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    Default Mr. Ideal Prince Charming (or Miss Princess)

    Earlier today, A friend and I were discussing the standards and prerequisites we have for the people we dated. It was a lengthy in depth conversation that revealed a lot about the both of us.

    He wants a girl who can view any situation optimistically, someone for whom nothing is impossible. He wants an intelligent and attractive person that relates to him and appreciates his sense of humor.

    I want somebody who is unaffected by mainstream standards and has strong opinions. Someone with a real passion for the arts and food and lovemaking. An Eclectic.

    What about you? What spells P-E-R-F-E-C-T in your book? Can be anything. I am just curious.

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    Hmm does HE/SHE even exist?? Well he first has to be good in bed. I'm sorry and I know it sounds shallow but I'm a very sexual person and an X-Cheater. So it's a must for the guy to have a good sized thing and know's how to use it...Next I need him to be supportive in anything I do in life, not too jeoulous,has to make atleast 100,000 a year with some sort of education, has a loving and warm heart, has to like kids, and can enjoy the finer things in life. Some artistic quality or hobby is a bonus. There's tons more but not enough time in the world. jk
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    Above-average looking with a tight bod. Great sense of humor, likes to tell jokes. Confident, but with no big ego. Down-to-earth and realistic, mature. Classy and intelligent, educated, responsible. Enjoys dining, live music, preferably plays as instrument. An avid reader. Must have a well-paying job, and a future. Can also let his hair down and go to amusement parks, water parks, play video games, etc. A social chameleon who many people like, has a lot of friends. Very loving and kind, has a slight attitude sociably but not with me . (Has a backbone). Sends me flowers, remembers all the holidays generously. Buys me jewelry and takes me shopping . Is great in bed, likes to try new things. Very romantic. Never makes me jealous, treats me like a queen. Also, is not jealous. Very supportive of me and what I choose to do in life. Doesn't tie me down. Very open-minded, views women as equals. Enjoys movies. Creative and artistic. Positive attitude. Loves cuddling, cooking, hugging. And above all, he CAN NOT have a unibrow or ugly, bushy eyebrows (guys get some tweezers)!

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    Forgotten - his package must be average, not too big and not too small, and he must groom. Too big = pain, too small = not enough sensation . And he must be fashion-forward, progressive. He must love animals. I want someone very positive that I can learn, share, and grow with. No manipulation, no lying, no cheating, no games, no bs.


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    lol ok here is my list!


    - HONEST
    - GENUINE
    - CONFIDENT
    - a good spirit
    - very open-minded
    - respect for ALL women
    - wisdom and knowlege
    - know's himself, understand's himself and love's himself
    - passionate ( not sexually ) about life in general
    - VERY sexual but imtimate
    - great sense of humor
    - loyal
    - generous
    - romantic
    - STRONG willed and STRONG minded
    - appreiciates every aspect of life
    - easy going
    - spiritual
    - mysterious and deep
    - loves and appericiates music or the arts
    - willingness to learn and explore
    - a thirst for knowledge
    - someone i can learn and grow with
    - secure within himself
    - a leader not a follower
    - LOVES ME and treats me like #1!!!

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    Inserting the male angle heh-
    I've always been drawn to women with a wicked sense of humor- and educated enough to draw sense from the more sarcastic and ironic forms of humor. They also have to be tolerant and clever enough to deal with the interesting word-usements that I structure. Obviously, she has to be loyal and honest- this is rewarded with 110% of the same in return.

    Most importantly, I've always required a woman that doesn't look for outside confirmation to any degree or for anything. Someone who is self-actualized and confident enough to understand that life is meant for living- not for how you appear to others, where you fall in ranks with social cliques, or with concerns of embarassment or so-called "proper" behavior. Someone who is strong-willed and independent... and doesn't "need" a man, but instead similarly seeks someone as a spiritual anchor and for mutual life enrichment. An eye for artistry as well as being creative and expressive are a must... and she must also be filled with compassion, which includes a love for animals.

