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    Default Re:What makes a guy/girl good in the sack?

    lol I love the pic Pole Cat! Some guys actually need that.. I defiently think that being open minded and comunicating is the key to great sex. It's a must for good oral for me though, if a guy can't give good oral even with some instruction then it's a no go for me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shedevil4260 link=board=1;threadid=6540;start=msg72853#msg72853 date=1076567634
    It's a must for good oral for me though, if a guy can't give good oral even with some instruction then it's a no go for me.
    I think one of the reasons why guys are bad at oral is simply they don't know what's sensitive down there and what's less sensitive. That and they do the same thing over and over ... as if they're removing paint from the bottom of a boat. *laugh*

    To say nothing about guys giving or even thinking about giving handjobs to their women. There's a time and place for everything and, in my experience, the car's the place for that. Women really seem to dig getting a handjob while being driven around. And I think part of that is because of the thrill of being possibly discovered receiving it by passerbys.
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    Jeeze! How hot can Yelle possibly be?

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    I have to say what makes a good fuck is: Be enthusiastic, don't bite nipples too hard (ouch), don't fish too quick, but don't take too long
    ( sometimes with all the shaving I do in that area, it can get irritated).

    I'm not into one night stands either, but I haven't been in love with every guy I've slept with. For those that are just for fun: be fun. Be wild, a little rough, loud, change positions, toss me, turn me, flip me, do as you please. Let me climb on top and ride untill I feel like I'm on another planet. Then..... You claen up. I will ocasionally, but generally I like it when a guy brings goes and gets a warm wet towel, and a glass of water.

    The best sex though is when your first in love. Slow soft carresses that turn into kisses all over each others necks, slowly peeling off each others clothes, kissing and lightly licking all over your bodies, especially light kisses on my tummy, lightly rubbing and sucking of nipples, a little gentle finger action, not forgetting how sensitive the inner thighs are to touch as well, slideing in real slow and going deep, untill your boddies can't controll themselves any more and you press harder and faster into each other, and feel you can't get enough of each other, then you end up in each others arms for hours and your head is on his chest listening to his heart, as you doze off in complete bliss, not wanting to ever leave this spot again.


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    Default Re:What makes a guy/girl good in the sack?

    Quote Originally Posted by Fawn link=board=1;threadid=6540;start=msg72867#msg72867 date=1076570180
    don't fish too quick, but don't take too long
    ( sometimes with all the shaving I do in that area, it can get irritated).
    Ok, I'll be the naive guy...fish? ???

    Quote Originally Posted by Fawn link=board=1;threadid=6540;start=msg72867#msg72867 date=1076570180
    The best sex though is when your first in love. Slow soft carresses that turn into kisses all over each others necks, slowly peeling off each others clothes, kissing and lightly licking all over your bodies, especially light kisses on my tummy, lightly rubbing and sucking of nipples, a little gentle finger action, not forgetting how sensitive the inner thighs are to touch as well, slideing in real slow and going deep, untill your boddies can't controll themselves any more and you press harder and faster into each other, and feel you can't get enough of each other, then you end up in each others arms for hours and your head is on his chest listening to his heart, as you doze off in complete bliss, not wanting to ever leave this spot again.

    Damn, I miss being in love.
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    Marry me, Fawn. Just marry me now and cut out the middleman.

    Quote Originally Posted by Fawn link=board=1;threadid=6540;start=msg72867#msg72867 date=1076570180
    I have to say what makes a good fuck is: Be enthusiastic, don't bite nipples too hard (ouch), don't fish too quick, but don't take too long.
    Whoa, now. You just hit me in a sensetive spot! How fash is too fast and how long is too long????


    Damn, I miss being in love.
    yeah, i'm right there with ya. I got pretty much dropped for a substance and that's the worst.




