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    I feel the need to vent and I'm sure many, if not all, of the rest of you do as well. So, I figured, why not just make one big vent/complain post. Doesn't matter what you want to bitch about (except problems with other members--please don't bring any fights in here). Just say whatever you're feeling. If we let it out, we'll all feel better.

    Here are my complaints for today:
    --I'm upset that after 2 years, my family still doesn't have the money to buy my mom a gravestone. She just lying there with no stone, just a little plastic marker. The greatest woman of all time does not deserve that kind of treatment.
    --I went to the doctor today. All of my blood tests came back negative, which, SHOULD be a good thing (no lupus, mono, RA, thyroid problem, etc). Problem is, I feel so damn crappy all the time! The fatigue, the sore joints, everything just sucks. I wish I HAD something wrong cuz then I could fix it, ya know?! But nope, just gotta keep pluggin' along no matter how shitty I feel.
    --I was doing so well at the gym that first week. I wasn't losing any weight but I was determined. But then my feet were hurting so bad the next week and just when I got my new walking shoes, I got sick. Now the car is in the shop getting fixed and I have no way of getting there. I'm losing all this crucial gym time! AHHH! I just wish there was a safe way to speed things up--I've never been this heavy and I don't know why I'm like this right now--I've never been able to control my weight--it just does whatever the hell it wants to do.
    --May is coming so fast. I'll be graduating and I have no idea what to do. There aren't any jobs here for me (there aren't jobs anywhere actually--what kind of job can you get with a BA in English without living in the city and knowing someone who knows someone important). My bf is going to Albany. I'm choosing not to go with him. I've decided that he's not the man I want to marry and this would be the best time for us to part ways. My sister doesn't have any money and can't get aid or loans (again, cuz my dad is an ass and won't give info for the FAFSA). So she only applied to the Community College in my town and has no other plans. And now I'm pretty much obligated to stay and help her out the best I can. But with no money, no full time job, no benefits, no car and a lot of debt, I have no idea what the hell to do!

    Ok, I'm done now. I'm sure I'll have more later.

    Now....let everyone vent. VENT AWAY!!!!
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    Are you thinking about continuing to dance? You could make a lot of money while you try to figure out what you want to do, pay off some or all of your debt, and maybe even buy your mother a headstone.

    It is sweet to think about your sister, but you have to think about you, too. Don't stay in a place you don't like because you feel obligated.

    I hope things turn out well for you.

    **I realized I just sort of assumed that you dance. If you don't...um...ignore this post. Except the part where I hope everything turns out well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SCGirl link=board=1;threadid=6681;start=msg74507#msg74507 date=1076979186
    I feel the need to vent and I'm sure many, if not all, of the rest

    --I went to the doctor today. All of my blood tests came back negative, which, SHOULD be a good thing (no lupus, mono, RA, thyroid problem, etc). Problem is, I feel so damn crappy all the time! The fatigue, the sore joints, everything just sucks. I wish I HAD something wrong cuz then I could fix it, ya know?! But nope, just gotta keep pluggin' along no matter how shitty I feel.
    Hey check out this site www.curezone.com

    I have a yeast infestation in my body, and for years I couldn't figure out why I was always so tired, and blah feeling and why I would catch a cold at the drop of a dime etc. Well sinceI've been doing cleanses, (for me thats fasting and eating healthy and occasionally cycling herbs--mainly when I've disrespected my body with too much sugar. alcohol not enough rest [I {my mind} can be a demanding bitch at times but I{my body} takes the cake!!] and my body forces me to stop.

    Since the doctor's couldn't find any clues in their little tests or any info in their little books I was told many times that "Maybe it's all in your head"

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    Quote Originally Posted by SCGirl link=board=1;threadid=6681;start=msg74507#msg74507 date=1076979186
    --I went to the doctor today. All of my blood tests came back negative, which, SHOULD be a good thing (no lupus, mono, RA, thyroid problem, etc). Problem is, I feel so damn crappy all the time! The fatigue, the sore joints, everything just sucks. I wish I HAD something wrong cuz then I could fix it, ya know?! But nope, just gotta keep pluggin' along no matter how shitty I feel.
    Wow sweetie.. Sorry about your troubles. From the symptoms you've mentioned, it got me thinking about CFS (Chronic Fatigue Syndrome). Has your doctor checked into this? One of my friends has it, she's always so wiped out, and she feels like she got hit by a mack truck most days. Those symptoms you mentioned are classic CFS symptoms. If he has tested for it, get a second opinion hon.

    I hope things get better for you.


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    An Open Letter To Everyone In Front Of Me On The Highway......

