I don't think I'm what you`d call a strip club regular, but have been going to good local clubs about once a month for the last two years. I recently went to one such club and was instantly attracted to one of the girls. Now, when I say attracted, I mean that "feeling in the pit of your stomach" attracted. Not just "the rise in your trousers" attracted. This is the first time this has happened to me at all since my divorce (2 years ago) let alone in a strip club. We sat and talked for about a 1/2 hour then we went to the VIP room. The "rules" at local clubs are about as liberal as you can get, but I always ask the dancer before doing anything. Lap dances are topless with laps touching laps and hands going basically anywhere except "Nirvana"! Lips and tongues are at the discretion of the dancer. Its always been my understanding that dancers didn`t kiss to avoid certain issues. I am considered an attractive 43 year old man who looks 30-35. I could not help myself with her and tried to kiss her within the first 3 minutes. After that she definitely reciprocated and we were passionately kissing for the next 15 songs. She came on the 13th and I came on the 15th. If I had met this woman outside of the club I wouldn't even hesitate asking her out. Since she's a dancer I'm not sure where her mind is. Neither one of us was drunk and after we finished she told me "I was incredibly sexy. I can count the number of times I've cum while dancing on one hand. Once, right now! I love your body!" Please help me! Am I being naive? Is she just selling or playing me or is this kissing and cumming unusual and she probably has some initial feelings for me too? I never considered asking out a dancer before this, but she is special. She's beautiful, sexy (duh!), smart, and funny. If she's just doing her job she does an unbelievable job.


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.... ok sorry, back to the question now
Just kidding there.
lol
Go back immediately (and a lot) , but don't get involved!
us:
I would NEVER kiss a guy, it doesn't even cross my mind. I even had a guy ask me once if he could tongue kiss me for a £5! F*cking cheapass! 

we still keep in touch on occasion through email, but we never went out, but I would have been open to it had the timing not been bad, it ended up pure business. :'(


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