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    Default Bring me a "Extra's" girl

    Lady's, It seems from the posts in here that 99% of you do not do any extras. Now, i'm in Houston where from the clubs I've been to,
    the percentages are just the opposite, 99% seem to do extras. My question is, I have been with girls who I could tell did not do any of the extras & I asked if they could send over any girls that might. I
    always give the girl 20 or 40 bucks for this. My question is would this offend you? Or is the 40 bucks a good enough tip to soothe any ill feelings? Now let me be clear, I want extras but only if the girl i'm with draws me a roadmap first! i'm very shy, won't touch a girl until she grabs my hands and shows or tells me what I can do! Just don't want to come off like a a-hole, handsy, dirtbag. I'm just being honest in what I want, & have no problem with you girls who don't do anything "extra".
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    Default Re:Bring me a "Extra's" girl

    I hope I'm not overstepping my bounds here, but I kinda think this kind of stuff is inappropriate for this particular forum.

    Houston, like San Francisco has many local forums where you can get the advice and opinions of the dancers in question. You would probably get more fruitful, productive answers there.

    Moreover, any insinuation of "extras" is of course asking someone to admit or otherwise acknowledge illegal acts. From this standpoint, if you are looking at it from the perspective of someone that doesn't offer this, you are basically incriminating her for something she does not participate in. I wouldn't seem to matter how much you "tip" her for this, it's not going to wash away a misdemeanor prostitution or (even worse) felony pandering charge from her permanent record if you happen to be an informant or vice.
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    Default Re:Bring me a "Extra's" girl

    Maybe you guys were right, I should have not asked this question on this forum. My apologies if I offended anyone. Polecat, do you know of a web-site for a Houston forum?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Strong Bad link=board=8;threadid=6505;start=msg71885#msg71885 date=1076384913
    Maybe you guys were right, I should have not asked this question on this forum. My apologies if I offended anyone. Polecat, do you know of a web-site for a Houston forum?
    Have you seen this one by chance?

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    I only want extras if i can kill myself afterwards...




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    Madcap, try it, you'll like it. Ha ha!
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    Default Re:Bring me a "Extra's" girl

    For your tip I will gladly give you directions to the jack-shack down the road, because you have obviously stepped into the wrong place.

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    Hmmmmmm......I'd take the 40 bucks, but to be honest, I don't know who does extras at my club because I try not to look at what the other girls are doing...plausible deniability..I'd just direct you to a more homely overweight lady that I know gets drunk all the time and bitches in the locker room about how she never makes any money...you take it from there ace!!!

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    Default Re:Bring me a "Extra's" girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=8;threadid=6505;start=msg71981#msg71981 date=1076401850
    I'd just direct you to a more homely overweight lady that I know gets drunk all the time and bitches in the locker room about how she never makes any money...you take it from there ace!!!
    That cracked me up! So true!

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    Well Strong Bad, you can find an "extras" person in almost any club around for the right price. Really.

    But you put yourself at risk as well as the female. But that is an issue the two of you will have to deal with when you get nailed.

    I have danced around my share of "extras." It's not fun, too much worry about getting the club busted.

    Why not hit an escort? It's what they do for a living, period.

    However, that being said, there IS alot of "extras" going around in the clubs these days, more so than a few years ago. That's reality. Not all dancers provide this service, but alot do!!!

    Keep it clean.

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    Default Re:Bring me a "Extra's" girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=8;threadid=6505;start=msg71981#msg71981 date=1076401850
    Hmmmmmm......I'd take the 40 bucks, but to be honest, I don't know who does extras at my club because I try not to look at what the other girls are doing...plausible deniability..I'd just direct you to a more homely overweight lady that I know gets drunk all the time and bitches in the locker room about how she never makes any money...you take it from there ace!!!


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    Default Re:Bring me a "Extra's" girl

    If it were a club where that many dancers did extras, I probably wouldn't be offended. I'd definitely take the $$$.

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    Default Re:Bring me a "Extra's" girl

    SB, some of the others were right that this was the wrong forum for this question, however if you're still reading this, you could just as easily get a waitress to do your legwork for you. The waitresses know who the players are and will take care of you especially if you have a specific request of the type of woman you want to have fun with.
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    I've never asked for extras but have been surprised how often they've been offered. And I'm talking northeast, not SF or Houston.
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    I'm confizzeld and fludgigated.When a girl offers extras is she expecting a large tip or is it just part of her show?
    I'm not talking oral or sex or even hand,just maybe a guided hand to the boobies.

    Also,whats with the legality against a guided hand to the breast,i mean if the girl is ok with it then whats the big deal?

    I guess im just confused on what to do if i do get guided to the twins,do i tip well or just enjoy the show?Or get a lawyer for that matter,lol.

    The last thing i would want to do is get the girl,or other girls in trouble for me just being there,not even asking for a "extras" girl.Guess i should just stay away from them clubs.

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    Legality will depend almost entirely on the prosecuting attorney's in the area and how they translate and determine what fits prostitution laws.

