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    Just curious about whether or not some of you get jealous of other dancers? I was in a SC and talked to a dancer for a while, even had a few dances with her but liked talking to her more. At the end of the night she told me she was going to be performing in a town I said I was going to be in for business that weekend. To make a long story short I went to see her on the weekend an d while she was on stage I got a dance from another girl and she flipped out. She threw my drink at me and tried to slap me so I just left. Mind you this was only the second time I had ever met her and I had got a dance from her earlier, I just want to know if dancers generally expect you to stick with them once you spend some money on them or was she just a freak.

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    She's a freak... and not worth your tips.

    You are paying money to be entertained... not to be some woman's man-bitch. The next time something like that happens, inform the dancer that man-bitch services are available, but the tips will have to flow the opposite direction.

    Seriously, there are dancers out there that have YOUR best interests in mind for your entertainment spending. Don't waste them on the one's that don't have any respect for you or your time.

    My favorite dancer almost always inquires if there is another dancer in the club that tickles my fancy that I'd like a warm introduction to for a lapdance. This kind of dancer earns my respect and also earns my regular visits and tips.
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    She's a freak. Maybe she was drunk or had some history with that other dancer, either way is no reason to take it out on you. There are plenty of non-psycho dancers your money is better spent on.

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    Does she ever spend time with any other customers? Of course she does. She's being unreasonable. If you really like her you might want to give her a second chance - talk to her about it and find out why she was so upset. It might have been something else entirely, maybe someone else had just dumped all over her. We all have bad days.
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    I agree with PC and Mariah. She sounds like she has severe issues.

    Unfortunately, I've seen that a lot in clubs. Other girls get very territorial. They can't seem to grasp the concept that a customer is NOT owned, just as they are NOT owned.

    Skip her, and give your money to a girl deserving of it, and your attention.

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    Sometimes dancers are quick to label a guy as 'her' customer, only because she's talked to him for a few minutes and done a dance or two. If I go up to said guys table, she comes back, sees me sitting there and gets huffy--as if I 'stole' him away. It's a strip club, we are strippers and customers, we are not on dates. The guys are there for fun and to see naked women, often many naked women, it's nothing to get huffy about. As I see it, if the guy does not want me there, or if he prefers someone else, he can tell me so. I ALWAYS ask before I just sit on someones lap, and I never go up to a guy if I know he has a dancer who just went to the ladies room. But sometimes that happens, and sometimes the guy would rather have me sit there than her. Its nothing personal or intentional, no one has stolen anybody. Customers can get dances from as many or as few girls as they choose. I do think girls get way too touchy over this. When it happens to me I say, "Have a good time, I'll check on you later." I smile and go to the next guy. No biggie, no tantrums about some bitch 'stealing' my customer.

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    No never was jealous of any other dancer. Have seen some jealous of others tho. Not good.

    This one is a strange person. Gosh, i would be scared for her customers.
    A tad dramatic. No way, knock her off your list.

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    I have gotten a little enviouse of some of the moves that a particular dancer can do. She is absolutely awsome, but I asked if she'd mind showing me a few. maybe thats different then jelousey. Your dancer acted rediculous, and as I am pretty vengefull, I'd probly do everything I could to get her fired. But then again, I tend not to forgive people who knowingly step way over their boundaries, you may be a much kinder person then I.
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    Shes a freak but yes I do get jealous of other dancers - usually the ones with really great bodies who always make alot of money- I cant help it being a girl. The differnace is though I keep ot to myself.

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    yep freak.. usually thats somthing you do to a customer that has been around for years.. and even i wouldnt go THAT far.. Yeesh!

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    That girl is whacked! Especially because that was only the second time you had seen her. You know though It happens a lot. Two weeks ago I went traveling to an old club where I used to be a house girl about 2 years ago. The owner was very happy to see me and the bartenders and bouncers all remembered me. It was great to see them too and if it wasn't for them I would not have had anyone to talk to besides the patrons (if they let me). There were seven girls and me and only one would talk to me. She was new and had only been dancing 5 months. She was really nice. I tried to talk to all the girls but it was as if they were silently saying "get lost, we don't want you here". I'm a "good girl" and was taught by the old school ways. I saw no reason for them to set me apart. You know, I didn't do anything about it either. I felt as though I had stepped on sacred ground and had better just be careful. In turn then I didn't make as much as I could have. Why? I asked myself. I understand that we all are working hard at the same job, why then make it hard for others when you know how hard it is. If you work together as a team it works for everyone. As long as one girl is making money, in reality, so is everyone else. It spreads, it rolls, it makes more money. This girl you met obviously doesn't see it that way. A normal dancer with a group of other dancers (aka-team) would have probably said "so and so ' gives a great dance too, shall I get her? It comes back around in the end and everyone wins. I've worked with some georgeous feature dancers and realized the men all came in to see her. I went right in line after her because one girl can not handle all those men alone! It makes money for all of us. We are all different thank god and men like all different kinds of women, thank god. We are after all- our own worst critics. I feel as though I constantly have to prove that I am a nice and decent person cause I think that everyone thinks I'm going to be a stuck up bitch when I simply walk in the club and I've been told that as well, they say" I thought you were going to be a diva bitch." All for how a person looks? Then again your dancer may have had one of those really really bad days and just flipped that day too.

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    Next time you see her, hand her a bottle of Prozac...and just say, "Hey, you dropped these last time I saw you." And walk away...heehee

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    ^^^ LOL

    If I were you, I'd NEVER go see her again. That kind of behavior is for little kids. Sure, some girls get a bit jealous, but they can keep it inside. WTF was that all about, throwing a drink at you? What is she 5???
    Pfffffff
    You should avoid her, and like the others mentioned, give your money to someone else who deserves it and doesnt think she owns you.

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