I was surprised when one day I found hair extensions and a gym bag of clothes and shoes in the trunk of my long time girlfriends car. She stated that it belonged to her sister and that she herself wasnt a stripper. Soon after that I learned from her step father that she indeed had been stripping behind my back for a couple of months. She finally came clean and assured me that the place she was working was a clean, upscale, gentlemen's club where there is no contact and that I had nothing to worry about. She felt that she was still being faithful and apologized for lying for fear that I would not understand.
Then other guys numbers began to show up in her phone and guys would call her at 2-3 in the morning. This is something that I really dont understand.
So here I am in a position where the girl that I love is doing something that I dont entirely agree with. I have asked her if she could work somewhere else and she gets really defensive. She says she still loves me and that the only reason she is doing this is to pay off some debt....and buy $300 shoes but thats an entirely different story all together.
Does anyone have any advice for me? Or, has anyone else been in this kind of situation before? What can I expect? How can I help her and what does she need from me at this point in her life?


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