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    so i decided to im one of my ex's "friends" just because i felt some bad vibes between us and I hate that with a passion and wanted to try to clear it up.


    here is what he said to me:

    DarkestHour321 (4:56:04 AM): fuck off, and stop ruining everyones good time you drunk whore
    DarkestHour321 (4:57:40 AM): eather way you were bad for him, and your bad for every person you touch. die, and leave me. jake, steve. and eveyone eles alone
    DarkestHour321 (4:58:09 AM): monkie bitch evil whore.
    DarkestHour321 (4:59:41 AM): witch is another word for lieing
    DarkestHour321 (4:59:45 AM): and i hate liears
    DarkestHour321 (4:59:47 AM): and i hate you

    i'm sorry i might regret posting this in the mornign but right now i can't stop crying. these were the guys who swore they'd be here for me no matter what. recently the ex im'd me and told me that he had been informed that i cheated on him (i did NOT) among other things. the reason this bf broke up with me was because i couldn't handle what mr. darkesthour was saying to me on a regular basis (calling me a psycho bitch at every opportunity) and this guy just put such a wedge between us it wasn't repairable.

    the funny thing is i've actually met this person pysically like once, and talked to him online like a total of 6 times since sept.

    i feel like hell and can't stop crying.

    sorry i needed to vent.




    it's been a bad night, i got in a fight with the bar tender too, and ended up throwing a pen at him and saying a few choice words to him because he was being a dick. the other girls were happy that someone finally stood up to him, cuz all he did was make fun of us and treat us like crap.


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    Now that is pretty fucked up. I don't give a shit how pissed someone is, there's no reason to say anything like that to anyone. You don't like someone, fine. Liking someone isn't required, but what is required is to be civil. This guy obviously isn't very grown up, I don't care what he thinks you did. Grown-ups deal with things better than that.

    Jillian, me saying this won't help, but it's not you with the problem. If this guy has that crap on his mind, he's not worth the time of day. Forget him.


    And your ex has shit taste in friends. Personally, I'd judge him by the company he keeps. But that's just me.

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    That guy is just some dickhead you barely even know. He is not someone important in your life who's opinion even matters. He doesn't know jack shit about you. Just forget about him.

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    He's an asshole. He wants to make you feel bad. He's trying real hard. If you let him make you feel bad, he's getting what he wants.

    I realize that not feeling bad isn't as easy as turning a switch off, although you get better with practice, but really, he's not worth your emotional energy. Move on to something better.

    Good luck.

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    I agree with the general populace, he's an idiot, probably feeding words into your ex's head for no apparent reason. I hate when "friends" do that kind of shit - screw 'em all, you've got better things to do than to take this guy serious.

    huh, I recently had a confrontation with a friend [more of a friend than your's] too, he was bugging me all night about crap, finally starts on this "you hate me and think I'm ugly don't you?" I handled this very well by saying a vampire octopus was looking pretty fine next to him. So he started laying it on much akin to your friend of an ex. That was kind of a mutual insult fest, though.

    But, at some point, you stop caring how they feel about you, because there are people worth caring about how you act towards them, and then people who will hate you or be asshole no matter what. they are not worth it.
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    Jillian.

    If your ex BF didn't have the forsight to open his frickin eyes and heart and look at your relationship between both of you (without outside help from his buddy).........then screw him. I have learned that people like that are the people who use their so called friends to do their own thinking.

    You did nothing wrong. If anything you should be commended for going the extra mile to try to patch things up between you two.

    Keep your chin up girl!!

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    Jillian, get up and do something to extrovert yourself. Go out with good friends and do something fun. You now know how this person is so you don't have to repeat your mistake. Put it behind you and chalk it up to experience. Move on with your life.

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    If he really loved you, he would tell this guy to f*** off. I've been in the same situation. My ex'es friends spread rumors about me all over town, and convinced him I was the evil one, while they were participating in acts on a contunuous basis that I would never condone. If you don't fit in with the crowd, they will dislike you and want you gone. These are probably people you needn't be involved with anyway. Just let it go.

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    Sorry to hear that Jillian; I hope you feel better soon. If your ex would stay friends with someone who's treating you like that, then your ex is not that great of a guy in the first place. You deserve better.






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    sometimes their friends try to be all cool like they are "looking out" for their other friends. Is it possible this jerk could be gay? Maybe he has feelings for your ex and wants to keep him for himself... hehehe
    Im kidding hun, trying to lighten up your thread, but in any case, tell him to f*ck off. WHo the hell does he think he is anyway???

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    thanks guys! i really appreciate your kind words....

    i'm feeling much better now that i've had some sleep.


    i don't know what the hell this guys problem with me is. he's never ever liked me, and considering i haven't talked to him since like october/november this was just so random and mean. so apparently i made quite an impression on him or something if he can't stop talking about me 3 months after my ex and i broke up. as if just breaking us up wasn't enough for him......


