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    Hey guys i've been approached by many locals and military guys at the local SC for tipping the girls too high for a dance. Usually I like to sit at the middle of the stage, and I will layout $3-$5 instead of $1 like most of the other customers. However I noticed I get a better treatment from the girls and some will give me a more...say ...intimate dance? Like most will give me kiss on the lip ( some will tongue) and they grab my crotch. Am I doing anything to offend anyone?

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    Absolutely not.
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    Good tippers are always a plus! Please, silly-head don't let others opinions sway you from your choice...if it works, don't "fix" it!! LOL!

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    so you get what you pay for...shocker!

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    Its your money you have every right to spend it if you want .
    Complete strangers have no right to be telling you how to spend your own hard earned cash.

    They are just jealous.

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    Default Re:Tipping the dancers...

    Quote Originally Posted by Keahiwaima link=board=8;threadid=5309;start=msg56465#msg56465 date=1071682531
    Hey guys i've been approached by many locals and military guys at the local SC for tipping the girls too high for a dance. Usually I like to sit at the middle of the stage, and I will layout $3-$5 instead of $1 like most of the other customers. However I noticed I get a better treatment from the girls and some will give me a more...say ...intimate dance? Like most will give me kiss on the lip ( some will tongue) and they grab my crotch. Am I doing anything to offend anyone?
    Tongue kissing and crotch grabbing? Sorry but I think that's going too far. :o

    The other customers are probably jealous that you are tipping more than them and getting more attention (although if I gave a customer as much attention as you're getting from these dancers, I would get fired or at the very least, yelled at.) Some customers can be idiots sometimes. Once a customer walked up to the stage when I was dancing and gave me a $5 bill (guys at this club usually just tipped $1's on stage) and when he sat down the customer sitting next to him asked him, "Why did you give her a $5?" like I'm not worthy of that much money or something. He replied, "Because she deserves it!"






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    Default Re:Tipping the dancers...

    I've had a guy throw a $100 bill on my stage...I've had guys throw huge stacks of $1's...tip whatever you want to tip...

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    From where i'm from the clubs are mid to high contacts and the town is so small we mostly know every one and the managers has never approached me (some are my friends) about the girls going too wild with me at times. Its true the girls are giving me a better service as I am the so called "better ATM", but i just don't want to be an ass by showing off or by giving the girls the wrong impression. Most of them know me well and are becoming acquaintances. So that could have some indirect connection to the better service deal.

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    i think you should tip however you please. Last weekend i went to a club were they have half side nude and the other has topless and serves liquer. and the nude side you sit at a table of several people and get mini lap dances for a buck or 2. anyway me and my wife were at one of these tables with 4-5 other guys and after my wife got her turn i new it was not going to get back to her so i proceeded to throw out another stack of money every time she backed off so she came back. After a few minutes they all left all pissed off i didn't fucking care and you should not either maybe it will encourage them to tip better next. All these guys were sitting there with 1 dollar in there hand (cheap bastards) and the dancer commented to me that they are still getting a free show so fuck em.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rayanna link=board=8;threadid=5309;start=msg56497#msg56497 date=1071687389
    Its your money you have every right to spend it if you want .
    Complete strangers have no right to be telling you how to spend your own hard earned cash.

    They are just jealous.
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    It's about time the minumum wage went up for dancers! They tried to do this when the goverment invernted the $2 bill but that of course did not work. (LOL) That is what should be given and if you where naked (guys) on stage dancing I would hope you were worth more than a dollar considering that your outfit was $150.00. I'm not say $5.00 everytime but times have changed, your beer cost more. The girl is paying attention to you more because she wants others to see the special attention your getting and maybe get the flippin' hint! Everybody wants more from a dancer, more smile, more excitement, more dancing but nobody wants to pay more for it. Think about it at your job. Do you do more than you have to if your not payed for it. I don't think so. Give us a reason to give you more!

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    I definitely agree with what some of the other people have said: these guys are worried about you tipping more because it makes them look like cheapskates, throwing their singles up and expecting to get great attention. If you tip more than a dollar, the girls will not be willing to give excellent dances to other customers who are only tipping a dollar.

    I think it's great of you to do that, though, and personally, I always pay more attention to guys who tip more than a dollar.

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    "Dude, stop fucking tipping so much. You are making us look bad".

    Those words were spoken to me once. I once came near to blows with someone who kept on making comments when I tipped dancers more than one fucking measly dollar. I ignored him, which made him all the more angrier to the point where he stood by me and said something like "You had better keep your dollars to yourself". Fortunately the bouncers (who knew I wasnt a troublemaker) were all over him, so I didnt have to get into a brawl (I will do whatever I can to settle any dispute without a testosterone-driven display of male oneupmanship, but if the need to truly defend myself is needed, I will fight until dead). Imagine getting so pissed about what someone else is doing with their own money.

    I am pretty generous in tipping, which, as I have stated in the past, is due to the tip-earning bartender in me. You give what you want, and fuck anyone who tells you otherwise. Remember you are making them look like cheapasses because they actually ARE cheapasses.

    I dont go to SC for the drinks, the customers, the ambiance or the decor. I go for the dancers. I very much appreciate them, so I respond in kind.

    If you want to give more than one measly dollar, by all means, do so. At least that will set you apart from all the other yahoos.

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    I think you should stop going to such a cheap club. Who the hell only tips a dollar anymore?

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