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    Default SC Desires on the wane

    Howdy all -

    I guess I was never a classic "junkie" for SCs (and no, I never had a problem with anyone who is/was). My Sc going started as a result of the sudden end of my marriage, and was a way to help me deal with pretty much with the suckiness of my life after that. In the beginning, it was equally pure enjoyable entertainment and a catharsis. It was indeed therapeutical in a good way.

    That was almost three years ago. Over time, little by little, the need for the therapeutic part has waned. Time heals a lot of wounds (but not necessarily all of them). I have found that the more my SC attendance has become pure entertainment, the fewer times I have been going. Over the last 4 months, I have popped into a SC four times (once per month). Its sorta odd. Since it has gradually turned into a pleasurable frivolity, I have found myself desiring to go less and less. I haven’t lost my appreciation for the female form, but I have prioritized it differently.

    I guess that means my shell is crumbling, my walls falling a bit. That’s good, right? LOL. Well, the offshoot has been I have felt my participation here has been becoming less and less relevant, hence my slowing of posts lately. As a customer and not a insider like a DJ or owner etc I feel that anything I have to say should be current and not "Oh I remember when I used to go..".

    So my curiosity has been perked a bit in regards to this. Do you folks - male and female alike - think that posters here need to have some current relevance to make anything they say credible? Do "nostalgia posters" have an acceptable place on Stripperweb?

    Like I said, I am just curious about it, partially because I personally care about posting serious stuff that isn’t gratuitous. That’s just me . I know no one will say to someone "What do you know, you haven’t been in a SC in years" but I personally would find someone who was like that annoying, especially if they came off as an expert of some sort.

    Just a bit of musing and rambling. Whatcha think?

    PJ

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    Hell PJ, going once a month is more frequently than I go...post away!

    I think it only becomes a problem when it's been so many decades that all of your experiences are out of date. Such as: "Did I ever tell you the time I was at a speakeasy and some young flapper wanted a whole nickel to watch her do the Charleston?"

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    Hi PJ,
    I don't care how much you go, you have been a big help and comfort to me here, and I bet I'm not the only one. Some of people who post here have never even been inside of a sc, and their thoughts are just as important as anyone elses. There are many discussions that don't even involve sc's, and your wisdom is apprieciated. Stick with it, and thanks for everything.
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    Hi PJ,

    Please keep posting here! Your posts make me laugh.






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    Nope.. Sorry PJ. This thread is to be locked as you havent spent the required club quota amount for the week. Therefore your words are invalid.

    NEXT!... :o
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    PJ, of course you should still post. New girls andthose who arent dancers post and we accept everyone here. Its what makes this place so much fun hehhe

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    [glow=red,2,300][/glow]Hey silly,it sounds to me like you just have a heart.As far as I'm concerned,there's not enough of that these days & everyone should welcome it when they get the chance.
    From the looks of things around here,everyone is more than thrilled to accept your heart,so keep that keyboard rockin'
    Take care of yourself Hugs to ya!
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    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=1;threadid=5924;start=msg64396#msg64396 date=1074494990
    Nope.. Sorry PJ. This thread is to be locked as you havent spent the required club quota amount for the week. Therefore your words are invalid.

    NEXT!... :o
    LOL PC...

    PJ, You are truly wonderful to have around the boards. I don't care how often you go to clubs, your sense of humor and intelligence would most definitely be missed here.
    KEEP POSTING! lol


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    You are also a bartender, not to mention being a gentleman of rare and incisive intelligence, and thus have more to offer in the way of input than an ordinary customer type.

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    PJ, PLEASE, why would you even think such a thing? Of course you would be welcome here whether or not you ever go to a SC again. We have other members who aren't in the biz or really junkies, and we have discussions that aren't always SC related.

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    SC desires on the wane?? Oh no, get to therapy quick!

    Just kidding. I'm glad to hear you're feeling more positive towards life in the realm of the 'ordinary' world. Always a good thing! I love this board because it's about dancers with thoughts and feelings, so it's relevent for those who realize and appreciate that to write here. When I retire from dancing I still want to visit this site. All of our experiences are varied and we're all at different chapters in our connection to dancing/dancers/strip clubs - and you never know who might benefit from what you have to say. So keep posting!
    Let your indulgence set me free. - Shakespeare

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    PJ, I personally would be offended if you left, thinking that we don't want you here because you don't go as much. Big flippin deal. I'm not even working in a club right now and nobody's cared so far. We all love you and we would miss you horribly if you left. You help me alot and you are just too funny.

