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    HI I'M 5'6 115 POUNDS ALL LEGS (SEXY) BUT, ALL LEGS
    IM A BLACK FEMALE WHO USED TO WEIGH A PERFECT 130 POUNDS AND I MEAN I WAS!!!! STACKED FOR DAYS IM THINKING ABOUT DANCING IN A MIXED CLUB. MY BUTT JUST WONT COMPARE TO MOST OF THE BLACK GIRLS I"VE WATCHED IN THE CLUBS SINCE I'VE LOST WEIGHT DUE TO STRESS AND I DONT WANT TO BE THE ONLY BLACK GIRL IN THE CLUB. I GUESS I'M JUST NERVOUSE SINCE I'M SO SMALL NOW .TELL ME THE TRUTH DO YOU THINK I'M TO SKINNY (I'M CUTE BUT I'M SKINNY) AND P.S. I'VE GOT STRETCH MARKS ON MY BELLY FROM MY BABY WILL THEY NOTICE OR HAVE YOU EVER SEEN A STRIPPER WITH STRETCH MARKS BE HONEST I CAN TAKE IT!!!

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    Are you for real Queen? You sound friggin' sexy! If you're that worried about it, go to Burger King & eat a few double whoppers, then go dance...I really don't think it matters though.
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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    WOW..I wish I weighed 115..I'm 5'5" and 104..I'm not sure of the of what black girls are supposed look like and white girls, asian etc..as dancers go...Is it bad to be petite as a black girl? At 5' 6" and 115 ...I wouldn't say you would look sickly at that weight..If it's a mixed club your looking at dancing in...then there would be mixed clientelle as well..some who don't want a "big booty". You shouldn't be so nervous...I'm sure your a beauty at 130 and 115..as for stretchmarks..I usually tan and such..but if your darker skinned already not sure how that works..sorry BUT..What about loading up on some sexy garter belts/stockings to cover that area if your totally uncomfortable with stretch marks on your tummy (below your belly button right) (4 kids here) even if a club is nude you could keep them on if you had a tie side thong that you could take off. I'm sure other girls have more on this subject.

    P.S. I think almost all dancers have stretchmarks..either from weight loss weight gain and childbirth..

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    that's not too small at all. tons of guys like the thin girls.

    nice quote, holiday. hahaha

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    My god...its the stretch mark question, again! LOL

    Honey, if you're a woman, chances are...you've got stretch marks! Just on some really pale women, you don't see them as well. You won't have to worry about them while you are dancing in the club...the lighting is made to conceal any "flaws". But, if you're still feeling a little insecure about them, you can always use body make-up to cover them up (http://www.dermablend.com) or something like that. Most guys don't care either. They're just there to see some hot T&A.

    And, don't worry about what you look like...men like women of all types and sizes. Sure, there are some black men out there who like the very meaty look and will buy dances from a white or black dancer just because of it. And there are some white guys who LOVE slender black women...all that matters is that you are confident with your body...that confidence is what really drives them wild with fantasy and desire...and helps them part with the Ben Franklins in their wallets!!

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    Just to add, this dancer friend of mine was a black girl really skinny and such, and got plenty of attention at the club! She worked there for several months if not longer [she quit the job at the place I was working, so I don't know] I kind of hope she still is, I'm gonna call about auditioning, it'd be nice to already know at least one person.
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    holiday you're skinny- eat girl!

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    Quote Originally Posted by A.n.a.l.a. link=board=25;threadid=6269;start=msg69086#msg6908 6 date=1075625993
    holiday you're skinny- eat girl!
    How rude!

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    A.n.a.l.a, I agree, that was very rude. Being skinny myself, I hate when people say, "you need to eat". Anyhoo.... Queen, I am a small black dancer myself. My pics are up in the gallery. I was 5"1 and 100lbs before I got pregnant. I have worked at predominatly white and predominantly black clubs. I made good money at the black club even though I didn't have the big 'ole booty. As long as you can move your hips and dance sexy, you're ok. As far as being the only black girl at a white club, I was that on quite a few shifts at the white club I worked at. Although some of the guys loved me because I'm black, I really wasn't what most of them were looking for. But I know plenty of black dancers who made a killing in white clubs. Oh yeah,about the stretch marks, I had them on my hips and now that I'm pregnant, they have moved down my thighs and around my butt but that won't stop me from getting back on stage. I have never had a man come up to me an say anyhing about them before and believe me, 99.9% of dancers have them.
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    sweety I'm 5ft 8 and 125. I'm not to skinny , I'll bet you look great. As for you booty, not all guys like the "ghetto booty" Carry yourself like a lady and you'll be fine.
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    Quote Originally Posted by A.n.a.l.a. link=board=25;threadid=6269;start=msg69086#msg6908 6 date=1075625993
    holiday you're skinny- eat girl!
    That's ok...heard it all before..look's like she's dealing with maturity maybe insecurity issues any way..being 25 living with mom, no job, engaged to a guy with no job either...and more that's alot to deal with...just takes some people more time to get where their going.


