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    I was wondering how everyone feels about being married and dancing? I personally feel that entertaining is an art and as long as you aren't conducting yourself in a super scandalous manner there isn't anything wrong with it. I would also like to know if there are any tips to keep in mind.
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    I work with a few women that are married. I think it's ok to do if you like your job, but not ok if it's just to support some deadbeat husband who can't hold a job himself. Tip, don't tell him the extreamly dirty things that go on at work, he'll think it happens all the time, and constantly bug you, or try to get you to quit. Better to keep those things to yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fawn link=board=1;threadid=6022;start=msg65654#msg65654 date=1074836315
    I work with a few women that are married. I think it's ok to do if you like your job, but not ok if it's just to support some deadbeat husband who can't hold a job himself. Tip, don't tell him the extreamly dirty things that go on at work, he'll think it happens all the time, and constantly bug you, or try to get you to quit. Better to keep those things to yourself.
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    I'm married and my husband is cool with it.
    Like the car, I'm exotic, erotic, and expensive....

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    i didn't start dancing until after i was married and had 2 children. my husband was the one who helped me get started and fully supports me dancing. he is a dj at a club so its nice that he can understand what i can sometimes go through during a tough day/night.
    although i have to agree with fawn.... telling him every detail that goes on at work will more than likely lead to jealousy in time. even though my hubby knows first hand what goes on with other girls we do not work the same club/schedule and i don't tell him every single detail. but sometimes i let him in on alittle bit keeps him on his toes hahaha.


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    I'm married to a dancer, and I trust her. It pays the bills and she enjoys it (most days) and she's good at it, so its fine with me.

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    When I first started out (During my first marriage), my then-husband was NOT okay with it. He tried to be. I was pretty much at fault, as I had started out waitressing, and within 2 weeks, I was up on stage dancing. So, while he thought I was waitressing, it was cool for him.. lol.. But, when you decide to drop in and visit your wife at work, and find her up on stage instead of waiting tables, it tends to be a shock. He was okay with it as long as he could be I suppose.

    My husband now, is wonderful. As a matter of fact, he's the one who convinced me to get back up on stage. He has absolutely no problems with it at all, and is confident that after I'm through with my JOB for the night, I come home to him. He works 48-54 hours a week, so we're both doing our part to support our little family.

    It really does help to have a good, supporting significant other. Glad I found one.


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    If you still honor your marital vows, nothing should be wrong with it.

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    I met my husband while we were both workign at the same club. It's great that he's been in the business (DJ and bouncer) so he definatley understands my job. I have learned that there are some things that he doen't want to know about. Not that I do any extras or break rules but he has no desire to see or hear about me giving dances. He know it's part of my job but doesn't want the details.

    As for how being married can effect your job, it's your decision to let people know that you are married. i used to take my rings off and tell customers I wasn't married but a few people knew and it can get hard trying to remember who knows and who doesn't. One day my fingers swelled and I couldn't get my rings off so I decided to just leave them on. It hasn't really affected my money. When guys ask if I have a boyfriend I'll tell them I have a husband but haven't found a decent boyfriend yet!

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    If you'd like a customer point of view, it really doesn't make any difference to me one way or the other. I feel the same way I do when the girl is going to school, that maybe my money is helping someone accomplish a better future, particulaly if she has children.
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    Thanks for all of your input. I just got married this past July and haven't danced in about a year. (Recovering from an accident) My hubby is super cool about everything. He always pays for stuff and since I am going to start school in March I have decided to contribute what I can. I am looking forward to getting back into the swing of things

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    Plenty of girls I know are married and dance, as well as myself. Just as the other girls say, as long as you honor your wedding vows, its okay. Don't lie to your husband about anything that may happen in there though

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    My hubbys fine with it and so am I..we met while i was dancing and he was next door dj'ing the "Alternative Club"...He has since dj'ed/bounced and managed 2 stripclubs..so he's totally just like one of the girls..lol..I think sometimes it may be easier if the guy is in the entertainment business of some sort...that way he experiences reality of it..unlike say an "accountant". We don't have any jealousy issues..between us like a lot of couples do. We just have other issues..lol..Who's smarter (i am). Who's better looking (i am). Why is his head is square? You know important stuff like that...lol

    Geez how many of us here are married to djs anyways?..lol

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    Hi Ladies,
    I am not officially 'married' by definito\ion yet, but I am engaged and have been living together as a couple for four years. I agree that having a supportive other half that you can count on at home really helps after a tough night. He trusts me 100% about what I do at work, but like others mentioned, doesn't want to hear every detail...we discuassed things we are and are not comfortable in the begining and since then he trusts me. As for the ring issue,,,I too used to take mine off for work, but then one day forgot about it and workrd with it on...belive it or not I have since been making MORE money on average than before when I told guys I was single. (I am sure this is just a coincidence) I find it keeps those annoying guys away who just want to date you and not spend money on dances. Guys who realise it is a job and that, no, I don't really love them, don't seem to care if I am married or not cause they are not there to pick up.
    Really makes no difference to them but all the difference to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HolidayOnStage link=board=1;threadid=6022;start=msg65916#msg65916 date=1074909880
    I think sometimes it may be easier if the guy is in the entertainment business of some sort...that way he experiences reality of it..unlike say an "accountant".

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    married, husband knows it is a business and trusts me completly. has no problem with it. oh and he has a great job!
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