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    I kind of have a dancer/customer relationship with an exotic dancer at a local SC. I enjoy talking to her about things in general before she dances for me, then she dances for me. The last time I saw her, she dropped the hint...nothing major... about seeing each other outside the SC along with her cell phone number.

    I like her look, attitude, style, and personality or else she wouldnt be my dancer. Ive slipped up and have said that I would do her in the heat of excitement while getting a lap dance.

    Should I keep it as a dancer/customer relationship, wait until she gives her number, or just let it all go and just enjoy her dances?

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    Default Re:dancers, customers, etc...advice is 'preciated

    we already answered this in another thread! Her feelings towards you do not appear to be the same as yours towards her. She wants you to be her customer. There really isn't an option for you. Just because you aren't within the walls of the club, it does't mean you aren't her customer. Don't forget that.

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    Never 'expect' anything other than a customer/dancer in club relationship. That way you dont get hurt. If you try to push for more you may lose the good thing you already have.

    A bird in hand is worth...you get the story.
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    Remember HC, "NO" only means "NO" when she says it..... LMAO

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    youngsta i am curious you said that the girl dropped the hint that you should see each other outside the club. what kinda hint was it was it? like a you should pay me for sex kinda hint? or was it a we should hang out outside the club kinda hint? Also i noticed you said "she slipped me her cellphone number." What did she say to you when she gave it to you, not that i am one to give advice as you can see from my karma but if neither of her reasons for my two questions sound like prostitution i say go for it.

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    My advise Young is if you enjoy the SC experince then don't try to make it into anything else.

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    Default Re:dancers, customers, etc...advice is 'preciated

    Ask yourself this youngsta: 1) if you had first met her outside of the club and there was no money involved would she have given you the time of day, 2) has anyone this good looking (assuming she's good looking) ever given you the time of day before? Deep down I think you know the answer, my advise, keep it in the club and take it for what it is.

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    I don't think you told her anything she didn't already know. if you are geting a dance from her and you are single (and somtimes even if you are not) it is pretty much a given that you would do her in a heatbeat,

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigRed1970 link=board=8;threadid=5395;start=msg58205#msg58205 date=1072177698
    it is pretty much a given that you would do her in a heatbeat,
    Oh Red, did you mean that the way it came out or was that a typo? Or perhaps a Freudian slip? LOL - that is just too funny.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette link=board=8;threadid=5395;start=msg58213#msg58213 date=1072183271
    Quote Originally Posted by BigRed1970 link=board=8;threadid=5395;start=msg58205#msg58205 date=1072177698
    it is pretty much a given that you would do her in a heatbeat,
    Oh Red, did you mean that the way it came out or was that a typo? Or perhaps a Freudian slip? LOL - that is just too funny.
    no, just my usual bad spelling ..... but if it works....

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