awe!!!" from most any dancers.
    We know all about economic change. There are probably several ladies out there who remember you fondly. I know I have memories of customers that give me a warm smile when they cross my mind.
    Thanks for the sweet post/ Welcome aboard

    PS- where is spell check/ Pryce babe-....this chick needs her spell check
    :

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    Quote Originally Posted by cash link=board=1;threadid=5214;start=msg54979#msg54979 date=1071373578
    Quote Originally Posted by vanilla_dog link=board=1;threadid=5214;start=msg54977#msg54977 date=1071373310
    Am I the only one confused? What does any of this have to do with being a slut?
    i guess he's trying to say that he keeps moving from girl to girl when normally he would only have one or two special girls that h does dances with :
    Duh ok that makes sense..... sorry


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    Good post Guy. I"ve had that happen to me a few times, a guy really seems to like me, asks when I work, tells me his name and says be sure and remember me. Then I never see him again. It helps to be reminded that he may have been sincere, his situation just may have changed.
    Dancing is wonderful training for girls, it's the first way you learn to guess what a man is going to do before he does it. ~Christopher Morley, Kitty Foyle

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    "slut"? umm.....no. but hey, the title "am i a slut" sure lured me in, even though it had nothing to do w/ the post. no- you're not a slut.

    and i assume to buisnesses men traveling is part of their job. it's all good unless you promise the dancer/s that you will see them tommorow night/next week, when you know you wont be in town.

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    Definition of "slut": A woman with the morals of a man.

    A strip club is exactly the place where a lot of guys go to get away from commitment. Or at least not to have to worry about it. Are you "unfaithful" because you buy a Coors today instead of a Bud? It's a market thing. It's complicated because human feelings are involved, but it's still a market thing.

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    Can I be honest ...these girls on the board are being nice to you !!! ... Ok herre is how it goes (if you were in my club)... a girl dances for you .. you get her schedule .. and you make coo coo eyes at here ... you are and will always be THAT GUY... you are the guy that says .."I Think she likes me ".. you smile when you leave the club not caring that you just spent $300 .. not that there is anything wrong with that because when i go out i drop $500 or so dollars ... but i work in the business have a fiance' who loves table dances so i don't ever leave like you do .. LOOK THEY DON'T LIKE YOU you are money when they see you they see dollar signs not anything else ... I am not telling you not to continue spending your money cause lord knows i have a BLAST when i go out to other clubs but please understand they do not like you ... not that way that appreciate you as a customer .. and that is it ... Sorry ladies to tell the truth but you know I am right

    DJ Rev

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    Quote Originally Posted by DjRev link=board=1;threadid=5214;start=msg56126#msg56126 date=1071598641
    Can I be honest ...these girls on the board are being nice to you !!! ... Ok herre is how it goes (if you were in my club)... a girl dances for you .. you get her schedule .. and you make coo coo eyes at here ... you are and will always be THAT GUY... you are the guy that says .."I Think she likes me ".. you smile when you leave the club not caring that you just spent $300 .. not that there is anything wrong with that because when i go out i drop $500 or so dollars ... but i work in the business have a fiance' who loves table dances so i don't ever leave like you do .. LOOK THEY DON'T LIKE YOU you are money when they see you they see dollar signs not anything else ... I am not telling you not to continue spending your money cause lord knows i have a BLAST when i go out to other clubs but please understand they do not like you ... not that way that appreciate you as a customer .. and that is it ... Sorry ladies to tell the truth but you know I am right

    DJ Rev

    HUH??? Did you even fully read his post (or anyone else's)? He wasn't writing about how he thought that the strippers he spent money on were "liking him" (or that he was even sleeping with any of them). He was just saying that he was used to finding an ATF and spending all of the money on that one (or two) stripper(s). He was simply asking if a stripper took offense to a guy getting their schedule and then just not really showing up again. That's all...geeesh...you really need to take a chill pill. :

    OP...I don't look at people as "owing" me (unless they do, of course...lol). If you spend $300 on me one night and I see you come in again, of COURSE I am going to siddle my way over to you. But, if you choose to spend your money on another girl, that's fine, too. Besides, how could I "claim" you? By getting a rubber stamp that says "Property of VenusGoddess" and stamp you right square in the middle of the forehead (granted it WOULD be pretty funny!)? There are some girls that get all bothered by hearing that the guy who spent oodles of money on them one night came back on a night that they weren't working and spent money on someone else...but, for the most part, no one gets upset about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=1;threadid=5214;start=msg56152#msg56152 date=1071602446

    HUH??? Did you even fully read his post (or anyone else&#039;s)? He wasn&#039;t writing about how he thought that the strippers he spent money on were "liking him" (or that he was even sleeping with any of them). He was just saying that he was used to finding an ATF and spending all of the money on that one (or two) stripper(s). He was simply asking if a stripper took offense to a guy getting their schedule and then just not really showing up again. That&#039;s all...geeesh...you really need to take a chill <A TITLE="Click for more information about pill" STYLE="text-decoration: none; border-bottom: medium solid green;" HREF="http://search.targetwords.com/u.search?x=5977|1||||pills|AA1VDw">pill</A>. :
    And you really need to pay more attention before you jump all over people.

    The title of this thread is "Am I a slut", not "Am I a bad customer". This guy quite apparantly believes himself to be cheating on more than ten dancers, ie, a slut. He either has some mental issues, in which case Rev&#039;s post was totally accurate, or he needs to work on getting his message across more clearly.



    For the most part, I find the OP&#039;s post to be sweet... but that whole "Am I a slut" title is just creeping me out. It makes him sound like not only a PL, but an obsessive PL. An obsessive, psycho PL.
    He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

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    If anyone ever has a reason to ask this question, they are indeed a slut. Not to put down sluts or anything. Sluts make the world go &#039;round.
    A fat chick is like a big, warm, comfortable pillow that you can also have sex with....

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