I need some advice for those that have been down this road. My girlfriend is a dancer and got her first BA about three weeks ago. She went from a very nice 34 B to a 34 D. She wanted to remain natural looking and had the implants placed under the muscle and through the armpit. The bruising is almost gone but she does not plan to go back to work for another 3 weeks.
At first she loved them but as the swelling has gone down she has gotten more and more depressed. In her eyes they are now too small and not worth all the trouble and expense. It's become an obsession and is serious making her unhappy. I think they're plenty large but this is her body, her profession. Not that she ever had problems making money.
She is an absolutely gordeous young woman with a face many would kill to have. I have tried to make her understand how beautiful she really is but nothing I say right now helps. Every day the swelling goes down the lower she sinks into depression. It's gotten to the point now where she thinks her breasts look almost the same as before. She's wrong, of course, but it'ds her perception that is the problem. Is this feeling normal after BA surgery in many?
I'd love to hear from those who went through it and maybe something I can say or do for her to make her see how great she really looks. I love this girl so much and just want her to happy. How can I help?



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