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    Wait, I thought all sex was good! lol If it looks like s/he is gonna be less than great, I just take charge or flat out demand what I need Normally I like to please first so that my partner is just begging to please me.
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    Faun, Moon, Three way marriage? Come on!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fawn link=board=1;threadid=6540;start=msg72867#msg72867 date=1076570180
    ( sometimes with all the shaving I do in that area, it can get irritated).
    Have you ever considered electrolysis? I know a lot of black women who have done it and never regretted it. No more shaving down there at all. No more razor cuts. No more razor burns. No more bumps. No more stubble. They also had it done on their armpits and legs (and a couple their arms) and thus never need to shave anymore. They even say their skin is softer now and I can testify to that. Just food for thought.

    ...toss me, turn me, flip me, do as you please.
    Ahhh, the joys of having sex with a woman that's smaller than you. I can always tell when a woman hasn't had sex with a big guy before. It's just their reactions to being treated as if they weigh nothing. The Kama Sutra was written with the idea that the men and women are of basically the same size. *laugh* There are so many things that you can both do if the guy won't strain himself lifting you ... tossing you ... turning you ... flipping you ... carrying you all over the place and back ... holding you up in the air in great positions not possible any other way. More than one woman had told me that once she's experienced sex with a big guy that knows what he's doing, she'll never settle for less again.

    I'm not into one night stands either, but I haven't been in love with every guy I've slept with.
    Oh, I haven't been in love with every woman I've slept with either, but I have known them for a time and liked every single one I have been with. Liked as a person and not as just an available body. This perplexes some people ... both men and women that know me. Guys think I'm nuts for not taking up every woman that makes her interest known and women sometimes think I'm rejecting them. Now don't get me wrong. I like sex. I love sex. It's just that I want it to be ... ugh, I know how corny what I'm about to say is going to sound ... I want it to be meaningful.

    Besides, I think because I'm not so much a wolf, I have no problem getting women ... and all my friends (both men and women) tell me this. That and most of my dates are where the women ask me out. I think this is partly because people like to feel special. If you're a guy that will sleep with just any woman and is known to do that, it's not that much of a compliment to the woman for you to say you want to have sex with her. Also, I think some women like a challenge. Not that I'm much of a challenge, but I just don't let my little head do my thinking for me. That and I'm a notorious flirt. *laugh*

    Then..... You claen up. I will ocasionally, but generally I like it when a guy brings goes and gets a warm wet towel, and a glass of water.
    I just make that the part of the post-sex carressing phase ... though some women think the warm wet towel in the big bowl next to the bed is part of the sex phase and thus grab and use it. *laugh* No biggie though. Just get and make another one. That and a nice back massage. Having powerful hands helps with massages. The only downpoint is that few women have powerful enough hands give one in return, but the thought is what matters.

    ...then you end up in each others arms for hours and your head is on his chest listening to his heart, as you doze off in complete bliss, not wanting to ever leave this spot again.
    Yeah, it's such a wonderful feeling to have her rest her head on your chest, snuggle in real close, occasionally kissing your chest, wrapping her legs around yours, her hands gently fondling your ... *cough* ... and her falling asleep that way. I moving in my arm behind her back to provide her support to stay there. That's a great feeling. Those are times when I lay there thinking how great life is as I too drift off to sleep.

    Damn, I miss being in love.
    It will happen again. You know it will. I know it will. Right now with launching my talk show, my life is too busy for starting and maintaining a relationship but once I can employ more people to reduce my workload, I'll start socializing again. Not hunting. I will just let Cupid find me when he's can work me into his hectic schedule.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blade is a D.j. link=board=1;threadid=6540;start=msg72674#msg72674 date=1076541475
    Quote Originally Posted by bloodydewdrop link=board=1;threadid=6540;start=msg72559#msg72559 date=1076523634
    i'm gonna sound VERY vanilla here.....

    but for me, the best sex is with someone i love, and who loves me in return. soft, sensual touching that builds up into the frenzied animalisitc/ passionate level. or roll-playing....that turns me on too.

    and then there are those times when i just want to be playful and carefree

    but most of all, i'm a complete romantic at heart
    Then what was last saturday? I thought it was fantastic the way I gave my all and made sure my sadistic cravings were satisfied at your expense(BTW I love the way you beg....)lol

    Ha!!!! Well, I did find last Saturday to be spectacular Blade . But I wouldn't call it "sex."