    Sexually, I prefer women who are more sensual and passionate. The art of touch is rapidly becoming extinct in our society as more people close down or recoil from human contact. I need someone that is warm, receptive and open. They should also enjoy a frequently aggressive (but in a non-painful way) male partner.

    Physically, I've always loved women so I honestly don't have any specific physical requirements. I'm learning to really enjoy the company of taller women, being a tall guy. In the past, ex-girlfriends had always been average height to short (5'5 and below) and I really didn't mind or notice much. But in company of much taller women, I'm learning all the bad habits I'd gotten into in order to compensate for women between one to two feet shorter than myself. From doors to dancefloors, living room to bedroom- women from 5'10" to 6'1" are closer to my own height and it's been quite more natural and very nice!

    You'd think all this specialization would make a very rare find, but I'm happy to say I'm in a geographic location that is seemingly teeming to the brim with such women. While most guys are complaining about all the strong-willed, indepedent women invading the single sector, I'm saying "life is good"
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    Quote Originally Posted by seraya (london) link=board=1;threadid=6742;start=msg75342#msg75342 date=1077194438
    lol ok here is my list!


    - HONEST
    - GENUINE
    - CONFIDENT
    - a good spirit
    - very open-minded
    - respect for ALL women
    - wisdom and knowlege
    - know's himself, understand's himself and love's himself
    - passionate ( not sexually ) about life in general
    - VERY sexual but imtimate
    - great sense of humor
    - loyal
    - generous
    - romantic
    - STRONG willed and STRONG minded
    - appreiciates every aspect of life
    - easy going
    - spiritual
    - mysterious and deep
    - loves and appericiates music or the arts
    - willingness to learn and explore
    - a thirst for knowledge
    - someone i can learn and grow with
    - secure within himself
    - a leader not a follower
    - LOVES ME and treats me like #1!!!

    Seraya.
    Geez, Seraya...I think I've got everything on your list, I'm just already taken.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juliette_deSade link=board=1;threadid=6742;start=msg75282#msg75282 date=1077174307


    I want somebody who is unaffected by mainstream standards and has strong opinions. Someone with a real passion for the arts and food and lovemaking. An Eclectic.

    What about you? What spells P-E-R-F-E-C-T in your book? Can be anything. I am just curious.

    My ideal woman sounds pretty much like your ideal man....maybe they are related?Deanna doeshave a brother but....he is a total dork so I don't think your ideal man is him....maybe it's me?Lol!Ok I'm getting serious(cerous?).....
    My ideal woman is of above average intelligence(don't tell Dea I called her smart...),has a wickedly sharp sense of humour,can put up with a TON of my shit before she snaps,is patient,sexual,sensual,has a pretty kick ass body,eyes that melt your heart,a smile that warms even the darkest depths of my soul,is a BITCH(I despise wishy washy women,I want a woman to argue as well as converse with),she needs to be able to go with the flow,be artistic(I'm a writer so it makes sense),she also needs to posess the ability to be herself in ALL situations while making me look good....is independant and depends on me..has a head on her shoulders(god knows headless women are no good at blowjobs)ABSOLUTELY has to be OPEN-MINDED! My list goes on and on and on but those are the IMPORTANT traits I looked for when I found Dea.bisexuality is a plus...

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    I want someone who is strong willed and strongly opinionated. So they will push me to the limits and butt heads with me not always just let me have my way, and also stimulate me intellectually. I want someone who is smart but not afraid to be goofy and unpredictable. Someone's who's not afraid to joke around and act like a kid sometimes. Also I want someone who is take charge and open in the bedroom with an incredibly high sex drive.

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    Someone who can be forgiving of the mistakes we all make. Someone who will talk out a problem with me. I DO learn from my mistakes. Someone who will accept me for who I AM. I do not hurt anyone, or break laws. Someone who can get past the past! Someone who is WILLING to accept people are NOT perfect. Someone who can find good in people.

