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    Can some of the women in here please give Lestat some pointers on how to get a date? I've tried talking, but he just answers me with stuff like "I can't do that."

    I'll chime in, since i'm such a Cassanova (Hehe), but I think he needs some female help here. His main problem is the confidence thing, look at his old avatar. Charlie Brown? Love's Loser written beneath it? He's supposed to have any confidence at all while he's calling himself love's loser?

    Lestat, this thread is for your own good. Women will help you here. I dunno anyone that doesn't like you. Be mad at me if you want, but like it or not, Grasshopper, you will learn!

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    Oh, and manhaters lay off. No one needs to get hurt here.

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    I'm not too sure this is the best idea Madcap, though I appreciate your good intentions.

    I would certainly rephrase the question. I would analyze my situation as: having low self-esteem, which leads to low-confidence and shyness, which leads to not approaching women, which naturally means not getting a date. It's not help with getting a date that I need, but with the underlying causes. With higher self-esteem and confidence the rest will fall into place, I have no doubt.

    Also, and please don't take this poorly ladies, but women usually don't give good advice to men about dating (and vice versa). Men and women just have very different obstacles and experiences when it comes to dating. The problems a beautiful dancer faces with dating are very different than what a shy guy encounters. Neither would be very good at counseling the other (though I hope I'm proven wrong).

    However, I know some of you deal with feelings of having low self-esteem or confidence. If you have overcome these problems, or have any advice about them, I would gladly hear what you have to say.

    -lestat1
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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    BUT a dancer gets hit on 80 times a night. She is going to be able to tell you what makes her think "Yeah, he's okay. Nice guy!" and what makes her think "What a prick that fucker was!"

    You might think that dancers (or women in general) don't give good advice, but then what do you have to lose, bud? A couple of dates? How many dates do you have now?

    You might as well listen. It can't hurt.

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    Use your head, Dude!

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    I'm sorry but I have to laugh at this. Mad you are a sweetheart I understand why Lestat feel that way. I think this is a personal problem for him. But as I said before Lestat just need to be himself. You will be find.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=1;threadid=6472;start=msg71261#msg71261 date=1076239742
    BUT a dancer gets hit on 80 times a night. She is going to be able to tell you what makes her think "Yeah, he's okay. Nice guy!" and what makes her think "What a prick that fucker was!"

    You might think that dancers (or women in general) don't give good advice, but then what do you have to lose, bud? A couple of dates? How many dates do you have now?

    You might as well listen. It can't hurt.
    You are correct. I did say I hope to be proven wrong about that; and I will gladly listen with an open mind to any and all advice that comes my way.
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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Van Hagar "Runaround"

    Oh-oh! Mmm-hmm!
    Ow!
    That's right

    She don't like it when it's cut n' dry
    And don't like me makin' future plans
    And don't want me tryin' to pin her down
    She ain't about to give an inch of ground, no!
    Woo!

    Well, she can take me for a little ride
    Just as long as she drive me home
    Around the block, maybe once or twice
    And then some lovin'. Wouldn't that be nice? Yeah!

    I won't, but I want it
    Oh, what a fool believes
    I got her in my sight, but just outta reach. Oh-oh!

    Here we go around (Round round round)
    Run, run, runaround, yeah (Round round round round)
    Here we go around (Round round round)
    She givin' me the runaround, yeah. Ow! (Round round round round)

    Uh! A-just enough to keep me hangin' on
    She knows exactly what I need
    And right down to the nick o' time
    I'm chasin' love down a fine, fine line. Ow!

    I won't, but I want it
    Oh, what a fool believes
    I got her in my sight, but just outta reach. Whoa!

    Here we go around (Round round round)
    Run, run, runaround, yeah (Round round round round)
    here we go around (Round round round)
    She givin' me the runaround (Round round round round)
    uh! Oh-ow!

    (Guitar Solo)

    Yeah-hey yeah!
    Oh yeah
    Ooh. Ah. It goes like this
    Listen baby. Ssss, ooh, ow, ah, uh
    Oh man, it's hard enough, yeah
    And you make it harder
    Ah, fill me up, I'm never satisfied
    Own me. She owns it.

