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    PoleKitten21
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    I go to exotic dance clubs alot and it drives me crazy when a girl comes up a goes "wanna dance"? No hello or anything. I go to these clubs with my boyfriend so that we can have fun. It annoying to hear "wanna dance" all night long. I spend lots of cash on the girls who actually make conversation... i love a pretty women with personality. I will glady buy 15 dances for my bf from someone who makes the effort. Yes, I understand that dancers need to see as many customers as possible... dancers want respect, so do customers... please be a little more geniune.

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    Any dancer worth her salt knows that "wanna dance?" doesn't make money. You are right though...it's really not a good sales pitch. I like those "wanna dance" girls though. They make me look better, making it so much easier for me to make money.

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    Those of us that know what we are doing..never go that route!! I know it's frustrating...but like Emily said...those of us that have been doing this for a while dont do that...personally I think that the older the dancer and more experienced not only in the club but in life give better dances anyways. I am much more comfortable in my skin and with my sexuality than I was when I was 18 or 21!! I would say for you polekitten try to scope out the girls that are in their late 20's early 30's and go get her to sit with ya for a chat and dances then if you have someone at your table you wont have the wannadance girls bothering you or if you arnt ready for dances, sit at the stage until you have scoped out who you think is hot and go up and talk to them and feel them out...i dont know how well that will work but it's just a thought!

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    Hrmmm.. It really depends on the club, the dynamic and several other factors.

    MOST stripclubs, this is a big no-no and just a quick cut to the chase by a lazy dancer. Other clubs, it's not as much a solicitation for funds/lapdance but instead an offer to go somewhere where you can talk and do the introductions.

    I know of at least two local clubs where the "Wanna dance?" is just "Let's go to the dance lounge where it is much more quiet and away from this swarm of clumped customers" Anything more than "Wanna dance?" is answered with "Huh? What? I can't hear you over the music."

    It never ceases to amaze me how poorly designed some of these clubs are to make the hustle more difficult. I wish dancers had some say in new club design! Stage areas should be multi-tiered, with some customer congregation areas higher and behind the sound system, where customers can still see the stage and have a clear path to approach/tip, yet the hustle isn't drowned over by the speakers right over your ear.

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    Hate the "wanna dance".
    Don't make me spank you!

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