A little grinding can be nice, but I'm with Mariah: it's supposed to be a tease.
A little grinding can be nice, but I'm with Mariah: it's supposed to be a tease.
>> How unattractive ?
>> Think Rossanne Barr or Janet Reno
Sure, why not? Roseanne is hilarious, and Janet Reno is probably very smart. I'd bet either of them would be fun to hang with, and if I'm having fun, and they're wanting to pay me a little extra, well..
>> and little grey haired grandma's too
The woman I lost my virginity to, many years ago, had grey hair. I don't think she had grandkids though.
>> or think of a 5'2 350 lbs woman with body oder and wiskers on her chin
OK, the body odor part is where I'd draw the line.
Alex I think your use of asterisks is very sexyOriginally Posted by alexislv link=board=8;threadid=5864;start=msg63606#msg63606 date=1074277343
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FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
to fondl: you are probably a dancer that makes a lot of loot! second the dancers quoting ridiculous comments about to lap dance or not you are the dancers who go and plat tattle tale because you can't make any money. BOO HOO, you work at a strip club! sexual fantasy! you are what us rich money making dancers call the big PRUDES!!! don't be offended because we chose to lap dance & you don't! don't play tattle tale because we have a lot of money and you have 100$ look bumping and grinding is all in our line of work, if you don't lap dance and a guy gets just one dance from you and then goes to a "lap dancer" and gets 20 dances don't hate because you had the chance & you blew it. My piece of advice: " every guy that walks through that door weeds through all the dancers to get to that one dirty dancer" and if it's not you then your not doing something right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm with you. I don't want "relief", but I like some quality contact. It's just a different type of tease.Originally Posted by CarlosPR link=board=8;threadid=5864;start=msg63890#msg63890 date=1074362992
My wife is the same way. She doesn't mind a little over the clothes contact, but she doesn't want "extras" and she doesn't want anything where she takes "her" clothes off.
-A's Husband
I work at a high contact club and different girls offer different types of mileage. some grind you the whole song, adn others done. I grind for a large portion of the night, but no where have I given Hjs or bjs...
Grinding is accepted in my club, and I am nto doign anything wrong, though I wouldnt go to a NON contact club and try to grind. I follow rules very strictly to avoid problems or getting into trouble.
But ladies, men dont DEMAND we pleasure them....we do what WE want. ive NEVER had someone say, "is this all I get?" If i did, I'd laugh and say, "um whate else do you want for $20???" (sarcasm obviously and not indicating that more $$$ would mean MORE (or extras)...)
just my 2 cents
I grinde when my muscles get tired and sore. It's easy and almost painless at the end of a shift, and has helped me cope with the soreness of the day by giving me a short break on more then one ocassion. I do not do only this though. I save grinding for when my body is getting tired.
" Remember during each test there is some girl in Australia jealous of you who wants to do what you're doing."- Lilithmorrigan
" If you're young and sexy, why not spend a few years Shopping and Fucking? Life is short, but youth is shorter. Ride the wheels off, I say." - FeministStripper
What else is ther to do when your body gets tired?
" Remember during each test there is some girl in Australia jealous of you who wants to do what you're doing."- Lilithmorrigan
" If you're young and sexy, why not spend a few years Shopping and Fucking? Life is short, but youth is shorter. Ride the wheels off, I say." - FeministStripper





Its not that I don't like grinding, but as others have mentioned, I prefer it in brief moderated doses. Nothing but grinding can get pretty boring in a hurry, and if the dancer grinds hard, it is very uncomfortable. It isn't going to get me off, and besides I'm there to be entertained, not serviced.
I'd like to feel like I just had a sensual time when the dance is over, not like I just lost a wrestling match. Some gals have literally knocked the wind out of me because all they did was grind (not to mention bounce) on top of me for the whole song.
Teasing, flirting, and socializing are part of a good lap dance. A good dancer should incorportate these in her repertoire to make it a more complete experience. Sometimes "less" is actually more.
Former SCJ now in rehab.





I agree with Susan Wayward and Juliette.
I grind. How much I grind depends on the club. Most of my customers like me because I play with their hair, run my nails up and down their thighs, etc. Some customers don't appreciate that. Then I grind.
Lena



I like a little grinding, but it can hurt if a dancer puts too much of her weight on you. If she's going to do that much for me, I generally try to negotiate for her to give me head or a handjob or something more satisfying.
A fat chick is like a big, warm, comfortable pillow that you can also have sex with....
Hehehehehe....you're funny, trying to upset us now are you? Negotiate? In my experience, they just whip it out and try to stick it into whichever body part of mine is closer to their crotch!
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Originally Posted by Mia M



That has not been my experience. Usually the dancer will provide some pretty clear clues that she is willing to blow you for a price and she will be the one initiating any sort of "whipping it out" activity.Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=8;threadid=5864;start=msg65855#msg65855 date=1074896709
A fat chick is like a big, warm, comfortable pillow that you can also have sex with....
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