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    Default boobs.. personal situation:

    i love this board btw

    ok so when i was younger i had tiny pert boobies
    the guy i was with was into huge jugs
    so i dreamed of getting a boob job

    then i got pregnant
    they grew wonderfully woo hoo!
    i breast fed... my son is healthy woo hoo!
    then they shrunk ..and at 22 my boobie skin fell like an old ladies.. back to being tiny ..this time stretched and saggy like a 90 yr old
    i know cause i used to work in a nursing home!
    my regular doc AND gyn told me you breast fed for your son now do something for you! and encouraged me to get a ba
    so i saved $$ (and became single again)
    and got me a BA
    saline
    and they looked EXCELLENT
    my nipples were huge.. stretched though and dont get hard like they used to and have these bumps
    but my figure looked great!
    so now im with a new man .. who is truly great but..
    though he wont say anything i KNOW he likes real boobs and nipple play (and mine are all stretched and bumpy) .. he BARELY touches my boobs
    like NEVER
    we've talked about it and he's like oh i love them then rubs them cause i say so
    but basically ..and you can tell.. hes very uninterested in them
    now i wish i had my old tiny perky ones back!
    he's totally into j. aniston and h. grahm ..all the celebs with natural boobs
    and totally ignores mine
    I got saline.. they do ripple and are hard
    im thinking of getting silicone as my doc said my skin is real thin and he'd put silcone in there for me
    i know it sounds like im trying to please the man in my life and not myself
    but its for myself as i want my boobs touched!!! so i want them to look good for him
    so here i am ..contemplating silicone... is there anyway to get the young pert looking boobies with silicone? and what about my large stretched bumpy non hardening nipples?
    i know i sound retarded but boobs are so sensual and it sucks having sex and them being ignored.. a real turn off to me
    whats the best way for me to get natural looking boobs and nipples
    i know "love your body" and i do .. i will lie there and rub them and play with them and put lotions and potions and wear sexy shirts but nothing
    he wont pay any attention to them and when he does its obvious it is forced
    i just want him to like them and oogle at them like he does other peoples
    i coudl get them removed i suppose? and have a lift? theyd be teeny tiny though and theyd have to cut alot of stretched skin away
    i cant get on this board alot so if you want to email me that would be great
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    its messed up.. i had small perkies and the guy i was with didnt like them
    now i have nice jugs and the guy im with now prefers the small and perky
    its like my boobs never please!!

    are there plastic surgery techniques that i dont know of?
    sorry im long winded thank you though for listening

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    well ..i dont know what to tell you other than there is no magic potion to make your boobs come back..(sorry to sound so harsh ...i never had implants but i have felt a couple of them and to me silicone implants are the closest feel to natural boob (no offense ladies with saline) also it depend IMHO..if its unders or overs ...i hope you are doing this for yourself and not the man you are with as it seemed you did in the first relationship (if not then you should not have any regrets)...if this guy loves you it shouldn't matter if your boobs are as hard as rocks ....i think you could do a research on silicone on the net ...i dont see the diffrence between silicones and saline (healthwise)..i say if you are going to get implants why not do them and make them as real as possible ...therefore i would most deffinately go with silicone ...but to each his own ...good luck on whatever you choose to do
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    Default Re:boobs.. personal situation:

    You're also going to have issues if you choose to reduce the size of your implants, because this will either leave loose skin (the so-called Snoopy effect, where your breasts look like Snoopy's nose on top of your implants) or will leave scars as a result of lift surgery to surgically remove your loose breast skin. You can always consider smaller implants and lift surgery when you're ready to retire from dancing, when the resulting scars won't negatively affect your income potential. However, if you substitute the same size or slightly larger silicone implants for your saline implants, you won't have any loose skin problems and your breasts will look, feel and move much more naturally.

    I would say that your problem lies more with your choice of guys than with your choice of implants !

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    Default Re:boobs.. personal situation:

    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie link=board=5;threadid=6029;start=msg65932#msg65932 date=1074913570
    I would say that your problem lies more with your choice of guys than with your choice of implants !
    Ditto ! I will email you the website of a dotor that offers different shaped implants.
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    Default Re:boobs.. personal situation:

    But what do YOU want? You talked about getting implants, because of a man. You talk about taking them out, because of another man.

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    Come on, does every part of your body have to be an exact fit to the expectations of the person you are with? If you go down that road you'll end up looking like Michael Jackson. It doesn't sound like the guy you are with is complaining. Maybe he loves YOU and not your chest.

