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  • total jerk.. why oh why..?

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  • ok, but not that great.

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  • i would tell you if i could remember....

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  • ahh.. fond memories

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  • we are together now.

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    Default what do you think of your "first"?

    someone asked me this a while back and i though it to be a good question. do people generally dislike or think fondly of thier first? personally i am married to my first... it took many years and lots of other BS but we are together and happy.

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    Default Re:what do you think of your "first"?

    I was 17 when I first had sex. I was in high school and it was with my boyfriend at the time. The sex wasn't that great because we were both virgins and didn't know what the hell we were doing (not to mention he lasted about one minute!)

    I voted "ok but not that great." I don't think badly of him or anything, but he's not the type of guy I'd go for today. I hope he is doing well, but I have no desire to go out with him again or have sex with him again. I haven't seen him since I was 19; I'm 25 now. I have no idea where he is living or what he is doing with his life now.

    Interesting topic Ami! That's so cool you ended up marrying the first guy you slept with; I wonder how many other people did the same thing!






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    I picked okay, but not that great.

    I lost it at age 15, to a boy I had just dumped a week before. It was two days after my best friend lost her virginity, and I didn't want to be left behind in Virginville. So I went ahead and did it. He was a sweet boy who had sent me love poems, wrote me songs and said he loved me. I didn't love him, he just happened to be handy when I felt like losing it. I have no regrets about it.

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    My first turned out to be a total jerk...He was someone that I had known when I was younger. I met up again with him when I went to visit my Mom one weekend when I was about 16. We hung out, then ended up doing it in his truck. (Nice, huh?) When I moved in with my Mom later that year, he had a girlfriend, but still went around telling everyone that he had "popped my cherry." (Even in front of her, which caused her to hate me!) Through the years, until I was about 20, after I was married, it seemed that he turned up every damn place I was. I was even dropping something off to a friend, and he was parked across the street watching me. We lived in a small town, but damn...My Dad owns a little bar in that town, and this guy would show up when I was there and try to pick fights with my husband. He had a whole, "I had her first!" complex for quite a while. It made me sick...So I think I could safely say that he was a jerk!!!
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    Default Re:what do you think of your "first"?

    It was nothing special.
    I was 14 he was 16. I thought I was in love. Huh not quite.
    It was like "this is sex!!" What was so good about it?
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    I voted "fond memories". He and I were both 17, and had been doing everything BUT "IT" for over a year. We finally did the dirty deed in a beach house one afternoon. It was great, as first-times go. He and I broke up shortly after -- friendly breakup cuz I went away to school. He and I still stay in touch maybe once a year. We're both married and on opposite sides of the world (he's an Army lieutenant in Korea.)

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    It was after High School and it was ok . I was in high school during the early 80's during the early aids scare days. As a result , some kids did hold off until they knew more about aids ( which was a very good thing in my book. ) . one thing I worry about concerning today's generation of jr high and high school kids is that aids has been around now for over 2 decades now. While kids today may know more about aids, because medical treatment has improved for treating it, it is giving them a reason to be less careful about it. That is totally the wrong attitude .

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    Ready for this? I was 11, he was 18. I lied about my age (said I was 13) but I was obviously a child, and now I look back and think what a perverted creep he was. It happened in a creek by my house, on the hard cement.Not only that but asshole had the nerve to hit me with his wallet chain after I dumped his ass. He never met my brother until then ( almost 6'4 even at age 14, body builder, eventually became a personal trainor.) He got what he deserved.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raven link=board=1;threadid=5859;start=msg63536#msg63536 date=1074264616
    It was nothing special.

    It was like "this is sex!!" What was so good about it?
    My thoughts exactly....heck, my thoughts haven't changed yet. I'm still with the same guy. We waited 6 mo into our relationship to do it--both virgins, both 19. Now we're 21--3 years into the relationship and nothing's gotten any better. hell, we've stopped trying! lol
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    I was 14 and he was almost 17 at the time and we had been together for 7 months already and we were "in love", he was my first love and we waited for what seemed forever and it was only like 3 mins. I told my friends years later that thinking about it now, it takes me longer to get undressed. But I loved him and we stayed together for a while after that till complications arose and I broke up with him.

