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    Hi all, my first post here.

    A little about me....6 feet tall, 140 pounds, girlish face, 36 chest, 27 hip, 35 waist, (no hormones yet!!!...just women's multi vitamins), soft, smooth skin.

    After years of serious thinking and consideration...I've recently reached the conclusion that I want to become a women. I'm wondering if any clubs might be interested in helping me to attain my goal. What I'm looking for is this...I want a women associated with the industry to help me with my transformation. I want somone to help me with hormones, surgeries and other things associated with metamorphosis. (clothes, makeup, shoes, jewellery)

    I guess what I'm looking for is a loan and a lady to help me complete the change. With a little work and proper guidance, I could be a very pretty, feminine women.

    If there are any women out there who are up for a challenge....email me. I want to start process ASAP.

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    Methinks I should elaborate further and clarify what I'm wondering.

    Does anyone know a successful pre and/or post op TS stripper?

    Are there seperate clubs for TS women...or do bigger clubs in the cities have both TS and genetic women dancing?

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    I dont wanna sound bitchy, but it seems to me like there have been a lot of "talk" of men wanting to become women, and yet, those who have said it dont come back to the board. I hope you are not a troll.

    Anyway, on the other hand if you are serious, then GOOD LUCK and hopefully someone helps you with your goal. Anything can be done if you really want it.



    Oh and I just read your other question.... hmmm... I really dont know any TS strippers, but then again, they might be and me not know it. LOL So, there may be a chance that there are some who came out looking great. If I dont know and there are some, then they did a great job. Maybe some girls here DO know of this, although i have never heard of a TS club. Good luck again

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    Hi JessicaBritney

    I honestly haven't worked with any TS strippers, nor known of any. Therefore, I really don't have any info. specific to your situation. However, this board is great to learn about dancing/fashion/makeup/interpersonal relationships/etc. For TS info (locations of clubs, etc.) you might want to try a board geared to that specific category.

    Best of luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by JessicaBritney link=board=1;threadid=6532;start=msg72278#msg72278 date=1076468832
    I guess what I'm looking for is a loan and a lady to help me complete the change. With a little work and proper guidance, I could be a very pretty, feminine women.

    If there are any women out there who are up for a challenge....email me. I want to start process ASAP.
    Are you saying that you want a woman to LOAN you money ??
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    Hi Lexi, thanks for response....

    I'm not just talking....I'm going to contact a escort service or modeling agency to see if they'd like to help out financially. (thats how I found this site) I don't have very a lot of money becase I haven't been working too much as of late....let's just say I've been pre-occupied with everything feminine and haven't been able to get much work done. Friends and family don't understand...it's been trying times for me the last few months. But I've made a decision. I want to become a women. I want to be in the "skin" biz. And, preferably I'd like a sweet, kind and caring women to help guide me through change.

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    I have a few gay/lesbian friends along with a few crossdressers and I also know 2 men who have gone through the whole operation and now are beautiful women. I am a firm believer that some people are born into the wrong body and with technology we have today people can have that trama of not feeling comfy in their own skin fixed. My questions are (not to be to nosey) how old are you......how long have you felt this way.... and what research have you done thus far? From what my 2 friends that have gone through this already have told me there is a long phycological evaluation process that you must go through before a doctor will start you on even the hormones. I do not have all the answers to the questions you may have but understand where you are coming from experiencing it with the people i have known.

    Honestly about the clubs you have mentioned.... I know here in Ct. there are none. But seriously you haven't even started any transformation yet... you might be alittle ahead of yourself this isnt going to happen overnight.

    best of luck,
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    Let me ask you this, you are NOT TransGender right? I am a little confused because I remember reading and seeing something on tv about that and it was so interesting. Like, the men were born looking like males, but they felt like they were women, so they had the surgery and looked a lot like women. This isnt the same as TS? Or is it?

    Anyway, I hope that you can get the loan, but I think that its going to take more than just asking the ladies on this board, as you know we all work hard and its not easy to just loan people money, especially that we dont know. You can do something, like what you mentioned, or you could set up a site for donations, as others have done here. But dont expect it to come over night, or for anyone to just loan it without legal issues being resolved before hand, etc
    It is probably more complicated that it sounds too... either way
    Good luck with the agency tomorrow

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    I think he wants ANY one to loan him the money, but I think he wants a female to help him out, like instruct him on what to do physically. Like he mentioned, clothing, makeup, etc

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    Hi JessicaBritney. Welcome To SW.

