Here is a thread you girls may find interesting...
Here is a thread you girls may find interesting...
Take it from me, if the other women have nothing to do with the industry, YES.
Sorry that link didn't work.
try this one - then go into love and relationships and click on "Do Strippers Make other Women Insecure."
That's on askmen.com? Why should i trust askmen.com to know anything about women?





well, there's plenty of girls posting there.
"Do strippers make women insecure?"
soylatte said:
"No.
I don't compete with low-life trashy strippers."




Just skimming through that thread, the replies are as I'd expect from that site and it's readership.
Anytime a community consists of immature and fragile-ego'd men whom only specialize in finding insecure, self-loathing women for ease of manipulation/control, you'll see that kind of clear bias. They target and move-in on women with such low self-esteem that they feel a "no-contest" relationship when posed against strippers/exotic dancers.
Men who are confident enough to require a more equal partner- a woman that is bold, strong willed, confident, educated and has high self-esteem will answer the exact opposite. An equal partnership in a relationship has the minimal amount of jealousy as it's an established fact that anyone that wanders is out the door, end of discussion. Jealousy always exists in one form or another, but it's not the defining trait of the relationship.
Of course, the stronger-willed women are just simply labeled "bitches" or "materialistic" by the former crowd of men as they can't exercise the kind of control/manipulation they require, so they'll never know what it's like to be in one of these relationships.
And a funny aside, isn't the name "AskMen" for a site for men kinda silly? I mean, why wouldn't a guy just save the time/bandwidth and find a mirror? LOL. I was just thinking about the whole concept and subliminal behind that site and it gave me chuckle.
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oh and to answer your question, I say as a general rule, yes strippers make other women insecure. But they are probably already insecure to begin with.





gave me a chuckle too. thanks!Originally Posted by polecat link=board=1;threadid=6196;start=msg67951#msg67951 date=1075321652
ROTFLMGDMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"No. I don't compete with low-life trashy strippers."
Nah, she's not insecure.:
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Let's invade!us:
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I beleive that the only person that can make you fell insecure is yourself.





Hey, I'm down! Are you?Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=1;threadid=6196;start=msg67956#msg67956 date=1075321917
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Cover me, i'm goin' in.us:
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I'm Syrio Forel (Minor character from the Song of Ice and Fire by George R.R. Martin) over there.





I totally agreeOriginally Posted by Sapphire link=board=1;threadid=6196;start=msg67952#msg67952 date=1075321694
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My new love...is me !
Even the greatest authority does not, ultimately, know you as you know yourself.
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Oh gosh. Haven't we been invaded enough times to know not to go invading other peoples forums? If they want to be insecure close-minded bigots that's their own business and I think we should leave them to it.
Lena



OMG..Madcap...I knew that had to be someone from here..cause it was all haters then BAMM WAMMO... HOLY THREAD SLAMMER MADCAP...Thats what Iwould have written.
I love the slams..the women are giving..low-life stripper, dirty hos..lol But don't leave an explanation for what they say..lol..omg ..god forbid someone leave a link to stripperweb there..we would get hit by every insecure woman on earth here..get out the troll smileys..lol
Look at the stereo types on there..we are lesbians, sexually abused, low self esteem, druggies, no morals .....omg..lol..hey whatever makes em feel good.
I don't know why these women are sooo hateful..after all we are just doing them a favor..by giving these guys a fantasy girl..they can fantasize about..when they HAVE to go home and crawl on top of those hairy, huge, frumpy housewives.
I am doing my part.. for the good of all mankind. $$$$
"Some of the most wonderful people are the ones who don't fit into boxes."....Tori Amos
Guess i can speak from experience, NO strippers don't make other women feel insecure. Most strippers are insecure!
Pamela





I'm not even gonna bother reading it because i know its gonna make my blood boil and i'm already worked up today.....![]()
The short answer is YES strippers do make women feel insecure BUT the truth is most or many women are insecure, strippers and non strippers alike.... and yes i agree susan you have to have that insecurity already there burried inside of you.
HOWEVER too many women are threatened by STRONG, BEAUTIFUL, CONFIDENT, INDEPENDENT women which oly creates lower self-esteem!
Also i think ppl ( men and women ) find strippers intimidating.... its the confidence thing that strippers "appear" to have.
Seraya.
Very true, people can be insecure or not in any walk of lfe. Many strippers think they have complete control dancing, which i believe is false. We are dependent on the customers.
I heard many dancers say they are very insecure and dance to help over come being insecure.
I don't see why any woman would feel insecure around a dancer, or knowing a dancer, most frown down on us, and think we are low lifes.
If i never danced i certainly would feel insecure around the corporate world of major women, not dancers. Thats me.
But being a dancer, i see and heard it all too often, how insecure they feel, and want badly to jump in and strip to help overcome this.
Hell, i have been laughed at, called names and felt VERY insecure being a dancer.
I hope i am not alone.
Pamela
Lena~
I wasn't an asshole there. I Have far better things to do that Troll the internet (Though I do see your point).
Yes I do think it makes other women insecure, however I do agree when it comes to strippers being insecure as well. Strippers can be intimidating to regulare type females. I can see that though. But once they meet me, then they usually get over it.![]()
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It never fails to amaze me the depths people will go to push someone else down so they can feel better/prettier/more powerfull. I like poking holes in stuff like that. As if they are really any better. I mean, give me a break, you know?Originally Posted by HolidayOnStage link=board=1;threadid=6196;start=msg68028#msg68028 date=1075328127
I mean what else could the term low-life possibly mean other than "worse than I am?" And the worst part about it is that they don't even see it.





yeah, besides I've met plenty of non-stripper girls who are waaaaay trashier than anybody I work with!
I couldn't agree more!Originally Posted by Sapphire link=board=1;threadid=6196;start=msg68232#msg68232 date=1075359720
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Like the car, I'm exotic, erotic, and expensive....![]()
Strippers made me insecure before I was one. I saw these girls who were ready for any thing and here I couldn't even get myself through a regular day without struggeling.
" Remember during each test there is some girl in Australia jealous of you who wants to do what you're doing."- Lilithmorrigan
" If you're young and sexy, why not spend a few years Shopping and Fucking? Life is short, but youth is shorter. Ride the wheels off, I say." - FeministStripper
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