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    I need your help! I have a good customer who wants me to go to Vegas with him at the end of March (3 nights) for 1,500 for a bachelor party - I think this is not a good deal.

    He came last Friday and this Friday and spent a lot of money on me. He's an intelligent person and I think I need to give him a good excuse (I told him I'd THINK about it).....what should I say?? He didn't talk about the $$ until tonight, and I don't want him to think I am leading him on. I should have been upfront in the first place, but I didn't want him to lose interest in me if I said no. I can't back out last minute, I'd feel bad doing that, and he gave me his email to tell him either way. Just not sure what to write.

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    I dont know hun, I think its too little bit of money. Im in Jersey so if I got offerd $1,500 to go to Vegas, it wouldnt be enough. Where are you?
    Just tell him that you wont be able to go because its not enough money and you plan on working all those days. (Manager asked you to come in and work cause someone cancelled) im not sure if this will help, but good luck


    Edited to fix typos lol

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    Yea i would tell him that by going on a vaction with him for 3nights, you are going to be losing a lot of money because you can earn 3x that much by staying home and working at the club...... hopefully he might up amount of money he's offering.

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    If it's not even something you are interested in doing just tell him so. He sounds like an idiot anyways to expect you to run off with a bunch of strangers for chump change. If you want to go, BE CAREFUL and only consider going if you get WAAAY more money than that.

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    Hmmmm.....you will be his date or you will be stripping for the bachelor party?

    I find it kind of off that he would invite a date to Vegas when bach parties usually involve the boys together doing boy activities, like going to the local strip clubs, hiring girls to do shows in the hotel, and of course the worst sin of them all.....golf! Ha!

    I have a feeling you will end up sitting by yourself at the blackjack table while his friends whisk him away.....

    Let him get you your ticket, your own hotel room, the $1,500....then get hired in one of the clubs and STRIP....meet him for lunch in a public place one of the days, hahaha!

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    $1,500 is very cheap pay for 3 nights of where you will most likely only perform for one night or may even be required to do extras. He thinks he got you that far he probably will expect you to do more and I wouldnt trust him or his buddies. Just my insight. Tell him you trust him but will fear what his friends might do and in no way are you interested. Any gentleman would understand that. If not you do not need him as a customer even if he does pay well. Safety first hun.
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    I agree with everyone else. Esp melissa. Safety first. Are you the only girl. Also dont believe everything he tells you also. Ask him to give you more details. Like how many guys or girls. Where is everyone staying and yourself. ETC ???

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    Thanks guys, I feel much better about telling him it's not my thing. I thought that $$ sounded ridiculously low, but I wasn't sure. I'm in California, so Vegas isn't too far, but it certainly isn't my ideal vacation place. He said it was just to hang out with him and I'd have my own room, but there would be around 15 guys going!! yikes - that could have been a little scary....
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