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    Not sure how to ask this but I am insecure about my size and prevents me from getting dances many times. Just wondering what the thoughts are if you realized the customer has a very small unit..... also, what is the smallest?

    P.S. not sure if this is disrespecting question, just have to know..... ???

    P.S.2 Does size really matter when it comes to sex?

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    >>"I am insecure about my size and prevents me from getting dances"<<

    This excuse is something I have never understood as it makes no sense. Unless you&#039;re planning on pulling it out and actually doing something with it, how can this possibly be a deterrent to getting dances?

    If you&#039;re concerned about making some sort of impact on the dancers- the single best impact you can possibly make is by buying dances, tipping well and patronizing their work. How well hung you are is as applicable to them as it is to the person you buy gas from, or order lunch from. The dancers are going to think 100x more highly of the gentleman that is social, friendly, generous and buying dances versus the wallflower sitting around not buying dances, regardless of the size of his package.

    Your second question has been beat to death on too numerous websites and organizations for men&#039;s health and sexuality, as well as dozens of women&#039;s sites. You can find lots of good information and long dialogues on that discussion elsewhere.
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    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=8;threadid=6737;start=msg75334#msg75334 date=1077191896

    If you&#039;re concerned about making some sort of impact on the dancers- the single best impact you can possibly make is by buying dances, tipping well and patronizing their work. How well hung you are is as applicable to them as it is to the person you buy gas from, or order lunch from. The dancers are going to think 100x more highly of the gentleman that is social, friendly, generous and buying dances versus the wallflower sitting around not buying dances, regardless of the size of his package.
    EXACTLY!!!! i can esure you that a dancer is more likely to be concerned about the size of your wallet and your bank rolls NOT the size of your man-hood.....

    So relax and enjoy

    Seraya.


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    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=8;threadid=6737;start=msg75334#msg75334 date=1077191896
    >>"I am insecure about my size and prevents me from getting dances"<<

    This excuse is something I have never understood as it makes no sense. Unless you&#039;re planning on pulling it out and actually doing something with it, how can this possibly be a deterrent to getting dances?

    If you&#039;re concerned about making some sort of impact on the dancers- the single best impact you can possibly make is by buying dances, tipping well and patronizing their work. How well hung you are is as applicable to them as it is to the person you buy gas from, or order lunch from. The dancers are going to think 100x more highly of the gentleman that is social, friendly, generous and buying dances versus the wallflower sitting around not buying dances, regardless of the size of his package.

    Your second question has been beat to death on too numerous websites and organizations for men&#039;s health and sexuality, as well as dozens of women&#039;s sites. You can find lots of good information and long dialogues on that discussion elsewhere.
    I usually pay for the time they spend sitting with me since I know their time is money. Once again.... I stress the fact about the word "insecure"...... it is very personal thing and I am not comfortable with intimacy because of it. Also I am not very experienced with sex and is trying to get used to intimate contacts with women by going to SCs.

    I know about the 2nd question being overly asked on other sites, but I trust the people on this site since I have been reading the post here for a few weeks and leanred to trust the people here and not just some web site giving out general information........

    As far as making impact with the dancers I keep it simple. Time is money......and I treat it like if I am seeing a doctor regardless of if I am getting dances or not. Anyway, thanks for the reply, this isn&#039;t something I talk about with other people since I am "insecure" about it. :&#039;(

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    Small "members" I feel are awesome for BJ&#039;s...

    average size is great for inside...

    HUGE... ummm definitely not in me! OUCH but might be fun to play with...


    So I guess the only size that matters to me is HUGE because I can&#039;t stand the thought of being hit inside with something that big... It hurts enough if an 7" goes deep...

    Also girls really aren&#039;t that interested in cocks... well from my perspective anyway... they are fun and important for use, but I wouldn&#039;t write a guy off due to size. 3 of my favorite guy friends are tiny...

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    Don&#039;t worry hun, we dont want your cock, just your money. True!

    Pamela

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    I should rephrase my post... my comments on cock size were NOT referring to customers. I DONT" do customers so I&#039;m NOT interested in their cock size! Which emphasizes the personality points...

    I was just wantin to encourage Jake that in the outside world his size most likely isn&#039;t an issue with dating, sex etc.

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    Pam.... what if I am small and poor....


    Sexy, thanks you! that is very helpful.

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    >> Pam.... what if I am small and poor....

    Save up and only go to the club when you have a decent amount of cash.

