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    Default Do the lady strippers enjoy watching the male dancers ?

    Do the lady strippers find the male dancers sexy or do they perfer " regular " guys like you see on the street ? Do women customers act just as badly as the male customers ? Do the ladies try grabbing the male dancers' privates ?

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    I would prefer a Lover (boyfriend) to dance for me over a stripper any day! But yes if you guys can enjoy the female strippers, i damn sure am going to enjoy male strippers. However... They are not my first choice for entertainment.

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    Default Re:Do the lady strippers enjoy watching the male dancers ?

    As a former male stripper, I can say that male and female customers are a world apart. Ladies seem to enjoy themselves in groups, getting wild and crazy. Men do this a s well. But what you don't find with the women is the lone customer who emerces himself in fantasy and pays big bucks for hours of attention. I think the other thing is that women are able to plan on spending a certain amont of money and once they hit that mark they are done. Guys on the other hand hit the mark, lose thier minds and just keep spending.

    Also having stripped for bachelorette parties and bounced for Bachelor parties I found that there are always a group of women who just don't have any interest in a dancer and want nothing to do with him. On the other hand I have rarely seen this at a bachelor party. Usually all the guys are into it.

    Just some observations from someone who has experienced both sides of the industry.

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    Default Re:Do the lady strippers enjoy watching the male dancers ?

    Not my thing. I can appreciate the good performance value but it doesn't turn me on in the least.

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    Default Re:Do the lady strippers enjoy watching the male dancers ?

    No, I don't care to watch male strippers. I know some girls love it, just not me

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    Default Re:Do the lady strippers enjoy watching the male dancers ?

    no, it does nothing for me really. but i do get amusement from the women that are into that kind of thing. i get turned on more by going to a dance club and finding a guy that can dance. of course, i march myself right up to him and dance with him!

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    I have gone and got dances from the guys at Olympic Garden but it was just for fun and I dont think I am into it like maybe a group of bachlorettes....I know they are working and just felt like giving them a couple of bucks! I agree with everything Ron said, right on the money!

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    I'm afraid male dancers do nothing at all for me. We've had a few male trip shows come to our club to do Ladies nights, and i just felt embarrassed by the way the women in the audience were treating the guys!
    The women were grabbing the guy's legs (while they were trying to do backflips!) and one guy had his G string ripped right off him...yet i'll bet the women who were acting like animals would be the first to put down a girl for working as a dancer.

    There was one episode in particular, when the male dancers (who were well known here as they'd been involved in a reality t.v series)had been performing that night and were expected to come to our club afterwards to chill out - somehow word got out and our club ended up full of women who had been at the guy's show and were waiting for them to arrive.

    The women were being so rude to us dancers, and it was OUR place of work! They were being bitchy and looking at us as though we were filth..
    Some of the dancers went up and treated the women just like normal customers - asking how their night was, hustling for tips, offering dances, and were met with disgust. - one girl even jumped on the lap of one of the women and gave her a mini lapdance, to which the woman reacted with cries of "get her off me get her off me!" (that was pretty amusing).

    Basically, these women showed up after paying to see men getting their gear off, paid to get into our club in the hopes that they could pick up a male stripper, then treated us like dirt because we were doing the same job as the guys, AND scared away all our real customers - because what guy wants to enjoy a night at the stripclub when there's a mob of bitchy women crowding the place?

    O.K. i'm done. Whew, what a vent!
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    Wow minky, that's too bad!

    Honestly, when there are too many women in a SC, it scares off guys and they slowly but surely make a beeline to the door. Luckily, its a pretty seldom occurance that a group of "girl girls" are in a SC alone. I've seen a few small groups of butch lesbians over the years, and that seems ok.

    Many, many men who go to SC have trouble forming a real relationship with women. Many of these men harbor deep resentment for women and go to the SC because the women there have fantasy looks, personalities, and their attention can be bought with money rather than charm.....as a SC manager, I would NOT allow big groups of straight women to enter the club....

