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    I have a law-related question for strippers with kiddies. Say you are married and get a divorce, and your husband would want custody of the kid(s), would your husband get to say in court, "Hey, she's a stripper, so she's an unfit mother!" and then the court would grant custody to the father? Just want to know how a judge would look at a mother who strips. Any input would be great!

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    Depends on the judge. The bright side is that you can appeal on grounds like that.

    Plus, if you have a good lawyer...


    Some of them are like Merlin!

    Just get a good lawyer, let him or her make that decision and argu it for you.

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    Thanks for your reply! Who's Merlin? Also, what if I wouldn't be able to afford a lawyer, let alone a good one?

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    Then you would wind up at Legal Aid, but if at all possible it would be best if you could find a way to afford a good attorney.

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    Merlin, King Arthur's mentor. Magician dude. Totally nuts in most of the legends.


    (T.H. White's Once and Future King is one of my favorote books)

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    Hey Hon...

    I had a friend that went through this situation. I agree to a point, that it does depend on the judge. But, most judges 1) Need BIG reasons to give custody to the father rather than the mother, and 2) Don't care what you're doing for work, as long as you're providing for yourself and your children.

    My friend's then-husband, was pushing the issue that she was a stripper. The judge basically told him to stuff it, and ruled in favor of my friend. He gave her credit for actually doing something to support her family, rather than "sitting on her ass living off the system".

    It takes a lot more to prove that a mother is unfit, besides the fact that she's a stripper. A job's a job, and money's money.


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    *should move to the liberal northwest, since he's stuck in the babble belt*

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    Well I Know that they can't hold your job as a judgement of character in court. However, I think that most government type jobs hold a grudge against dancing to begin with. I think alot of people view dancing as a "loop hole" throught the system. Most dancers I know don't pay taxes. Well, these people are making their money off of tax payers and regardless if you pay your taxes or not we're all "labeled" for not paying taxes. Plus as some would say "Dancing is a legal form of prostitution" isn't going to help the case any. I would bring up any college degrees you might have and positive motherly acts. And if it gets nasty in court I'd bring up any police records he may have or any negative acts of his. I'm not a lawyer or anything but I sure hope this helps
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    Dancers pay sales tax.

    What part of sales TAX is difficult for these morons to grasp?

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    Oh, thank you guys so much for your replies. You guys rock!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pan Dah link=board=1;threadid=6493;start=msg71858#msg71858 date=1076381603
    Quote Originally Posted by Rhiannon link=board=1;threadid=6493;start=msg71850#msg71850 date=1076379874
    Hey Hon...

    I had a friend that went through this situation. I agree to a point, that it does depend on the judge. But, most judges 1) Need BIG reasons to give custody to the father rather than the mother, and 2) Don't care what you're doing for work, as long as you're providing for yourself and your children.

    My friend's then-husband, was pushing the issue that she was a stripper. The judge basically told him to stuff it, and ruled in favor of my friend. He gave her credit for actually doing something to support her family, rather than "sitting on her ass living off the system".

    It takes a lot more to prove that a mother is unfit, besides the fact that she's a stripper. A job's a job, and money's money.

    Rhiannon, I don't want to be too big a pessimist here, but you have to realize you're in the center of the liberal northeast, so if your friend was from NJ thru MA, it might not be indicative of other areas in the country. I wonder if a judge in some parts of Alabama or Texas would have had the same attitude,

    In any case, Exotica, there have been a couple of other threads on this topic. Try looking at:



    for what seem to be quite a few excellent opinions and pieces of advice.

    No, hon.. This was in AZ. It doesn't matter what coast or what state this takes place in. It depends on that particular judge. You may get one that is against your profession, and may look down upon you for it, But.. Again, Being a stripper is not reason enough to label a mother "unfit".

    I've known 2 cases such as this. One was like I said, in Arizona. The other, Virginia. Both had the same outcome.

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