Ok, I just joined here and I've read through a few of the topics on this board; very insightful.
I do not go to strip clubs terribly often (maybe 3-4 times a year). When I do go, I am often frustrated by the lack of attention I get from the dancers, to the point that I've come to despise "regulars". I understand (and even have come to enjoy analyzing) the "economy of strip-clubs". But I just am floored when I can sit at a club for literally 2 hours and not have one girl come up to me. AND watch girls sit with guys for hours not doing any dancing (and so, I assume, making no money!).
Some personal info seems required: I'm a younger guy (early twenties) with an office job making good money. I do keep my hair long, but I am clean-shaven. I usually go to the club after work so I'm dressed in a white-collared shirt and black dress pants. I don't think I'm bad looking, so why do dancers just walk past me?
I know I'm probably supposed to be more forward and go out of my way to ask for a dance myself, but it loses some of its allure for me that way. Maybe its wrong, but I like the fact that the dancers are supposed to act like they're interested. Is there anything else I can do?
One anticipated response: the subject of turning down dances from dancer's I'm not interested in. no, i don't even get this kind of attention usually, but is it wrong to decline a dance from someone you're not attracted to when no one else is coming up to you? (beggars can't be choosers?)
Please, the more info, the better. Thanks!![]()


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