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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=25;threadid=6269;start=msg68806#msg6880 6 date=1075525627
    My god...its the stretch mark question, again! LOL

    Honey, if you're a woman, chances are...you've got stretch marks! Just on some really pale women, you don't see them as well. ...
    not just us girls, guys too! i have seen them on guys, girls just tend to show more skin then them.

    and yeah, sometimes pale is good.....

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    Queen you'll be fine ! You sound lovely, don't stress out.
    Someone suggested Derma blend..if you are worried about your stretchmarks then try it. I have friends of every complexion who use it.
    Most departments store carry it too.
    If you want to get rid of your stretch marks for good check out this website
    www.stretchmarks.com
    Good luck and keep us posted,
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    You sound lush! But here's the wicked truth, some places won't hire (espec. upper class one) if you have heavy stretchmarks. I have a friend who was turned down at a few clubs coz of this.

    Best thing to do if you don't trust your own judgement is to get the honest opinion of a friend. If they are too obvious, body makeup may work, or even tanning as Holiday suggested (though keep it safe!). It's not unusual for black girls to get a tan. I have a friend who does this to even out her skin tone and also because she thinks the darker look is more exotic therefore more appealing to guys.

    And don't sweat having stretch marks. I've had 'em since my growth spurt at puberty and although they've faded, they're still there (and even though I'm black, I do not consider myself dark skinned!). If you're confidene shines through, you could persuade the minds of many strict managers!

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    Honey, last time I checked, alot of girls have kid(s), including myself. With childbirth, often comes stretch marks and not one of us is getting airbrushed like playboy playmates, before we dance. However, black light is an amazing thing that can hide almost any flaw.


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    you will be fine, you sound great, shake your booty like there is no tomorrow i am sure you will be a great hit!!!

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    queen, you sound like a really hot looking girl i know a lot of men really would go for a black girl your size. be happy and feel positive about your lean body
    a am 5-5 at 125 myself.
    strech marks is funny. I do have em too, and to reafirm ami, my boyfried has em also. fast growth, also with me since i have no kid. They are on the hips. nobody ever noticed.

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    I am 5'2" and 105 lbs when soaking wet and I hear it all the time "eat something", "you will blow away", "you don't weigh a thing" ect.. I just say "I eat plenty and I love my body,especially after having my babies" I normally ignore though and walk away. Somtimes people just don't think before they open their mouths. As long as you are happy and healthy thats all that matters BTW, how do i add a picture to my comment?

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    at my club both of the black dancer are very very skinny almost stick like you should be fine. Black custmers throw money at at them on the stage. we have a big bootie white girl who dose well with black custmers also it just depends on the guy have fun you are beautiful and will do great.

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    Charm, to add a pic all you hsve to do is hit the reply button on the top or the bottom of the thread, then it will take you to a page that you can add comments, and add pics too. then upload the pic and there ya go.
    As for Queen, you sould fine, Although I on the other side of the spectrum of the whole thin/thick thing. I'm 5'4" and I weigh in at around 127lbs. But you also have to take into consideration that I'm a size 3 and have around 13% body fat.(that's a lot of muscle) and I have 34D's too. But anywho, if you feel good about yourself don't worry about it. I have had 4 pregnancies and one of them was a C-section (talk about a scar!)
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    You sound great! Don&#039;t worry about it! No one is exactly happy with everything about their body, Shake it and move girl!


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    I&#039;m 5&#039;4 weigh approx 112 and yeah I have stretch marks I guess it&#039;s from growing and the losing weigh, gainning weigh factor, but you sound gorgeous! I don&#039;t think you sound too skinny at all, all girls no matter what colour, ethic or country are unique and trust me you&#039;ll appeal to more than a few.
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    You sound B-E-A-Utiful *bruce almighty* queen! I&#039;m just starting out myself, but I was a patron at Deja Vu for a while (I know I&#039;m a girl, but I LOVE girls, they&#039;re beautiful!) and I personally bought a ton of dances from someone with the same physique as you!

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    It&#039;s been a while, but I&#039;m back to the boards.

    Anyway, I have the same problem too. I&#039;m not black, but very thin. I went through a major depressive episode these last 5 months and have lost about 9 pounds. I&#039;m 5&#039;5 and a half and 109 pounds-down from 118. I want to start dancing by August, but I&#039;d at least like to gain a couple of pounds, or at least build some muscle. The thing is, I&#039;m a natural D cup, and luckily my boobs haven&#039;t changed a bit. Anyway, the point is-confidence is by far a woman&#039;s sexiest attribute. Guys do like girls of all sizes, and I constantly hear how guys like "curvy women", but the truth is, if you&#039;re confident, they&#039;ll like you. If gaining some weight will up your confidence, then do what you need to do.

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    I wish my problem was needing to gain weight

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