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    your bad for every person you touch. die, and leave me. jake, steve. and eveyone eles alone
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    monkie bitch evil whore.
    I don't mean to laugh at your pain, but I laughed my ass off at this... and you should too. I mean, what is this guy? A 15-year old? HOW can you POSSIBLY get worked up at such immature, school-boy ranting?

    I mean, such maturity, eloquence, choice vocabulary skills and literacy (Note: sarcasm) might signal a source with important opinions to your person and all.. but...
    It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.

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    I hope you have blocked this idiot from your IM and Email . Never hearing from him again would be to soon. Forget about that crap and be happy.
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    I wonder if he blames you for taking the time of your ex? This may be just his way of getting back at you. Also, crying and getting upset will only let him "win". You did the absolute right thing. You came to a forum where people love you for who you are, not what you look like with your clothes off.

    Just my 2 cents. Want a cookie? :-)

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    lol cookie moster - i've been wanting to tell you: that pic cracks me up every time i see it....

    yeah back in the day when he found out i was working at a sc he first was like you're a whore i can't believe any one would give you the time of day...the next time i talked to him he was like, so ya got any friends from work for me?

    polecat - now that i'm looking at what he said again, well i am thinking two things. 1 - was he drunk? my 15 yr old brother is more compatent than this guy. and 2 - i see why he never went on with school after high school....the inteligence level...wow.


    but thank you all for being nice....i can't express it enough. i'm feeling extremly lonely now a days (in case you cant' tell)


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jillian link=board=1;threadid=6314;start=msg69605#msg69605 date=1075783615
    i'm feeling extremly lonely now a days (in case you cant' tell)
    Don't.

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    i hate bringing this up again. i feel like i have no where else to turn to tho (isn't that sad?)

    guess who send me an email from a different address tonight. oh no apparently he just cannot drop this.

    do you think i should contact my ex or another one from that group to say what is going on? this is just getting outta line. also the fact that if he wanted to find me all he has to go to my school's website and pretty much all info that he'd want to know is available. i totally don't feel safe. he seems quite psycho.


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    Personally, I'd be the biggest bitch and file a poliece report that this guy keeps harassing you. I've done it before, and if he keeps doing this you can press charges. Fight fire with fire, and its easier to do if the law is on your side. I know how this goes, my ex 2 yrs ago and I broke up cause of a friend like this. I'm so sorry. I am newly single again, and I do miss waking up to some one, and feeling that joy in the pit of your stomach that you think might just radiate through your fingertips and the top of your head. God I miss that. The police thing is the best thing to do. And it will piss him off more, but he'll have to suck it up. ( a plus if you ask me) I can't belive how similar our situations seem to be. feel free to write me. You will get through this. You are young, smart, beautiful, and have so much on your side. I know it doesn't help for me to say these things, as I did not care to hear them, but they are so true. And as I have noticed, just when you seem to be loving life again, this guy will try to creep back in. Do what you will, but it is best to move on and show him you are doing great without him.
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    thanks fawn....good idea about the police, i just emailed my friend who's dad is high up there in the police man category back home for her advice.

    it's good to know that i'm not the only one who has gone through this.

    a point that my ex's friends constantly brings up is that i'm "still crying over him" which is funny cuz since we broke up in october...i've dated probably 3 or 4 guys since then

    my tummy has been tied in knots since i saw the subject of the email in my inbox "no one likes you" it hurts so badly. i'm stressin over this a lot too, over the past 4 days or so all i've done is mope around and cry, i dnt' eat too much, and my face is all broken out now


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    Been there. Best advice is take a long, warm, scented bubble bath. Get dressed up, and see a movie that is so stupid you can't help but love it. And, no guys alowed. When I get depressed I can't eat either. Buy a smoothie, and at least try to take a vitamine ( can't take my own advice on that one). When I'm depressed and I force myself to eat I end up throwing up. I ate smoothies for 2 weeks after my brother died. During your bubble bath put on a moisturizing mask. I bet your skin isn't only breaking out from stress, but also cause its had a lack of water and nutrients from your not eating. Body shop tea tree oil mattifying moisturizer has done amazing things for my skin. Maybe take a few days off from work. Being around jerky men can't be good for you right now. And I know its supposed to be bad for you to do a lot, but for a day, maybe two, unplug the phone refuse to come out of your room and let yourself cry untill you fall asleep. You have to let it out to get it out of your system. I ment it about writing me. We have a lot in common already, and I only know so little about you.
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    what a cock hole! If you're really considering going to the police make sure you save those IM's and emails.


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