
Originally Posted by
bambiblue link=board=1;threadid=6432;start=msg70588#msg70588 date=1076034438
Ok ladies I have never asked for advice before but here it goes. I started dancing about three months ago. At first I was very shy, soft-spoken.... pretty much just started doing it to get the hell out of a bad situation 200 miles behind me. Anyway, within the last month, I have been getting more dances than all the other girls, my stage show is starting to rock, and overall, I have gotten pretty comfortable with the whole job. I used to get along with everyone at work, which is important to me because we have to work 12 hour shifts. Anyway, lately the girls have been making snide comments to me about the money I have been making and trying to exclude me. Listen girls, I bust my ass at work! I got two small children at home and am putting myself through school with absolutely NO help! It's not so much what they say.... I'm not there to make friends anyway. I could care less if they like me either .... half of them aren't capable of not being 2 faced anyway. I was just wondering if there was a way to maturely go about putting them in there place without slapping them in the mouth? I don't like the tension and ignoring them doesn't really help. I have honestly thought maybe I was doing something to provoke this at first, but honestly I never really talk to the other girls and usually just sit with customers the whole time i am at work. Any advice would be helpful, but I feel better already since I got to vent.
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