    Male strip clubs are FUN....we just went for a bachelorette party. Afterwards, a couple of the cute waiters came to our suite and partied with us....its NOT a sexual turn on, but its goofy titillation....

    I do have one girl friend who hung out at La Bare in Houston ALL the time...she was involved with a few of the dancers there...just like gentleman regulars, a few women form a bond with a male dancer, falls in love, and he milks her out of dollars...it happens.

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    Default Re:Do the lady strippers enjoy watching the male dancers ?

    I think the way women react to male dancers is quite comical!!!

    Me, personally, I just don't get into the whole male dancer thing. Like the others, it's just not my thing. If I watch someone dance, I would rather see one of my fellow female dancers. To me, watching a women dance is more sensual...
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    While the male strippers do nothing to turn me on, it is entertaining, and the nude male dancers here can be a riot. Picking up a dollar bill off your forehead with just their family jewlels?? Yikes...that is talent, albiet, um...sort of gross talent. ng:

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    Default Re:Do the lady strippers enjoy watching the male dancers ?

    Hell yeah! It is fun to be on the other side for a change. But it doesn't really turn me on, it's just fun. I've been to several male strip clubs and although I enjoy tipping the guys and sometimes getting dances, I don't get all crazy and fight for a spot at the stage like some of those women do. They get nuts! Heh, I've even had some crazy chicks attempt to pick a fight with me over who was gonna tip a guy next. I just shrug them off and go on - what the hell is wrong with them?

    But of course all that is for an occasional fun night out. I don't want that at home, in fact I'll take a night on the couch with movies and popcorn with a good lover ANY day over a muscle-bound hottie shaking his crotch in my face.

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    Oh yeah, I've hung out with some male strippers with above said girlfriend. Gee, I really hope that ALL men don't think ALL girl strippers are completely idiots because these guys are MORONS and not really all that fun to hang out with because their egos are so large and fragile that they seem incapable of relaxing and being themselves...just my experience.....I will take my art fag graphic designer boyfriend anyday, hehehehe!!!

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    WOW Minky I just read the other posts in this thread. Holy crap I can't believe they even let those bitches into the club! Stupid move on the doormen/manager's part. I've never worked in a club where a bunch of women are allowed in alone, without any male escorts, except when they are butch lesbians. Groups of lesbians can be fun and don't bother the male customers so much. But a bunch of girly girls should NEVER be allowed into a club, period! That is just asking for trouble.

    Yet another shining example of 'civilian' women's hypocrisy and blatent stupidity.

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    Default Re:Do the lady strippers enjoy watching the male dancers ?

    Watching male strippers doesn't really turn me on-it's just fun. Personally I think boxers are more sexy on a guy than thongs are. I've seen many female dancers who are overweight or not very pretty, but all of the male dancers I've seen have been good looking and muscular. However, I've only seen two male strip shows in my life. There are no clubs around me where male strippers perform on a regular basis, but once a year or so the Chippendales or another group of male strippers will come and perform at a regular bar for a night.






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    Utica, you've got to keep in mind. Male and female stripping are two different things. In female stripping males are only allowed to touch the females if they pay them first. If they don't then they are in violation of some contact rule. In male stripping men walk freely among the women initiating the contact and inviting it. No male ever complains about a female contacting him paid or not. In female stripping women rarely initiate the contact unless there is a payment offer. In male stripping ,men usually initiate and take liberties in dishing out contact and payment usually is an afterthought.
    In female stripping woman stay in their space unless there is an offer for a service. In male stripping the men move through the crowds trying to solicit as many encounters as possible.
    Do the women act crazy? Yes, but the male is still the pursuer.

