I'm a girl who likes and needs to know where the boundaries are, so I can work up to the edges of them, if you know what I mean.
So I get "hired" at this place... by a security guy. He runs down a list of rules for the club, very hard to remember... one of them is "grinding... clothed only..." okay, thought it was a no-contact club, I even see girls in other clubs won't let a guy hand them a dollar, he has to put it down on the table first... the nuances are escaping me here.
The next night another security guy. I tell him, I need to write down the rules, so I can remember. He says "what rules?" I say, well, like the first guy said, "grinding with clothes only" stuff like that.
New security guy says, "no grinding. I don't allow it on MY shift!"
oh...
He says, "if I see it, I tell them to stop." so... That's all he does? Then how bad can it be?
To quote Vinnie Babarino, "I'm so confused!"
Also, I want to CYA if you know what I mean. I think the club should have this stuff in writing for the same reason. What kind of trouble can I get into if I'm misled? What if I do the wrong thing with the wrong guy?
It's very upsetting, actually. This is not to mention all the rules surrounding VIP and other special areas of the club which I have also have no clue about. Why isn't it in writing somewhere?
Also, they have not asked for any information that would enable them to give me an I-9 and the security guys are always too busy to sit down and really go thru the ins and outs with me. I can't find a way to contact the club owner....
It feels really f'ing unprofessional and I'm feeling a bit annoyed. I'm going to try one more time tomorrow with the main booking guy who I've not yet met... but I'd like to know what questions to ask so I can get the proper answers. I feel like Alice in Wonderland where the rules change every time you turn a corner.
Is this NORMAL? What kinds of risks am I facing here?
Thanks. Kat



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