    I voted ok but not great. I didn't have sex with anyone for 2 years after him because I thought I would always marry my first. He was not good either so I didn't exactly have anything to look forward to based on him, till I met TJ.....he changed all that.

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    I was 13 he was 16. He was my best friends brother and I thought he was beautiful. After we "did it" we thought we were in love. It lasted for a little while. I still talk to him on occasion. I have no regrets so I voted Ahhh... fond memories....

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    I was 16 and he was 23. What the hell was I doing with a 23yo at 16? But I thought he was soooo cool, and he really did treat me well. We were together for several months, until I moved away. We kept in contact for a while but we all know how those things go. His older sister was actually my boss before I moved, and years later I ran into her and she said he still talked about me. I suppose you never forget your first, and I suppose guys tend to remember those they 'break in'. I hardly think about the guy, unless someone brings up the 'your first' conversation. LOL Hmmm, I wonder what he'd think about that shy teenager now

    I voted fond memories. He really was nice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette link=board=1;threadid=5859;start=msg63657#msg63657 date=1074286084
    Hmmm, I wonder what he'd think about that shy teenager now
    That's a good thought Bridgette, I wonder what my first would think if he saw me in the club! Probably oh she's gone to the dark side, glad I didn't stay with her. lol He'd freak I bet.

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    My neighbor, one month before my 18th birthday, I was ready to get it over with. We used to hang out, go to the park, smoke pot and play basketball. I figured, good enough, hehehehe. I was the last of all my friends to lose my virginity....nothing special....

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    I realy should keep my mouth shut on this one. th: lets just say it involved the sister of someone i worked with and a golf course. we still talk online everynow and then. no regrets at all.

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    I opted to relive the "fond memories." My first time was on my birthday in my bathroom. My friends were waiting for us outside in my bedroom. We took about an hour.

    The guy was my first love. My current guy was a virgin when he met me....he has no regrets either.

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    Was totally shocked by my inexperience and innocence. Wanted the bad boy type. Was a liar and a cheat. Is probably married now to someone who beats her.

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    I chose why Oh why? I was 14 almost 15 and dated this stupid guy for like a month. He was 16 and could drive and his parents were cool with us drinking at their house. Heck, they'd even buy the alcohol for us! :o I think I was pretty buzzed and he talked me into it. I hated every minute of it. But I was glad I got it over with. The next bf after that was more of a seroius puppy love type relationship that lasted for 7 months. I lied and told him that HE was my first. lol I don't know how I got away with that one!
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    We were both 18, both virgins, and had been dating for a little over a year. We were both a bit clueless, and when it finally did happen, we were both relieved that we had finally done it. It was all uphill after that ...ahh, fond memories. He was a wonderful guy, and my first love, but we arent in contact anymore. I wonder what he'd think of me now?

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    I voted fond memories, although we were very young. He was 15 and I was a week away from my 15th birthday. It was the 2nd most romantic night of my life (the most romantic was when we hooked back up 4 years later -older and more experienced -yum, what a night! ). Anyhow the first time, we had been dating pretty seriously since we were 13 years old, lol, it was a long distance relationship and I made him wait two years before we lost our virginity to one another. We planned to sneak out and meet at one in the morning. It was a night early in the summer, we were by a lake, and it was perfect. I was SO in love with this guy. Like the kind of love that makes you feel completely alive, vulnerable, raw and aching all at the same time. It sounds SO sappy and it was, it was the sweetest night of my life. Perfect. It was more romantic than sexual. I woudn't change anything about that night if I could. Even our ages. We were so young and innocent! We had many good years together. We dated from when we were 13-15 (he broke my heart) but then we dated again from 17-22 (I broke his heart). He was definitely my first love. I don't think you ever really get over your first real love and the remnants it leaves behind inside you. Or at least I know I didn't. Ok I got way in over my head. Important details: fond memories, 15 years old, I'll always love him deep down. Sappy story over.

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    When I was younger, I was very religious. I almost became a minister. Almost. Then I pointed my logical mind at religion and it didn't stand a chance. The final blow was when I read "Atlas Shrugged" by Ayn Rand.