    I'm was a bit confused with your post until I re-read it. I wasn't sure what type of advice you were looking for. If becoming a woman is something that you want to do, I wish you luck and happiness.

    I haven't known any other TS dancers, although I did waitress for awhile at a regular restaurant a few years back, and I worked with one. She was pre-op, but we all basically considered her to be female. At times, she got more attention from men than a lot of the other girls, and looked absolutely beautiful.

    I don't think there are any strip clubs that are specifically for TS or the like.

    I hope that your post is "for real", as we've had people that have posted things like this in the past, as a joke, basically.

    As for your question about finding someone to give you support and a loan... I know that you will get a TON of support on this site, but it's emotional support. As for financial support, I'm not sure you'll find that here. But if you have questions, feel free to post them, and we'll help you as well as we can.

    Welcome again, and good luck!


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    Farrah--- A women, a club, an agency...anyone who might be reading this and would like to help out. Trust me....once my metamorphosis is complete...I'll be able to pay the money back very quickly (I've almost got the body of a victoria secret model...with a little work...)

    Thanks for info Lexi and Dewdrop---I didn't think TS women were at same clubs as genetic women. I used to frequent strip clubs all the time. I was/am way too shy to dance in my girly body at normal clubs....so I've spent many an interesting night by myself at strip clubs confessing my wants and desires. Strippers are much cheaper then shrinks And I don't want to get too graphic here...but when I'd get a lap dance, I wasn't sure if I was getting hard because I was attracted to the girl....OR....because I wanted to be like the girl. I now know it's because I wanted to be like her.



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    Are there any gay clubs in your area ???
    I would suggest starting there.. I have a few gay friends that use hormones. They inject them themselves and I believe they buy them via the "black market"
    I agree with what Deanna has said.. I have a family member who has gone through the change to become a woman. The operation is very expensive. You have to get psychological testing and live as a woman for x amount of years.
    Most people I know have either worked as escorts,street walkers, boosters, any way they can make the $10,000 plus for the surgery.
    There is also a yearly doctor's visit for maintence.
    I am bi and spend a lot of time in gay clubs.
    Have you done an online search ?
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    My new love...is me !

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    wow...so many posts...I love women....they're (you're) so helpful...THANKS!!!

    I've done soooo much research. I've seen every site there is on the Net that pertains to TS women. It's been a long, difficult and confusing journey I must say.

    I'm 25 years old. I've felt this way since I was at least 20. When I was 18 something really tragic happened in my life. Because of tragedy...and my religious upbringing...I think I surpressed my feelings. In my early 20's I knew something was up. I noticed that I was wayyyyy to effeminate. I started thinking back to highschool years and wondering why I didn't "score" with many women. It wasn't from lack of opportunity. There was soo many chances to be with soo many women...for some reason I always found a reason not to do what every other guy would do.....get some "action"....

    very complicated.....

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    If you want this done then you need to make it happen..I honestly don't see anyone paying for your procedure. Thats why there are some many Tranny prosititues and sex workers. They are determined to get the work done..What steps are you willing to take to fund your surgery if you are unable to get a loan ??
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    How much the process of transitioning will cost and how long the process takes will depend ALOT on how far you want to go with it. You should sit down and think about what kinds of changes you are looking for. Do you just want breast implants and hormones? Do you want facial reconstructive surgery to appear feminine? Do you want to lose the penis? Basically are you looking for a small change or the whole nine yards?

    No matter what changes you want to make the process of transitioning will start out the same. You will be sent to a psychiatrist for evaluation. It will then be determined whether or not you are a good candidate MENTALLY/EMOTIONALLY for sexual reassignment. Afterwards you may be prescribed some female hormones. This will start to give you an idea of how it feels to be a woman. You may notice some slight changes in your genitals and in your breasts, you may lose some muscle mass or definition, you may have some changes with your voice and your vocal chords, and you will also probably start noticing some emotional changes in yourself. You will certainly be asked to continue counseling throughout the entire process. Many TS will feel no need to go further, but you might wish to do so. This process of evaluation, hormones, and continued therapy will probably take anywhere from six months to a couple years. Transitioning from man to woman is a big decision and one that isn't to be taken lightly.