    You know who you are, you're the guy on his cell phone or the senior citizen doing 45 in a 65mph zone,you're the woman putting on make-up(nice technique btw,I LOVE how you hold the compact AND the steering wheel while applying the powder!),or you could be the person in the BMW who thinks because you drive a Beemer and I drive an old Ford truck I need to pay attention and you don't.
    Well today as I was behind you with my wife and one of our kids you decided to slow down for no apparent reason and I had to slam on my brakes!Normally this wouldn't upset me but you would make it up to the speed limit then let off your gas pedal and coast until you were doing 45....Let me explain something to you,this is the FAST lane not the oops I'm going over 50 so I better slow down lane!You have all the modern safety gear installed in your car,I do not.When my 4800lb truck slams into your rearend I may be killed or you may be injured or killed,is your life and the life of my family worth your makeup or cell phone or the price tag on that brand new Beemer?It was worse when you changed lanes and every so often would drift back into my space,were you checking my reflexes?Or did you just want to occupy the space my vehicle was taking up?
    I realize that you may have thought my speed was ridiculous,but I was only doing 5-10 miles over the speed limit and I was maintaining it constantly,until you got in my way.....I don't have anti-lock brakes so the sound you heard was me panic breaking and slamming the truck into a lower gear to avoid putting my pushbar into your quarterpanel(btw I loved how you flipped me the bird and shot me a dirty look...I'm sure for some strange reason I deserved it)
    Please in the future make the phone call from the side of the road or at home, leave the house AFTER you applied your make-up or wait until you get to your destination...Don't realize you are doing the speed limit and just let off your gas, and by all means PLEASE try and stay in your lane!
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    ^^^^road rage. :o jk Blade. The days keep passing me by.. ???
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    Quote Originally Posted by SCGirl link=board=1;threadid=6681;start=msg74507#msg74507 date=1076979186

    --I went to the doctor today. All of my blood tests came back negative, which, SHOULD be a good thing (no lupus, mono, RA, thyroid problem, etc). Problem is, I feel so damn crappy all the time! The fatigue, the sore joints, everything just sucks. I wish I HAD something wrong cuz then I could fix it, ya know?! But nope, just gotta keep pluggin' along no matter how shitty I feel.
    Ummm...just read an article about Wilson's Thyroid Syndrome. Was actually diagnosed with it. It's not a "Thyroid problem" as much as it is a conversion problem. You get all of the same symptoms as someone who has a thyroid disease, but your tests will come back negative for thyroid disease. There is a treatment for it (and it's not lifelong). I haven't started it yet, but I'll post the link for you. Let me know if this hits kinda close to home.

    http://www.wilsonssyndrome.com/

    You can also do a search for more information elsewhere, too.

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    A) Thanks for all the support you guys! You know I always appreciate it.

    B) I've come to the conclusion that I have Hypochondria--I THINK I have every disease that sounds remotely like anything I experience on a daily basis, but really, I'm just a piss-ass little whinner with nothing really wrong! LOL! I mean COME ON! How many bad things can one person have?! I have hair loss/thinning hair, redness in the face (it's not acne, dry skin, or that "rosecia" (sp?) thing), unexplained weight loss/gain, breathlessness at the slightest activity, EXTREME redness in the face during activity (even walking on the treadmill), my pulse goes through the roof during activity, random joint pain (especially in the hips during the night--some sort of inflammation), susceptibility to all sorts of viruses and sicknesses (weak immune system), flat feet, crooked back (I have a hump--my whole family does), disproportionate body (small/thin/weak arms and legs, very large chest cavity and hip bones), I can't breathe through my nose, I have bad eyes, hypersensitive hearing (which actually makes it HARD to hear because you hear EVERYTHING at once and can't focus), extreme fatigue, and so on and so forth forever and ever and ever. Apparently I've had undiagnosed IBS my entire life too--I never knew!No one has ever been able to say that there is something wrong with me--although my doctor I had as a kid ALWAYS told me I was constipated (even when I came in for a broken toe). Funny enough though, for all the scoffing we did of him, he was actually right (hence the IBS--but no one ever knew--how was I supposed to know there was something wrong? Nobody tells you how often you should be going to the bathroom!). But anyway, yeah, like i said, I'm going to diagnose myself as a hypochondriac and that solves everything! HA!

    C) Blade--I'm with ya TOTALLY dude! I hate dick-ass drivers! I have SUCH road rage. I'm one of those people who will pass the dick heads and then speed up and slow down and speed up and slow down. heheheheh. I'm such a bitch!
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    'kay...my turn.....

    my period started today...i'm in alot of pain...and in a REALLY foul mood...

