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    Lilith, thanks for trying. But in this particular case the place only has bar stools, there are no tables or other seats, which is pretty comon in the neighborhood type clubs that I prefer. Everyone sits at the bar. Girls come around and sit down next to you. They usually ask first. But I guess this girl figured that since she knew me a little she didn't have to.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=8;threadid=6010;start=msg65646#msg65646 date=1074834838
    I usually say i'm waiting on a specific Dancer (It's usually even true).
    When a customer would use this line on me I would immediatly offer to go let his choice of dancer know he was waiting on her. I made several nice tips that way from the honest guys. And it was quite funny to see the ones who were weren't being straight up squirm

    I would much prefer customers be polite but honest when I approach- if I'm not your type just say so- something along the lines of "you're not really my type but thanks anyway." works for me because then I won't waste my (or the customers) time right then and I won't come back either.


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    Quote Originally Posted by mark069 link=board=8;threadid=6010;start=msg66697#msg66697 date=1075054304

    Also, if a dancer starts dancing for me without even asking if I want a dance and I don't stop her, there is no way I am paying her a red cent for that dance.
    Though I don't agree at all with the idea of just dancing without getting the ok FIRST from the customer-- I also don't agree with allowing her dance all over you and then refusing to pay for it. If you don't want her to dance then STOP her as soon as she begins and say harshly "I did not ask for this dance and do not want it either." If you let her continue dance then you owe her the money.
    Just another good reason for the pay before the dance starts policy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rayanna link=board=8;threadid=6010;start=msg66862#msg66862 date=1075076705
    When a customer would use this line on me I would immediatly offer to go let his choice of dancer know he was waiting on her. I made several nice tips that way from the honest guys. And it was quite funny to see the ones who were weren't being straight up squirm
    I dunno how many guys are like me, but I absolutely HATE having another dancer go fetch someone I've come to see exclusively.

    As stupid as it may seem, I always try to pick as random and unsuspecting a night and time slot in order to offer the greatest degree of surprise. I might show up one week on Tuesday at 10PM, the next week Saturday a short while before closing time.. then the next week on a Thursday right at shift-change... etc.etc.

    What I live for is the look of surprise when she comes out without any prior knowledge of me being there. On what are occasionally slow nights, seeing the look change on her face as she comes out heaving a sigh in anticipation for the dry hustle, then spotting me.. priceless. And I absolutely do NOT want her doing any extra primping, outfit change or fixing herself up on account of me. And if she's enjoying a much deserved break, it really pisses me off for someone to go backstage and interrupt that.

    The few times an annoying dancer has been insistant on figuring out who I'm waiting for, I've damn near had to drop tackle them to get them to understand "leave her alone, I am going to wait"..

    So if you are offering to go fetch a dancer, ASK if this is what the customer wants. There are going to be occasions when this is not the desired thing for a customer waiting patiently at the bar.
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    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=8;threadid=6010;start=msg66876#msg66876 date=1075078693

    I dunno how many guys are like me, but I absolutely HATE having another dancer go fetch someone I've come to see exclusively...............................
    The few times an annoying dancer has been insistant on figuring out who I'm waiting for.................
    Well, I said I OFFERED to get their dancer of choice, gee I never thought offering to help a customer not sit there waiting on the one dancer he was interested in --who btw was usualy sitting in the dressingroom bitching about it being slow - was annoying

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    I almost always say yes, sometimes I buy a dance and sometimes I don't; it depends on the dancer's personality.

    But IMO, if a dancer asks if she can sit with you, and then expects you to buy a dance or pay her for her time, she is out of line.

    The dancer is taking a chance that her charms and a little time will help her make money. There is nothing wrong with that and it's a good idea IMO, but if it doesn't work out, it's on her. She should leave gracefully once she knows the customer isn't going to spend money.

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    Pole, I'm in agreement with Rayanna. In a crowded bar, most guys would prefer to not take the chance that she might spot him... and perhaps [won't spot him. Occasionally I am told that the ATF will be along (or whatever), which is fine by me. More often I get some variation of "Would you please? If you have time and happen to spot her, that is." But I work in a big club. I've on occasion had a regular wait for an hour before I noticed him. At the smaller club I also work at, asking if he needs me to let a girl know he is here is unnecessary.

    However, I always go by whatever wishes the customer indicates, be it finding her immediately in exchange for a ten or leaving her to get around to him eventually.
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    Well, Rayanna and Lilith- you two don't fit into the "drop tackle" category then! (bummer... heh)

    It has, a time or two, been a case of "Well, how much is my silence worth?" shennanigans on occasion too. LOL
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    "Wanna dance?"
    If I don't want one, I politely reply "No, thank you."

    "Want some company?"
    If I don't think I'll be buying a dance from her, I politely say something to this effect: "I'm not planning on getting a dance, so I don't want to waste your time. But, if you're just wanting to take a break, you're welcome to sit." If they decide to sit anyway, then I always offer to buy them a drink. Sometimes, it leads to a dance, if I've enjoyed the company.

    I don't have the heart to tell a girl she's not my type, unless I really don't like her and she has become a real pain in the ass-- that's goes in the outside world, too!

    There's been only one time when I've let a dancer plop herself on my lap and start dancing without asking. I had been tipping the other girls onstage, but not her--- she was totally my type beyond belief, but I felt intimidated. OMG, she was so amazing (she is the club's ad girl). Maybe she was getting me back for not tipping her onstage, but there was no way I could say "no." I was speechless and paralyzed. My friends' jaws were on the floor! She can have my money anytime.
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    I dont understand why dancers sometimes get so upset when a guy simply says no thank.. im sure its kindof.. hmm embarassing.. but moving on would be more professional then drilling... honestly. But I have 85% success rate so not much bugs me


    But anyhoo..

    "sure have a seat, but im not interested in any dances right now" is a great way to say no, usually ill sit for 1 min introuduce myself and then tell him if he needs anything or has a mind change he knows where to find me and i go on my merry little way..

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