    For many the next step is to have BA surgery. Breast Implants. It is generally reccomended and probably even required by the plastic surgeons that you undergo electrolysis for the hair on your chest. Unless of course you naturally are hairless or have light sparse hair. Breasts never look as good with a dark hairy chest. Keep in mind if you need to have electrolysis, that it can take several visits to deaden all of the hair folicles. The process of electrolysis can take up to a year or more, depending on how many treatments you will need. After that you will visit the plastic surgeon and decide which kind and what size implants will suit you best, they will perform the surgery and voila....breasts. LOL, it's more complicated than that. There are several ladies here who have had implants who can tell you more than I can about it.

    If you want to go a step further they can also perform facial reconstructive surgery and sexual reassignment surgery. (These surgeries are not necessarily done at the same time, but I'm explaining them together to save a tree. I'm practically writing a book here. hehe) For both of these proceedures you will need to have electrolysis done to remove the hair from your face and from your genitals. For facial reconstructive surgery you will have the initial appointments to decide how you want to reshape your face, and what procedures it will take to make your face into that shape. Alot of the time they will remove or shave part of the chin and brow bones so that your face has a smaller and more feminne look to it.
    For the sexual reassignment surgery, they will remove your testicles, but I believe they keep the skin of the scrotum for skin grafts. They will remove the penis and take out the erectile tissue and chambers. They will keep the urethra and the nerve endings from the head of your penis. The nerves from the head of the penis will make your new clitoris, and they will position your urethra just below that. Then they will take the skin from the shaft of the penis and turn it into a vagina. They will fashion your new labia out of the skin from your scrotum. And then you are a woman! They can do really wonderful things with that surgery. You'll of course have to rely on a lubricant while having sex or using toys because your vagina will not lubricate on it's own. You'll never have to worry about tampons or periods or pregnancy, but if they do a really good job with the cosmetic aspects of the surgery and you will look just like a genetic woman.

    It's a lot for you to think about. The whole process of that will take YEARS, a LOT of therapy, and a LOT of money. I suggest searching the web for the approximate costs of each of the surgeries and treatments you think you might want before trying to get a loan. It's good to know how much money you will need before you ask for it.

    Sorry about the novel, but I hope some of what I said will help you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kittie link=board=1;threadid=6532;start=msg72582#msg72582 date=1076528287

    For the sexual reassignment surgery, they will remove your testicles, but I believe they keep the skin of the scrotum for skin grafts. They will remove the penis and take out the erectile tissue and chambers. They will keep the urethra and the nerve endings from the head of your penis. The nerves from the head of the penis will make your new clitoris, and they will position your urethra just below that. Then they will take the skin from the shaft of the penis and turn it into a vagina. They will fashion your new labia out of the skin from your scrotum. And then you are a woman! They can do really wonderful things with that surgery. You'll of course have to rely on a lubricant while having sex or using toys because your vagina will not lubricate on it's own. You'll never have to worry about tampons or periods or pregnancy, but if they do a really good job with the cosmetic aspects of the surgery and you will look just like a genetic woman.
    Good Gawd! LOL... I had to cringe at that. But, very good info there, Kittie.

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    Yeah it's pretty graphic. I watched several video clips about it. And I've seen several documentaries on TV about people who've gone through those operations. I think it's so cool that doctors are capable of doing that for those who really want it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kittie link=board=1;threadid=6532;start=msg72599#msg72599 date=1076531098
    Yeah it's pretty graphic. I watched several video clips about it. And I've seen several documentaries on TV about people who've gone through those operations. I think it's so cool that doctors are capable of doing that for those who really want it.
    I agree.. It's amazing. I'd hate to see how graphic it would be for a woman wanting to become a man? I couldn't even imagine it.. lol

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    Kittie---thanx for info

    I'm certain I want to be a women. I've been thinking about it for at least 5 years. It's all I can think about. It pains me to live this life in a male body. I want the procedure ASAP....reason being that I haven't finished male puberty yet. I have no hair on my chest, back and neck. I'm afraid that if I wait...more of my "maleness" will come out. I'm not going to pay shrinks to tell me what I already know....and make me wait months for their diagnosis or "professional" opinion. I've practically been a monk (or nun ) the last five years. I've been very introspective. I've thought a lot.