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    I agree as well with blondhottie. Watching guys dance around in little panties doesnt turn me on :o boxers are definetly sexier. And boxer briefs if they have a killer stomache. I've never been to a guy club before but I have seen a male stripper do his thing. I was at work one night and this semi buff male stripper came into the club looking to party after the girls shifts. He was a little too much into it and his self and was dying to show off his body to me. I couldve cared less but I hustled him into a 20 dollar topless. He was like you give me a dance and I'll give you a dance for free. Since he was good looking I was like SURE. It was pretty fun but not a turn on. He actually danced kinda like a female stripper but more masculine. It was weird. Anyways my conclusion to this long pointless story is, is that I think I'd go once to a club with friends to check it out. err maybe. I've tried to get my man to shake his thang (lol) but he refuses and humps my arm as a joke. ?? Well too much info.
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    I like to go watch the male strippers once in a blue moon. I can't say it makes me wet in the panties but it is amusing in a ha-ha-OMG-what-is-flopping-around-down-there sorta way.

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    I could not believe that story about the group of ladies coming into the club because of the male dancers going there to hang out. If they realy behaved that badly to the employees , shouldn't they have been escorted out just like an out of line male customer ? I was really surprised that they got away with that.

    Thanks for the reply Dreamer, What you basically say is that the rules help protect the women strippers by demanding payment first before contact. Male strippers with their constant egos are allowed to roam freely at will , taking chances that they get payment or not when they interact with the customers.

    It is nice to hear that the lady strippers , while finding the male strippers entertaining, find themselves more attracted generally to the more typical average guy. I guess it doesn't require being a muscular bodybuilder type to attract them.

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    Hi Katrine and Brigette,

    Yeah, that night was a nightmare, our boss let them all in because they were paying customers - who cares as long as he's getting $$$ off them, right? :-(

    I usually don't mind having a few women in the club though, and i'll usually go and talk to them. I found that once you get a woman in a stripclub, she often enjoys herself and sees that it's not the cess-pit it's made out to be, and maybe she'll leave with a bit more respect for dancers.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Uticaguy link=board=1;threadid=5764;start=msg62701#msg62701 date=1074008929
    It is nice to hear that the lady strippers , while finding the male strippers entertaining, find themselves more attracted generally to the more typical average guy. I guess it doesn't require being a muscular bodybuilder type to attract them.
    Oh Gawd, always liked "normal" guys to the male stripper type!! I Have been to a couple male clubs with girlfriends in the past year, and while we hade fun because it was a birthday party, it's nothing I would choose to do every weekend. I look for the ones who are alot of fun onstage, have character and don't just walk around thrusting their penis at me. I like the show value of some of them, frankly couldn't care less who's muscles are bigger and more definged, as long as he has fun onstage and goofs around a bit. But then again,,,I have ALWAYS been a girl who goes for personality. I have worked at clubs that had men downstairs and women dancers upstairs,,,and the men would come up after their shift...wow...some of them made female strippers look like rocket-scientist-nuns!
    Being that I don't want to perpetuate stereotypes here, I won't go so far as to say "male strippers are all big dumb meatheads" but many of those I've met don't put much effort into their shows, nevermind creativity.
    Hmm... Fun in a group, but perhaps being a dancer has taken away all mystery or excitement out of seeing the male side of things.

    And I could't imgine dancing with one of those things ahanging off my crotch...sheesh...
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    Default Re:Do the lady strippers enjoy watching the male dancers ?

    I go to watch the male form, not perform. I do not participate in the wild activities they do. I sit in the back and just watch my favorite dancer and admire.

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    It was really interesting for me, as a male stripper, to read the above posts. Most of it confirmed for me the right approach and attitude I have developed with my shows and "stripper" persona (Chad is actually a different guy to the guy who "performs" him i.e. me).

    The points a lot of you made about the differences between male and female stripping were spot on too. Male stripping becomes a little closer to what you girls experience when the crowd is gay / male. Similar issues emerge, and the focus becomes less on fun and more on sex or an erect cock (from the audience perspective, not necessarily mine).
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    To be quite honest, watching men prance around with a string up there a** does absolutely nothing for me. Some women I've seen go crazy for it. While I do not..to each their own though







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    Default Re:Do the lady strippers enjoy watching the male dancers ?

    No. To me there is nothing sexy about a guy in boots and a g string doing pelvic thrust. Women dancers are sensual, sexy and beautiful. I'm strictly dickly but would take a woman dancer over a male dancer any day.

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