    (and i want me mum :'()
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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess link=board=1;threadid=6681;start=msg74902#msg74902 date=1077090102
    Ummm...just read an article about Wilson's Thyroid Syndrome. Was actually diagnosed with it. It's not a "Thyroid problem" as much as it is a conversion problem. You get all of the same symptoms as someone who has a thyroid disease, but your tests will come back negative for thyroid disease. There is a treatment for it (and it's not lifelong). I haven't started it yet, but I'll post the link for you. Let me know if this hits kinda close to home.

    http://www.wilsonssyndrome.com/

    You can also do a search for more information elsewhere, too.
    I went to the site....funny, it says that low body temp is an indicator....I have that too! (but then again, what do I NOT have at this point?!)

    haha...just read Topaz's post...I have a really really heavy period too! Oh, and Nina's post reminded me that I've ALWAYS had a really bad vaginal discharge (more than you needed to know, huh?) but the doctors have said everything's normal. Another thing I just remembered--the doc said that my glucose level was high (211) but, since she wasn't testing specifically for that and didn't tell me to fast, she said it probably wasn't anything to worry about. Then again, I had been throwing up like a madwoman for the 5 hours previous to having my blood drawn--wonder if that makes any kind of difference. Geez....what a life! lol
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    SC Girl you should really look into Venus was atlking about and have your doctor run test on you for it..Believe it or not I some bizarre health issues that just didn't fit with my age and my lifestyle. After being hospitalized numerous times a very good Dr. determined that I had a vitamin K defiency..I had never even heard of Vitamin K..I started talking supplements and I was back to normal in no time..its worth a try..

    Topaz sorry you're in so much pain..periods suck..Execercise helps cramps, you should try it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SCGirl link=board=1;threadid=6681;start=msg75126#msg75126 date=1077147836
    A) Thanks for all the support you guys! You know I always appreciate it.

    B) I've come to the conclusion that I have Hypochondria--I THINK I have every disease that sounds remotely like anything I experience on a daily basis, but really, I'm just a piss-ass little whinner with nothing really wrong! LOL! I mean COME ON! How many bad things can one person have?! I have hair loss/thinning hair, redness in the face (it's not acne, dry skin, or that "rosecia" (sp?) thing), unexplained weight loss/gain, breathlessness at the slightest activity, EXTREME redness in the face during activity (even walking on the treadmill), my pulse goes through the roof during activity, random joint pain (especially in the hips during the night--some sort of inflammation), susceptibility to all sorts of viruses and sicknesses (weak immune system), flat feet, crooked back (I have a hump--my whole family does), disproportionate body (small/thin/weak arms and legs, very large chest cavity and hip bones), I can't breathe through my nose, I have bad eyes, hypersensitive hearing (which actually makes it HARD to hear because you hear EVERYTHING at once and can't focus), extreme fatigue, and so on and so forth forever and ever and ever. Apparently I've had undiagnosed IBS my entire life too--I never knew!No one has ever been able to say that there is something wrong with me--although my doctor I had as a kid ALWAYS told me I was constipated (even when I came in for a broken toe). Funny enough though, for all the scoffing we did of him, he was actually right (hence the IBS--but no one ever knew--how was I supposed to know there was something wrong? Nobody tells you how often you should be going to the bathroom!). But anyway, yeah, like i said, I'm going to diagnose myself as a hypochondriac and that solves everything! HA!

    C) Blade--I'm with ya TOTALLY dude! I hate dick-ass drivers! I have SUCH road rage. I'm one of those people who will pass the dick heads and then speed up and slow down and speed up and slow down. heheheheh. I'm such a bitch!
    It sounds like you are very stressed! Try having a "me only day" Relax ...do things that you enjoy and take the day off from everyone. Do things for yourself that you have been neglecting. Try going to some sort of day spa, if you are able to. I hope things start getting better!

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    I don't agree that you sound like a hypochondriac. I think you sound like you desperately need a great multivitamin and some lovin'.

    *puts on quack DR hat, which means you should take this for what it's worth*

    I diagnose too much stress and your body not having the proper nutrients to maintain itself. Get thee to GNC! Glucosamine can help with your joint problems, a "hair-and-nail" supplement could give your hair a boost and a great women's multivitamin can help with everything from weight loss/muscle density to menstrual cramps/insomnia.

    Minimize your life. You sound like a wreck (said in love!), so it's high time you took stock. Decide what you can and cannot deal with right now and then make a plan to stick with solely those stress-inducing events which are absolutely necessary for YOUR life. Write it all down in a list and tape that to your bathroom mirror or refridgerator (somewhere you will see it often). Also write a list of those stress-inducing events or chores which are not your responsibility... and then burn the list. Follow up with a nice long stroll in a park or near water and a facial.


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    And let us not forget the best stress releiver ....SEX! after the walk in the park go get laid!Or take a walk to the park and get laid in the park....

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    Have you ever had a laproscopy done to see if you have endometriosis?
    I had endo and had severe pain etc. I also have Fibromyalgia but this has improved some with treating food allergies.
    If you need to know more about endo check out:

    You may have it or you may not but it doesn't hurt to find out... the docs said I had IBS... turns out I had endo on my bowels.

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