I find that many times I do not get motivated enough at work to go around asking men for lap dances. This is my fourth month into dancing, and I still feel like I haven't progressed much in that area. I love being up on stage, and feel like I excel fine in that area, but when it comes down to asking a guy for a lap dance after talking with him for a few minutes, I skip it. I feel like that horrible girl all the other dancers hate because I give men my time for free. Most of the time, I get by on stage tips and when men come up to me and say they want a dance. Does anyone have any tips on motivating myself to do this, or overcoming my weakness? The dancers in my club say that because I'm still a new dancer, I will eventually get used to asking, but I would like to make more money now.



Reply With Quote






Bookmarks