    Trust me, DON'T GO ANYWHERE!

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    Besides if you leave we would not have a spleen lover anymore!
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    I relate to the drifting part, PJ.

    But you've got killer humor. Let me go before you do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by naughtynikkilynn link=board=1;threadid=5924;start=msg64406#msg64406 date=1074496884
    [glow=red,2,300][/glow]Hey silly,it sounds to me like you just have a heart.As far as I'm concerned,there's not enough of that these days & everyone should welcome it when they get the chance.
    From the looks of things around here,everyone is more than thrilled to accept your heart,so keep that keyboard rockin'
    Take care of yourself Hugs to ya!
    XXX,
    Nikki Lynn
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    Posts are posts, dude. I don't necessarily live inside a SC (although I wish), but still post quite frequently.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Prester_John link=board=1;threadid=5924;start=msg64311#msg64311 date=1074478996
    Do you folks - male and female alike - think that posters here need to have some current relevance to make anything they say credible? Do "nostalgia posters" have an acceptable place on Stripperweb?
    I'm very history curious, so I wish that we had more of those kind of posters. I'd love to hear more stories about the way things were back in the day. But c'mon PJ, you're not that old.

    My friend, your humor and wisdom has been a true asset to this forum. Contribute when and where you feel neccesary, but please don't ponder the thought of leaving because you feel out of place. This joint just wouldn't be the same. Shoot, even at one visit per month, you have more "relevance" talking about SC's than I do. However infrequent your clubgoing habits get, feel free to stick around.
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    Don't leave us...Intelligence is so hard to find!
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    fugeddaboudit ! (John I know that you know what I mean). Besides, there's nobody else here that I can discuss ancient historical anecdotes with !

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    What? Mongoose, you! Why would you leave? Nostalgia is the greatest-you supply we demand.
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    Stick around....we'll bribe you with a free 1/2 price lapdance when you come to our town....hehehe..maybe we can even get the manager to throw in a free t-shirt....hmmmm....seriously, you have made me feel very welcome here, thanks for the memories

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    HOLY SCHMAKERAL! ng:

    I thought I was asking sort of an open ended abstratc question, and it turned into a PJ-Love Fest! :

    IN all seriousness, I really am taken aback by your responses. As far as I knew I was just a schlub who posted here, and sorta hoped his posts were of some value (be it making someone laugh or trying to give a measure of insight). I NEVER expected all these kind words. NEVER.

    Well, I guess that sort of settles it. I guess I will keep posting as long as I feel I am giving the Forum something of value, and I hope if I start being annoying someone will have the gumption to honestly tell me.

    You guys all put a smile on my face. Its not a smile like this -> , or like this -> . Its more of like this ->

    For the unexpected kind words of you all - I THANK YOU SO MUCH.

    PJ (alright, I am blushing. thanks for making me "less macho" now folks )

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    Don't even think of not posting...your one of the few men in the world that make me smile....with the exception of Carlos..i have a pic of his butt in a frame by my bed.

    Plus i'm gonna staple you to your chair..so see there is no escape. :fucker:

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    PJ - I know where you're coming from. I used to go to SCs a lot. I had just started my own firm and business was slow, so I would kill a couple of afternoons a week in a SC. I enjoyed it, had a lot of fun, got to hang out with dancers, and thought life was pretty good. Then, business picked up, I met the lady who became my wife, and SCs suddenly seemed a lot less important. Until recently, if I went 3x/year it was a lot. So, I have a lot of "I remember how it was when..." posts. The only reason I've really started to go back on a limited basis is that my wife is dancing again.

    Part of the reason I lost interest, I think, is that I was moving forward and the SC environment wasn't. I mean, lets be honest, once you've seen 1,000 pairs of tits, they don't change all that much. I wasn't there for a sexual thrill, that part of my life was going fine. I wasn't there for an intellectual thrill, the dancers with whom I conversed on anything more than a superficial level were friends outside the club and/or drifted away as my relationship intensified. So, SCs sort of lost their place in my life, except for the occasional "I really, really need a break from work (or life)" day.

    That doesn't mean you don't have things to offer. You've had a lot of SC experience and almost certainly relate to dancers and the environment a lot differently than your average newbie. To me, SW isn't about relating all your SC experiences, its about interacting with other people with a common interest. And maybe getting to know dancers and how they think when they are not in a club so that you can improve at treating them like real people.

    So, post on! As evidenced by the other posts, you have lots of support here.

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