    And most important, someone who does NOT hold a grudge. They only infest themselves with hate and pitty, if they don't accept a person and the PAST mistakes made. They do not make for a future mistake. I myself have learned this.

    It takes time. But some people think they are better than others, ??? We are all one and the same, during an argument or not.

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    I have realized that our standards and needs change based on Chemistry. Pheremones.

    Because a person can meet all of the standards we write about, but without this chemistry thing, can fall flat. A person has to SMELL good to you, and FEEL good to you first. Then you measure him by other standards. your heart and nose lead you to someone and then your mind does the rest.

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    Gosh JDS, don't you have to LIKE them? LOL

    I admit that the olfactory sense is straight to the primitive part of the brain but I think it would be nice to like them.

    I would venture the bet that the majority of people would have described something else 2 years ago and yet a third 2 years from now. They would chalk it up as "I've grown." And Perfect-Person from 2 years ago was in concrete? The only person who never changes is the person you try to change. LOL

    P.S. I was tempted to say the perfect person was JDS, but I was afraid you'd say I stink.

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    What a coincidence! My hubby and I were discussing this the other day. What it all comes down to is, If I were to take every single GOOD quality of those I've been with, and build a new man with those qualities, my hubby would be the result. I was extremely choosy when we first started dating, he chased me for months.. LOL.. After getting divorced at 23 after 7 years, I knew what I WASN'T looking for. I wanted someone who was honest, funny, affectionate, intelligent, and someone who knew what they wanted in life.

    There is one thing that is still stuck in my mind, that he said to me when we first started dating...

    "I would crawl on hands and knees 10 miles in blistering heat just to stand in your shadow."

    Totally did me in.. So, I found my evasive Prince Charming, but, I had to kiss a whole effin lot of toads to find him.. heh

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    Hmmm. Interesting question. Hmmm.

    Top of the list is that she has to be a nice person. And not just nice to me. Nice to everyone and that includes herself. Just as she doesn't treat others as doormats that she can wipe her shoes on without thinking about it, she doesn't allow others to do likewise to her. However, if someone does treat her as a doormat, she doesn't freak out on them but shows gentle class and backbone in dealing with them.

    And maybe it is part of being nice, but another thing high on my list is that she's great with kids. Not that she necessarily wants to have her own children, but simply that she's great with youngsters. Kids just like her and she likes them. Children seem to quickly sniff out who's a fake and who's really not a nice person.

    Third is there's no underlining bitterness. She loves life and wants to experience it. She doesn't automatically see the bad in people or situations. She doesn't have to be an optimist, just not a pessmist.

    There's a gentleness about her. This is hard to explain. The women I've fall the most for have a gentle soul. They make you feel nice and calm. The touch of their hand makes you relax. You easily drift asleep if you rest your head in their laps. You love it when they fall asleep in your arms.

    They are GREAT snugglers! You just love sitting next to them. You love the warmth and feel of their body next to you. When you sit down at a party, they sit next to you so your bodies are nice and together. And when it's just the two of you, they like to snuggle even more intimately when watching TV, reading a book, or even come to you to snuggle up for a little cat nap. And when you two sleep together, you literally sleep together and could easily make do with a single-size bed.

    They're smart. How educated they are really doesn't matter to me, but they do need that spark of intellect. They quickly pick up on ideas. They see possibilities in things around them and like discussing them ... either seriously or just for fun. They love hearing new ideas. They're observant of the world around them and like discussing their observations. They can see through the bull$hit (ideally, they understand the fallacies of informal logic) and can have a calm discussion with someone that they disagree with.

    Physically, they're healthy and not noticeably overweight. They are also not skin and bones either. They don't obsess about food or their weight. They never diet. They also have a nice complete package. It's balanced. They carry themselves with a certain smooth elegance.

    Sexually, they want to please you and what to enjoy themselves at the same time. They want you. They need you. They communicate. They're quite vocal. :wink: And due to bedroom "gymnastics", I do prefer smaller women than myself (6'3", fit, 245 pds) so we can do more interesting things in bed together.

