For a variety of reasons, my visiting strip clubs has fallen way off, and that's not necessarily a bad thing. Truthfully, one of the reasons has been the things I've heard on this board.
I work with women in the office. I deal with women clients. I interact with women colleagues. I party with women friends and neighbors. I have normal family relationships with women and girls in my family. They don't express dislike for me, just the opposite. And I like them. We all drink, play, dance, work, and meet together on great terms. And the lady of my house and I enjoy a happy love life.
Then I come here, a place where I really enjoy, and among the truly positive things that I like about this forum, I hear about abusive men, women-hating men, men-hating women, not trusting each other, exploiting each other, men rooting around to get whatever they can, and women who hate men's guts while playing up to them for money.
These two worlds are so completely diverse for me that it's freaky. And frankly, the world where people play nice together is a lot healthier than the one which has so much bad behavior. And it's healthier for me, too.
I also understand that there's plenty of healthier attitudes with dancers and customers who interact on a good level and to their mutual benefit. But I'm involved with a few other professional forums and other get-togethers, and nowhere else do I hear this level of gender animosity.
No reply necessary, really. I'm just expressing my dismay, perhaps, at some of the feelings in this world versus the world out there that I know.


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