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    I think your spending way to much time trying to please a guy..who is obviously lazy in the bedroom. Women spend way to much time trying to squeeze into this package that their "supposedly great guy" wants. Ok..Does this guy have a six pack abs going on, Does he have a 10" dick that is 3" thick. I bet he would freek if you woudn't pay attention to that..since it's not what you "want"..lol

    You got implants because of a natural thing that happens to women who have babies and breast feed. These men who obviously let you know what they "prefer" for women and your not it...the men are Assholes...You have expressed your feelings about this and still NOTHING...so apparently your feelings come second to him getting off....Maybe you should consider a different type of man in your life. INSTEAD of mutilating your body just for sex..it's not everything in the world you know..


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    This story makes me sad. I love having my nipples caressed also. I've been with guys who gloss over that area a little too much, and it is not a good thing.

    I don't know if I'm tripping, but I though my boobs got fulller and prettier after I breastfed (I breastfed for 3 years).

    Boobs amaze me in that they are so different from woman to woman. Like hair. And like hair, we always seem to want what we haven't got.

    I don't know if a man who doesn't love every bit of you is worth having as a boyfriend. When I'm in love with someone, I don't pick and choose the pieces to love. I don't care if he's circumsized or not. I don't care what size and shape his penis is. That's not what it's about.

    I don't have an easy answer. It sounds to me like this person is not sure what *she* wants except that she wants to please her man... but in my life that route (changes to please a man) has always been a disappointing one.

    I have a girlfriend with gorgeous natural large breasts. She says wishes she didn't because people comment on them, think if she wears a tank top she's a "slut." She's beautiful, voluptuous, but thinks she's too fat. argh!

    The grass is always greener, isn't it.

    It makes me mad that (beautiful) women feel they can't be loved for who they are. What do *you* want? Do you even know?

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    Default Re:boobs.. personal situation:

    thanks for the replies
    it really does boil down to me being happy with me and nothing else really mattering...
    they touch the boobies or they dont oh well
    but sadly life isnt that perfect
    i can tell myself to be that way but reality i do care
    its not that i want boobs that make the man in my life go whoo mama and cant get enough of them
    its more .. i think and always have that breasts are a beautiful sensual thing... and as part of lovemaking makes it fantastic
    i want to experience the full sex experience.. loving the whole body
    and when my breasts are obviously ignored there is a missing hole there
    i dont want to go through life never having my breasts touched or nipples sucked blah blah
    unless i have to TELL them too .and feeling they are just doing it cause of me .. when they make it OBVIOUS they prefer smaller natural ones with nipples that get hard
    its like a slap in the face that oogling media chicks gets him off.. they are behind a screen and yet i can be naked in the room with my big boobies right there and theres no affection for them
    i guess its a toss up
    find a man that likes the boobs but then maybe doesnt offer other things to me
    or stay with this man and get all he has to offer which is a pretty big heart.. and always feel like i have a plastic fake chest that turns him off

    i want to feel comfortable in my body and i dont .. i also lost alot of weight so my skin is thinner..
    i guess i know even i would prefer some heather grahm boobies to these
    i may look into getting the silicone .. so im more comfortable with "me"
    and leave it at that
    reality is .. if i got them and then my bf went hog wild over them it wouldnt make me feel better
    it would have me thinking.. geesh see you didnt like the others all along why did you pretend blah blah
    yes im a ranter
    i really appreciate this chat
    the business we are in enjoys a beautiful body
    so you are all sensitive to this
    whereas if i talk to others about it .. there isnt the same understanding

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    Your response made me feel bad about what I'd said. Kind of makes me look inward, too, and wonder whether there's something my wife is longing for that I'm too stupid to pick up on.

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    I hear you, and too many guys who want big, small perky saggy. Gee. Do whats good for you.

    And also look at Kate Hudson, Paris Hilton etc. No boobs, and probably wont get implants, they have other great attributes, (ok Paris, bad example dads money.)

    Play up what you have, and the boobs become less of a worry! What guy would not die for a lady with a kick ass personality!!!!

    Looks only take you through the fisrt step, after that we better have something else going for us!

    I am sure you do!

    Lotsa luck,

    Pamela

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    Default Re: boobs.. personal situation:

    girlie, i have the smallest freakin boobs in the world so i hear where youre coming from. i think id be more aroused if i had big boobies! however, if my guy spent more time looking at jennifer anistons (i absolutely adore her by the way) tits than mine, i'd tell him to hit the fucking road! have you told <i>him</i> everything you said?? i talked about it w/ my guy and it made all the difference. my guys just happy he gets to see boobs period

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