    Oh, and they love men with nicely trimmed beards.
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    In order, the qualities which I must have in a man:

    A job.
    A future.
    Honesty (with others and with yourself)
    Loyalty
    He doesn't have to BE an intellectual, but he can't be theatened by my intellect.
    No extreme negative emotions stemming from seeing me as a possession (ie: jealousy, clinginess).
    Must enjoy children, even if he doesn't have or want fruits from his own loins.


    The rest, to me, is mere aesthetics or trivia which can be compromised upon. The above is all that is necessary.
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    Lillith, good point. @ fruit from his own loins lol

    I want a guy who is respectful, doesnt judge me by what I do in my life right now, as its temporary, isnt jealous, gives me space... hmmm...
    A guy who is sweet, caring, great personality, has a job and a future. Not into drugs or violence (out the door if so) etc...
    Obviously has to be attractive in my eyes, nice body... and a decent sized pecker. I am small so I cant handle a huge one. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=1;threadid=6742;start=msg76004#msg76004 date=1077332368

    Obviously has to be attractive in my eyes, nice body... and a decent sized pecker. I am small so I cant handle a huge one. LOL
    LOL Lexi! I totally hear you on that one. I'm small too, and my ex hubby was BIG.. yikes.. lol.. Got enough tearing and all that with him.. I'm glad I married this one, he claims that when he was born, the doctor cut the wrong "cord" heh.. But, it's like I always say...

    "It's not the size of the pen.. It's how you write your name." hahahaha


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    My ideal man will take care of me and make sure don't do anything stupid when I am drunk.

    Ol' boy got me MAD fuct up tonight. Gave me 7 shots to spill my soul and I did. Bout the dumbest thing I did was scream too loud a little later. LOL.


    My man has got me covered when I lose my wallet and I am hungry. Never lets me spend me last ten bucks. Brags about me to his folks. Kisses me goodnight playfully, understands my need for physical contact.

    Reassures me that I can NEVER be replaced.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rhiannon link=board=1;threadid=6742;start=msg76005#msg76005 date=1077332647
    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=1;threadid=6742;start=msg76004#msg76004 date=1077332368

    Obviously has to be attractive in my eyes, nice body... and a decent sized pecker. I am small so I cant handle a huge one. LOL
    LOL Rhia... thats a first, I never heard the one with the pen/name thing. Now, I always say, "Its not how deep you fish, its how you wiggle your worm" hehehe
    LOL Lexi! I totally hear you on that one. I'm small too, and my ex hubby was BIG.. yikes.. lol.. Got enough tearing and all that with him.. I'm glad I married this one, he claims that when he was born, the doctor cut the wrong "cord" heh.. But, it's like I always say...

    "It's not the size of the pen.. It's how you write your name." hahahaha


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    Likes to rock out and is not afraid to show it....

    Rapier-like wit, super funny humor, can lighten up somber mood....

    Wicked evil grin and good teeth to match....

    Will stand up to me (I cannot tolerate doormats, they get 0 respect)....

    Loves to Travel...

    Has plenty of money, bright future, and is Not cheap....

    Sexual aggressor and pervert...(takes what he wants and is not afraid to go after it, well, with me anyways)...

    Not shy, likes noise, flirtatious....

    Likes to eat, cook, and go out for nice dinners....knows wine....

    When I smell his neck, I want to devour him....

    Respects my space and gives me my mutch needed alone-time to regenerate so that I don't begin to hate people......

    Not jealous and doesn't give me shit about being a stripper and all around dirty uncle, hehehe.....

    Similar enough background and age to me that we can laugh about all of the pop culture crap we grew up with.......

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    I used to say that the perfet man for me is one who will not be grossed out when I'm sick and sitting around with kleenex stuffed up my nose. Lucky for me my husband fell in love with me during a sinus cold!


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