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    Most of the time, after a round of dances the dancer will offer me a hug. I don't take this as meaning that she is interested in me romantically or that we are now best friends, but I do take it as a sign that I've respected her boundaries and haven't acted like a creep. I wonder, is this assumption genrally correct? Would you offer a hug to a customer whom you were slaying on the astral plane a few moments earlier because he wasn't respecting your boundaries?

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    If a guy has offended me, I grab the money and leave. After a dance or two with a nice guy, I smile, kiss him on the cheek and continue with my rounds. Hugs are usually for better customers. I would never stick around for a hug with some guy who just tried to grope, all that will do is give him another chance to grab my ass. So yes, If I hug you on your way out, I found you polite and respectful and would like you to come back again!

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    Hug, peck on the cheek, handshake, or even a sincere thank you, it doesn't matter. These are just ways for a dancer to show appreciation for a customer's business (not to mention his manners). I get at least one of these a lot, particularly from dancers that I've established regularity with.

    Some gals show their appreciation with more "affection" than others, but I don't read any more into that than those who keep this gesture simple. The message it sends basically is same: "Come back and see me again". And it works!
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    Yup, I agree with Mariah on this one. It depends on how the guy treats his dancer. Of course, a hug should not be taken as a sign of "something more", if you get my drift.



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    A peck on the cheek after a LD for a good customer. Hugs for anything other than a good regular would be desperate IMHO! I must point out that I don't give hugs though. They're for my boyfriend *aw*

    P.S Carlos, in your avatar, you look scarily similar to a really cool guy that lives two blocks away from me. I hope you have a great personality to match!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Malibu link=board=8;threadid=5714;start=msg61971#msg61971 date=1073751977
    P.S Carlos, in your avatar, you look scarily similar to a really cool guy that lives two blocks away from me. I hope you have a great personality to match!
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    A hug after you've paid is definitely a compliment! I'd never hug someone who acted like a jerk no matter how many dances we did.
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    Mostly it means your a good customer.



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    A hug doesn't mean too much if its a from a dancer I dont know. But I have a regular girl I go and see, and when I get ready to leave she comes by and gives me a hug, and a kiss on the cheek. that's always nice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mariah link=board=8;threadid=5714;start=msg61850#msg61850 date=1073687536
    If a guy has offended me, I grab the money and leave. After a dance or two with a nice guy, I smile, kiss him on the cheek and continue with my rounds. Hugs are usually for better customers. .... So yes, If I hug you on your way out, I found you polite and respectful and would like you to come back again!

    I agree with this though it is the opposite for me... my hug is summed up by guywholikesdancers. A kiss on the cheek however means, " I think you're cute, thank you for being way cool & spending lots of money on me & buying me drinks & I hope you come back!" lol

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    I get hugs from the regular girl I see, but also from the other dancers. But then I take the time to talk to them all, and I tend to buy drinks for them (the club I go to is small, 4-5 dancers max). I don't read more into a hug than having helped the girls have a good time and that I treated them with the respect they deserve.
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    Some girls are into hugging and hug everybody, some aren't. I don't think it means very much but it can be very pleasant if you like the girl. My ATF hugged everybody but it always seemed to me that she reserved her best hugs for the guys she liked least (lol).
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    Hugs are the best.
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    EH I agree hugs are awesome. However they are only 50% effective unless accompanied by a nice kiss. I dont meant those goofy air kisses. I mean a lip smacker.

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    A kiss on the cheek is normal from me. To an asshole I just grab my money and give a quick and sinscere as I can "thanks" and leave. My hugs are reserved for the customers that really make me feel comfortable. this means they are easy to talk to, have a happy go lucky sense to them, aren't grabby, and seem a little on the classier side of life. Even if a guy seems to have everything but the last one, if he is thugish or sinister looking(and I do not mean goth, I mean used car salesman type), I will not hug him.
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