    Prostitution laws are very, very vague and are left to local interpretation. Generally put- it's the participation of a "lewd" act in exchange for money. What one county defines as "lewd" may be night and day different between what another county defines as "lewd"- hell, some have tried to stretch 1-way contact lapdances as "lewd"..

    For your customer contact question- I've known some counties that consider anything a dancer does with her own hands to be fair game and therefore not a "lewd" activity between two people. So if a customer's hand is being controlled by a dancer's hand, everything is fair game. Others dictate what the dancer can do even by herself with her own hands even from 4' away.

    To fuzz up things even more- what's illegal may not always be what's enforced. San Francisco is a good example of this. An agreement with the former district attorney basically made it public that unquestionably illegal activities would not be enforced or prosecuted just as long as they happened indoors and off the streets.

    Everywhere else- enforcement level can switch overnight, and often does before and after election times.. or in times of higher media coverage (see Houston + superbowl). Either way, everywhere else in the country is a gamble and risks dancers being rounded up or arrested even if they do not participate themselves. So it's dicey territory.

    It's also a massive discussion since in the context of nationwide stripclubs as it creates a divisional atmosphere and one that puts unfair pressure on performer boundries. There are customers/environments for both, as there are patrons after sultan treatment and activities that they do not consider "cheating".. and others strictly after sexual activities for pay and have somehow preferred stripclubs over escorts or massage parlours.

    For the most part, the original question is a moot question. In clubs that have extras, there is no doubt or question about it. It's one of the key selling points that's made pretty obvious. Non-extras girls working in openly extras clubs refer daily and vice-versa. Anywhere else in my opinion, the expectation is wrong to try and manipulate dancers to "fess up" who the few that will bend the rules may be. It's tacky and just amplifies the animosity of dancers in clubs doing the things they really shouldn't be doing by house rules, and riding profits on what management is unfairly looking the other way for.
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    So let me get this straight? 40 bucks for an extra? I'll be blunt: I'm priceless and would not EVEN consider 40 bucks or 1,000 bucks or a million bucks for an offer to do an extra. I'm too pretty, and too good for that bullshit. And the girls that do that, well, I can't say much for them, but if you want an extra girl, I hear Nevada has some brothels, but you aren't going to get much for your $40 bucks there I'm sure....


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    Gynger-
    The original poster was suggesting $20 or $40 for information, not an extra. In other words, how you would feel if a customer handed you $20 or $40 for pointing him in the direction of the woman on shift that offers a bit more than a lapdance.

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    No no, and NO. Gosh i hope Gynger feels the same way. Pointing out an "extras" Person on our own shifts, has many consequences for all of us working that "same" shift. And i mean not good ones.

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    I agree with Mariah...I would take your tip and give you the name to the escort service down the street. The only reason guys don't use the escorts more often, is because the can (and usually do) get it for cheaper in the club. I would never point out a girl who does extras. Why not? BECAUSE I AM LOSING MONEY!! What a completely moronic question!! Why would I want to point out someone else? There have been times people have approached me for extras or girls who did them, and I just ignored the request and just talked to them. Found out one guy had a foot fetish and made an extra $60 just to let him touch my foot, LOL...why would I want to just give that money away? (I do not give extras and I would never support any girl who does them, either).

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    SB, I wouldnt go around offering dancers money for info about other dancers providing extras. They could very well view you as LE or get highly insulted and have the bouncer give you the boot. If you do want extras, your best bet is to A) go to clubs known for those activities. You can get info reading various strip club review sites, for example. Or B) become a regular at a club or clubs, spend plenty of money and get to know the dancers. I guarantee you, if there are any "extras" girls there, they wll find you eventually. This process takes longer but is more comfortable for all the parties. And a lot more fun.

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    -->Pointing out an "extras" Person on our own shifts, has many consequences for all of us working that "same" shift.

    Yeah, it's called PANDERING, and it's a felony.. from a legality standpoint, receiving a tip for referring a customer to prostitution is 100x worse offense than the actual deed itself.

    If the customer happens to be law enforcement or an informant, and the local DA wants to set an example, they can nail the referrer for felony pandering, and the extras girl for misdemeanor prostitution. The extras girl is released with a small fine, the referrer spends the night in jail, has to post incredibly high bail, and lined up with a felony criminal trial.

    Discarding ALL that, it's just bad form, tacky and classless. AND it's a moot point in clubs that are openly brothels. Clubs with a few rulebreakers in the midst it's even worse since it builds a really bad negative atmosphere amongst the dancers. It's just all lose-lose no matter how you slice it.
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    Sorry, I did misunderstand the original question, however, my answer still remains.. I do not support ANYONE who gives extras and if a guy wants extras and wants me to give him directions to a girl who does or a referral to an escort service, then he's asked the wrong girl.. I'd probably take his money and tell him where the closest phone booth was with a yellow pages and let his fingers to the walking.... I don't have time for bullshit customers who have nothing better to do than waste my time that I could be spending on a customer who wants simply to have a good time without illegal activity.


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    There are some clubs where extras and more abound here in PR so should you make a trip here I'll gladly PM you with details :snicker:



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