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    is it ok if i go into a strip club once every three to four weeks to see only the same dancer? what about when other girls come and talk to me and i tell them that im there to see my regular dancer? is it ok only to get a dance, then leave or should i stick around for a little while longer?

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    It's your spending money to be spent however you see fit. If there is a particular dancer that has earned that exclusively, more power to both of you.

    When approached for lapdances from other dancers, it's polite to just say "No thank you" so as they can quickly move on to the next customer. If they start inquiring or hassling, then yes- telling them you are waiting for a particular dancer is fair game. More often than not, they will ask who it is and possibly offer to go find her for you.

    As far as when you are finished with your dancer, if you want to leave or stay is up to you. I usually stick around for an exclusive dancer's stage show so as I can additionally seed stage tips as well as be an instigator of crowd cheering. If someone has earned my exclusive visit, she's also earned my goading her on in an effort to stir the other guys to stage tip or draw more interest for dances.
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    It's common procedure for a guy to go to a club just to see one girl, it happens all the time and nobody thinks anything of it, the girls all have their regulars. But don't be cheap, tip the other girls too when they're on stage.
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    Yes ... you are what is called the classic Regular and your loyalty is apreciated. When other girls aproach you just let them know you're waiting for so and so. Most likely they will go find her for you if she doesn't already know you are there.

    Remember you are the customer .... if you want a particular girl then thats who you should get. Once your time together is over it's quite alright to leave if you are inclined to. You dont have to of course

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    It's your dollar spend it as you wish. Be nice and have fun. If you find a lady you like to spend all your money on, go for it.
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    No, actually you have to buy a dance from anyone who approaches you.

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    I see this all the time. It's annoying to me since I am new and only have 2 regulars, but really it is your money and there's nothing wrong with it. I guess thats how a girl gets regulars though. But mine don't just come see me. They see three or four of us, invite us all over to sit down, maybe offer a bite to eat, and usually gets a dance from all of us wether it be one at a time or more. Though I only have two, I love when my regulars come in, they're a blast to hang out with.
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    I have to agree- if you're there to see someone in particular, it is your right to tell the other girls you're waiting on her...Actually had one girl (God, I wanted to punch her lights out) who, once my regular had told her he was waiting on me, said "You sure you don't want to have a little fun beforehand?" (The reason I know this is that he told me.) But, yeah, usually the girls are courteous enough to leave you alone if you state it firmly. If it's me you've said that to, I try and find her and tell her you're waiting on her, or will let you know if she's not in today.
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    Nothing wrong with what you are doing.
    Guys at my club wait 3 or 4 hours for girls and thats crazy, but hey its their money and their time. WHo am I to judge???


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    Youngsta, like everyone is saying, its your money...spend it as you choose. I would suggest, however, that you at least keep your eyes open for new potential dancing partners. The day will come (most likely) when you will either get tired of her or she will blow you off sometime for a guy willing to outspend you and thus totally crushing your world. Its a natural evolutionary thing. Having another dancer waiting in the wings will help smooth the transitition and ease the pain. You may want to go to the club sometime when you know shes not working and scope out the other talent. Just my opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deshale link=board=8;threadid=5941;start=msg64554#msg64554 date=1074542139
    Yes ... you are what is called the classic Regular and your loyalty is apreciated. When other girls aproach you just let them know you're waiting for so and so. Most likely they will go find her for you if she doesn't already know you are there.

    Remember you are the customer .... if you want a particular girl then thats who you should get. Once your time together is over it's quite alright to leave if you are inclined to. You dont have to of course
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    You are not obligated to buy from every girl who comes your way, but if you want to buy from other girls besides your "regular" one, go for it. It's not as if you are dating the girl you go to see is it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Christy link=board=8;threadid=5941;start=msg71224#msg71224 date=1076224872
    I have to agree- if you're there to see someone in particular, it is your right to tell the other girls you're waiting on her...Actually had one girl (God, I wanted to punch her lights out) who, once my regular had told her he was waiting on me, said "You sure you don't want to have a little fun beforehand?" (The reason I know this is that he told me.) But, yeah, usually the girls are courteous enough to leave you alone if you state it firmly. If it's me you've said that to, I try and find her and tell her you're waiting on her, or will let you know if she's not in today.
    I actually had one girl tell my my fav wasnt go to be there, even after i saw her walk in only 10 minutes earlier.
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    Hey, I do this all the time. Sure why not get a few dances or chat to a few people. Your fav will usually come and stop by. Mine does. If she ignores you most of the night buy some dances from her later. That way you at least get a few minutes of down time with her. I run into this situation all the time.

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    I don't see anything at all wrong with getting a dance or two from differey girls while waiting for your favorite to appear. After all, it's a STRIP CLUB...and we certainly aren't all there to be faithful to one another...
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