    Or just lower your expectations. Back when I was poor I used to hit the nude clubs in my town occasionally. They were no contact, and after every dance the dancer would go around the room to get tips. Typically the guys would stuff a dollar or two in their panties, taking the opportunity to cop a feel. So what I&#039;d do, I&#039;d give five dollars and HAND it to the dancer, with a smile and some comment along the lines of "Thanks, that was a great dance." At that rate I couldn&#039;t stay very long, but while I was there I got a lot of warm smiles.

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    I&#039;ve never understood the concern guys have about the size of their packages...I mean who really invented this "bigger is better" thing??????

    This guy I dated told me one time that his ex told him that he was "too small". I&#039;ll reveal to you guys that he was about 6 1/2 inches..my reply to him was....maybe it wasn&#039;t that you were to small: it was that she was too big *laugh* (*which by the way is not really an issue, I&#039;ll elaborate later)

    As a matter of fact, I&#039;ve never had a girl confide in me about that being a personal concern.

    My feelings are this. It&#039;s not the size of the package, it&#039;s how you use it...I&#039;ve had relationships with a guy that was considered well-endowed that didn&#039;t give me much pleasure and another that was what I consider average and he rocked my world.

    My advice to you is that when it comes to intimacy, if you want to pleasure a woman, give lots of foreplay, lots of heart, and don&#039;t be afraid to ask her what she likes and what feels good.

    *As for the elaboration: kegal exercises for work wonders in the bedroom!

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    LMAO I love it when trolls come visit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PreciousinHouston link=board=8;threadid=6737;start=msg77863#msg77863 date=1077772544
    I&#039;ve never understood the concern guys have about the size of their packages...I mean who really invented this "bigger is better" thing??????

    This guy I dated told me one time that his ex told him that he was "too small". I&#039;ll reveal to you guys that he was about 6 1/2 inches..my reply to him was....maybe it wasn&#039;t that you were to small: it was that she was too big *laugh* (*which by the way is not really an issue, I&#039;ll elaborate later)

    As a matter of fact, I&#039;ve never had a girl confide in me about that being a personal concern.

    My feelings are this. It&#039;s not the size of the package, it&#039;s how you use it...I&#039;ve had relationships with a guy that was considered well-endowed that didn&#039;t give me much pleasure and another that was what I consider average and he rocked my world.

    My advice to you is that when it comes to intimacy, if you want to pleasure a woman, give lots of foreplay, lots of heart, and don&#039;t be afraid to ask her what she likes and what feels good.

    *As for the elaboration: kegal exercises for work wonders in the bedroom!
    That is comforting to know as well. I get information from TV and the media and you can see why I feel the way I feel. They even had the subject on Sex and the City once where Sam had to break up with this dude because of it. Anyway.... thanks for all the reply, maybe when I get as old as FBR I would have the confidence to not care so much anymore......

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    As far as what goes on inside the strip club....the other girls are right on. We really don&#039;t give a shit about the size of your penis. (In fact most of us hope that the subject will never come up and that you DON&#039;T ask us to have anything to do with your penis regardless of it&#039;s size, or lack thereof.)

    Now, when it comes to your real life relationships with women, there ARE some women out there who are into size, but I think that most women really won&#039;t be bothered by a smaller penis. For one thing, the majority of the vagina&#039;s nerve endings are concentrated within the first few inches anyway, so having a really long cock isn&#039;t going to make that much of a difference. Also, most women can&#039;t have an orgasm from intercourse alone. What that means is that the thing that gets most of us off isn&#039;t your penis anyway. But what you do to our clit with your tongue or your fingers or a toy you bring along WILL make a difference cause that&#039;s what does it for most girls anyway. Don&#039;t worry about your penis size. Brush up on your cunnilingus skills and on your finger dexterity and you will do just fine!!!

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    i gotta say...kittie&#039;s post hit the nail right on the head. exactly what i was thinking.

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    girth and technique matter most.

    I&#039;ve been disappointed in the past when the pants came off, but I am talking little-boy-small.


    edited to add:
    This is in my personal life. The less I know about my customers&#039; dicks, the better!

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    Does size matter? Who knows? I have heard opinions on all sides, and sizes. IMHO, it&#039;s not the size that really matters unless it&#039;s overly small or overly large to make it uncomfortable. It&#039;s technique and what else you do that&#039;s not related to your penis.
    It&#039;s all mind over matter. If I don&#039;t mind, it doesn&#039;t matter.

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    I couldn&#039;t possibly care less whether a customer has a big schlong or not! The only thing I care about the size of is his cash stack or credit card limit. I think if you&#039;re so insecure about the size of your &#039;unit&#039; that you won&#039;t even buy dances when you want them, you have other problems to work on besides your size or what we think of it.

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    I&#039;ve been told that it&#039;s not the size of your worm; it&#039;s the soeed of your tongue.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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