    Ideally this is how my transformation/metamorphosis/change would occur....some sugar mommy or daddy read these posts and want to help out. Before removing all aspects of my maleness, I'd like to find a women who wants to have a baby with me. While living with that women, I'd like her to teach me the "in's and out's" of being a women. How to walk, talk, dress, impress,ect. During this time I'd also like to serve this wo-mentor and help her along pregnancy and child birth. After the baby's birth I'd like to have some sort of relationship with the women and child. Perhaps as maid or aunt or whatever. Now, I know most women wouldn't be interested in having a child with a TS person. Besides the TS nature of my persona, I really am quite a catch. Good body, really smart, funny, caring, kind....I have good genes and I look good in jeans

    Like I said in another post...with a little work I could be a Victoria's Secret model. Without taking any hormones or surgery, I'm already very passable. I have a girlish face and a feminine figure. I guess I'm looking for a manager to help me along. For approx. $25 000 I could become a pretty women.... hormones, breasts, neo-vagina, removal of facial hair, clothes, jewellery and shoes. I could pay that money back very quickly once I've become a women. It will be great to feel comfortable in my new skin and go out dancing and make money flaunting my beautiful body. I've been dreaming about this for soo long.

    I know it's a long-shot that anyone reading this will be interested in helping out....but if you happen to have some spare cash and you want to make a stategic "investment"....or if you're a women (and/or lesbian) and you want to have a baby...contact me.

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    ive worked with about 4 or 5 post op girls, at least i think they were post op i always wondered if they were just "tucking". 2 i know for sure were post op(nude club). they did well. however there was one i worked with that had the operation but still ended up killing herself. i guess nothing could make her happy. i still wonder if this isnt a fake post. if it isnt good luck but i wouldnt expect to get any money here.
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    JessicaBritney,
    I would like to wish you luck in your procedure and your life. I am sorry it is very painful to feel trapped in your own body, I can only imagine what your life must be like. It is very important for you to take the steps to accomplish your goals.
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    :troll: :troll: :troll:



    i'm so sick of pple who want something for nothing....want a good investment....buy a Crispey Creme Franchise or invest in companies that improve building structure safety in case of terrorist attacks....

    There are about 10 Victoria Secret models on earth out of 5 billion people......

    Sugar daddies/mamas are not surfing the web looking for strangers to contribute their hard earned money.....



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    I've worked with 5 possible TS girls (only one ever told me personlly that she used to be a man) and 2 of them were beaten up pretty badly by customers once rumors of their past surfaced. I'd think it would be very dangerous to play with men in that way. Many of the customers we deal with have problems with sex, sexuality and personal interaction, and would be inordinately peeved at being "fooled". For a lot of men they may feel that their own masculinity has been challenged or toyed with since they were attracted to what in their mind is a man. I'm not trying to dissuade you from your goals honey, but I would think about a club that specifically caters to men who are looking for ts/tg/drag or gay/lesbian type shows. In any medium to major city you are sure to find that type of club and in smaller towns there may be some type of underground deal. Good luck!
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    I don't understand...you are 25 and are afraid that you haven't finished puberty? Honey, you were done at about 20.

    As for the money...it sounds like a bunch of crap that you've "been so preoccupied that you cannot focus on anything else." It's great you are so gung-ho about what you want, but you need to be realistic. Asking someone for $25,000 is a pipe dream. You should be working your ass off for the majority of the money and see if maybe you can get a loan for the rest. Have you tried using a credit card?

    I know that you do not want this to take years...but, no matter what you do, they will not rush it because you say you want them to. They will REQUIRE you to go through x amount of years of hormone therapy...they will require you to go through counseling...it's not a choice. It's part of the package. And, it's also why this procedure costs so much.

    I still think this is a troll...but if it isn't, then good luck.

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