    Here we go around (Round round round)
    Run, run, runaround, yeah (Round round round round)
    Here we go around (Round round round)
    She givin' me the runaround (Round round round round)

    Here we go around (Round round round)
    Run, run, runaround (Round round round round)
    Here we go around (Round round round)
    She givin' me the runaround (Round round round round)
    Nooo!
    Round and around
    Oh, I like it
    Uh, I like it
    Yeah! But I like it
    Baby, say I like it
    Uh! I said I like it
    Ooh! I like it

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    Plus who can argue with TiNi calling me a sweetheart!

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    LOL yes Madcap you are a swetheart! but i don't think this is the best way honey.....

    Lestat if you like we can chat off SW.... i have my aim, msn and yahoo messenger ID listed in my profile.

    Seraya.


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    Lestat, darling...I adore you. It may not count for much, because I am married, and just a friend online, but....I've seen your picture, and you are very attractive...I have been in the chat with you, and find you are very intelligent. Another attractive quality, in my opinion...I've also noticed that you are very respectful of those you chat with...Yet another attractive quality. You are witty and fun. You have the ability to carry on a real conversation. (Very important!) You have a great sense of humor...And so on and so forth. The list could go on forever...If these are the qualities you have in real life, as well as your life online, then my advice to you is simple...

    Be yourself! You are a great guy, and once you realize it, the ladies will... (Easier said than done, I know...)
    Like the car, I'm exotic, erotic, and expensive....

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    Yeah, it blows when the really hot ones are married...

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    Hey I am not married lol.

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    Hey I didnt get to see a pic of Lestat. I'm going to check the gallery.

    ANyway, everything that ferrari said is true. Lestat is fun to talk to, respectful, funny... Like she said, if this is how you really are then just let it shine through. It will totally work for you.
    Good luck!!!

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    Lestat-
    Ferrari said it best; you're intelligent, overtly respectful, witty and fun, always carry out a real conversation and have a good sense of humor.

    With all this, I'd make sure you live in a place that allows pets and might as well get all the cats now. Knitting needles can come in time.

    But look at the bright side- you'll always have really pretty, nice women around. Of course, it'll only be when one of their jerk boyfriends have dumped them, when they're hungry and low on funds, when they need help moving, or some kitchen appliance is broken.. but it beats being alone!

    :o :o :o
    It doesn't matter if you're somebody in this world, it rather matters you mean the whole world to somebody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=1;threadid=6472;start=msg71384#msg71384 date=1076277744
    Hey I didnt get to see a pic of Lestat. I'm going to check the gallery.
    didn't see any labeled "lestat" in the gallery...do you have pics up hon? I always like being able to picture who I'm talking to.

    And don't worry sweetheart, you sound just like my brother--he's so wonderful but has basically been painfully single all his life. You're not my brother are you? :o That'd be waaaaayyy creepy!
    "You did then what you knew how to do; when you knew better, you did better" ~Maya Angelou

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    -Be Yourself.

    Bah! No wonder you said that strippers can't give good advice to guys like you 'Stat. Don't get me wrong, I also adore you and enjoy chatting with you, and I hope you don't mind that I pick on ya a bit, its all in good fun, and I do respect you as a person with feelings.

    Unfortunately, it takes more than being yourself. Its a numbers game really, and your self-proclaimed problem is that you cannot get past the first step; just talking to ladies....you need to approach as many women as possible. This is what any man has to do unless he is devastatingly handsome or known to be very wealthy...

    IM me with your email, I have a PDF for you to read about successful dating.....

    Also, you must be realistic about the type of woman you will be able to date. Unfortunately, I know many guys who never succeed in finding a special lady because they aim to snare a supermodel stripper neurosurgeon.....sometimes you have to look at someone a bit more mortal....

    These are just some honest suggestions. I truly wish you the best of luck.....meow!

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    SCGirl, Lexi; I don't have any pictures in the gallery. I do have a couple that I'll put on my web server temporarily...but that means you'll have to come into chat if you want a peek!

    Polecat;

    Katrine; no worries, I can dish it out and take it with the best of 'em! I think my standards are high character-wise, but reasonable looks-wise.

    -lestat1
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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Lestat I think your sweet. I would want you to change your personality. But dont let people take you kindness for weakness.

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    Lestat is a good guy. I hate it when decent guys can't get any play. Assholes are making out like bandits and Lestat's calling himself "Love's Loser."

    Just ain't right.

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