    Note: the above-described act consisted of a massage fully clothed in public by someone who knows what they're doing (Blade) and loved tormenting me by tickling his fingers across my skin .

    In describing my view of an ideal sexual experience, I was going for the head-over-heels love COMBINED with such massage, etc. The kind of love that makes me particularly wussy. Where me and Orlando Bloom (as Legolas the elf) make love in Middle Earth and compose ballads about it...

    But you, sir, do know my weaknesses (as does Deanna).

    *Please* more!!!!!!! hehe

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=1;threadid=6540;start=msg72874#msg72874 date=1076570789

    yeah, i'm right there with ya. I got pretty much dropped for a substance and that's the worst.
    I feel your pain....really I do.....


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    I like a woman who is comfortable with sex and comfortable in the bedroom. If a woman has issues about sex or is uncomfortable with sex even a little, it will come through in the bedroom.

    She should tell me what she wants or at least guide me in the right direction if I’m not hitting the right spots ;-) I like a vocal woman and a little dirty talk—“fuck me harder” that sort of thing.

    Being skilled at giving oral sex is also a plus. Conversation is good. Long foreplay is a must. Caressing is a big turn on. I also need a woman who enjoys receiving oral sex. Believe it or not, I’ve run into a few women who don’t like receiving oral sex, and that disappoints me to no end. Personally, I get a lot of pleasure from giving a woman pleasure.

    But a lot of this comes down to simple chemistry. If you don’t have chemistry with your partner, the sex will probably be sub par.

    And I’ve found that you can’t judge how good the sex can be from just one or two encounters. Sometimes it takes a while for partners to become comfortable with each other in a sexual situation. So if it wasn’t that great the first time around give it another go.

    And remember the old saying, even bad sex is good sex

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    Default The key to being a good lover

    It's not so much about technique or even stamina. But rather, I would say, entusiasm.

    It's about the ability to get pleasure from giving pleasure. Being able to get totally lost in the moment. To forget all else exist accept for you and all them pink parts.

    Also, a willingness to explore and be adventurous, to try new things, goes a long way.

    I go masturbate now.

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    Just thought I'd throw in my opinion...
    I only like men and have been told by a few that I'm great because I don't just lay there.
    Haha which is true I like to experiment with different things. Being on top or whatever.
    My only problem is sometimes I bite when I get too into it. lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by missmolly link=board=1;threadid=6540;start=msg73626#msg73626 date=1076727825
    My only problem is sometimes I bite when I get too into it.
    I'm really not seeing a problem with this.. *meow*
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    Quote Originally Posted by missmolly link=board=1;threadid=6540;start=msg73626#msg73626 date=1076727825
    My only problem is sometimes I bite when I get too into it. lol
    That's worth a thread in and of itself. "Crazy shit people do when they get too excited during sex."
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    In my opinion, great sex comes from a fantastic connection and some well laid groundwork. I have always found that the more comfortable a woman is with you the more intense she'll let her orgasm be. I feel that so much has to do with the mindset of a female. If you take enough time to make a woman feel comfortable she will enjoy it more. Bring her close to climax and back off just a little, then close, then back. She will tell you when she has had enough teasing then look out cause you might get hurt.
    The ground work I speak of is the crescendo of kissing from lips then about the body, slowly working to the most sensitive parts. Soft kisses with small bites at the end. When it comes time to go for the oral, you want to move yourself to the tip of her toes and slowly kiss towards the the "Y" but pass it up. move back up the other leg, but don't neglect some hot breath on that area to bring on some anticipation. The key point is to make sure that you are making her feel special and not missing the key parts of the legs ( back of the knee, inner thigh, ball of the foot. Not a bad idea to rub the feet prior to the whole thing to let her know you are interested in pleasing her every desire. As you make your descent you need to be sure to be extra deliberate with your licks and kisses. When you do reach your final destination, make sure to gauge her sensitivity as to not make her uncomfortable. Everything else about the oral sex I must keep as my own trade secrets. If you give her every bit of pleasure, she will be certain to repay you several times over. Learn what drives her wild and use it, but not all in the same order, mix it up.
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