    However, even after losing my faith, I wanted my first time to be special. I eventually met that special woman when I was 27. A beautiful caring hot woman from Cameroon, Africa. We had been dating for over a month and then one night after we watched a nice romantic movie (whose title I don't now recall) in the TV room, she made her desire known and it just seemed right. Great sex. I must have been making up for lost time as we went at it non-stop for about eight hours. No regrets. Very very fond memories.

    Our relationship lasted four lovely years. It was a bit of a shocker for my family and the small Midwest town we were in. She was a very very dark African and I'm as white as you can get. *laugh* But we didn't care what people thought and, as I'm a big guy (6'3", 245 pounds, and built), there was never a fool stupid enough to say anything negative to our face. Anyway, we eventually broke up. Or rather I did. It was my first real relationship. I wasn't ready to commit. However, ever so often I wonder if I did the right thing. We remained friends for many years, but after she moved to LA, our exchanges became less and less frequent and then silently ended without even a final "good-bye". But again...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kayla Nicole link=board=1;threadid=5859;start=msg64336#msg64336 date=1074483777
    He was definitely my first love. I don't think you ever really get over your first real love and the remnants it leaves behind inside you. Or at least I know I didn't.

    i completly agree.... i'm not writing about him below tho...different guy...

    i am gonna sound like the board whore, i was 17, he was 18. he had had a crush on me since freshmen year of high school (even when i had the curly hair, glasses and bangs) suddenly i realized he had grown up and was good looking, he had just broken up with a friend of mine a couple days before. he was supposed to be teaching me how to play bass guitar which is how he got me to come over, he failed to tell me his parents were out of town and then it was all down hill from there. he didn't want my friend to find out (and did he really count if he didn't even last a full minute lol? i'm not kidding at all either) i wasn't allowed to tell anyone. his ex approached me and told me all the details so i told my best friend. he got pissed at me, said i told everyone, but his ex had the biggest mouth in the world. lol i was the last one in my group of friends to go, for most of my senior year they had been trying to bribe me (wierdo's yes) into losing it. i lasted till the end of that year.

    so yes i guess i ganked a guy from my friend, since she reintroduced us, and slept with him. he sure got around that year after me though....woah.

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    This is a great topic with a real mix of replies. I'm actually embarrassed about how I "lost it," but here's the story. I was 19, the Fall semester of my Sophomore year in college. I knew absoutely nothing about sex other than what I'd heard/read. I had never seen a porno movie and I had never even touched a girl "down there" before. Maybe because the girl I went with in High School was so shy, and "back then" we weren't having sex in High School. It just wasn't done by kids who were well thought of.

    So anyway, I was very curious, and a fraternity brother in college told me about a girl from my hometown that everyone was having sex with and he fixed me up with her. We went to a party in a motel room, and my pals knew what I was there for, so they all did me the favor of leaving relatively early so I could be alone with her.

    Once I was alone I got really nervous even though I was horney and had been drinking a lot. She took the lead and laid down on the bed asking me to come over.I turned off all the lights because I couldn't imagine having a girl see me naked. After a lot of awkward fumbling around she got on top and got me in her. As I recall, i kind of just laid there while inside her, not moving much. I had no idea what I was supposed to be doing. I didn't even know I was supposed to move it in and out. Jesus! Monkeys can do it without seeing a porno, but I couldn't. I never even came. After working at it a lot, she quit trying and snuggled up telling me what a nice time she had with me that night. She ran her fingers through my hair and then drifted off to sleep while I lay there thinking, "Is that what sex is all about?"

    The next morning when I got back to the house my friend John, who introduced me to her, asked me how it was. I'm more embarrassed to say what I told him than to write this story. The one good thing I learned was that it's important for the woman to enjoy the experience fully. She obviously didn't enjoy it, but she was real sweet about my cluelessness. We saw each other on campus a few times afterwards, but didn't date again. I knew I had performed poorly with her and it embarrassed me to see her and remind each other of it. It was 6 months before I had sex again, but by then I had a better idea of what to do from watching a couple of porno movies ("Oh, THAT'S how it's supposed to work!).

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    Still together and loving it.
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