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    Default Biggest NO-SEX windfalls?

    If a person were to judge the world of stripping by this board one would get the impression that all guys want sex for the big tips. Now we who have been around the block know this isn't true. Let's tell the newbies our stories of guys who AREN'T harcore perv's who have money to burn. I'll go first!

    I was working the weekend at Paradise in Vegas and it was really slow. I was getting a drink from the bar when I struck up a conversation with this guy who had come in to take a break from gambling at the Hardrock across the street. He bought a few dances and tipped me a few hundred then asked me if I wanted to leave the club and go dancing at Shark's. I asked: "No Sex?" he said.."No Sex". He gave me another $450 to compensate for my shift and I said OK. I lied to housemom and said I was sick and off we went to Sharks.

    We danced. I spilled my drink. He was cool. The night ended and he told me he would call me if his gambling went well the next day. I didn't even kiss him. He paid my cab home.

    The next day he called me. His gambling DID go well. He told me to meet him in the Mirage at the Baccarat area, which I did. We left Baccarat and hit the tables where I watched him lose several $5,000 hands of 21. At least $30,000 in 15 minutes. I felt bad since I was dancing by the stage name Lucky! Women are sposed to be there for luck.

    Anyway, he lost his stomach for gambling and we went up to his room for room service dinner. He had the pimpest suite. He gave me $1500 (we had not discussed money since the first night. I never brought it up not once, he just gave it to me.) He ordered this awesome seafood buffet and a full bar and tipped the bartender a hundie. Then he ripped that buffet apart. Lobster, crab legs, shrimp, clams, oysters, the works. He had bad table manners when it came to that lobster!

    Then he settled down on the couch for some dancing. He didnt even want contact. He just wanted to watch and jerk off. Which he did. When he finished I brought him a warm, wet towel cuz I'm classy like that. He had a big smile and said: "That was great. No AIDS risk, no cheating on the wife." He was 110% happy. He sent me home in a cab and even gave me his number to call him in New Jersey.

    There was only one thing I did wrong. I asked him what he did for work. That made him frown and was almost a deal killer.

    You get what you put up with

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    Default Re:Biggest NO-SEX windfalls?

    I'm not sure what you mean by the title of your post, but after reading it, I think I understand what you mean.

    I used to have this regular who was an older gentleman who loved to spend his money on dancers. He loved me b/c I am smart, mature, classy & he loved my "pretty face." He would sit with me at the bar, buying me drinks, throwing out bills & 20s every 5-10 mins it seems, obviously compensating for my time lost. When I went on stage, he would come up & tip me at least a $50 each song. He never wanted any dances from me, he refused to "disrespect" me like that. He invited me out to steak dinners but they never worked out due to our different schedules. He hasn't been in my club for a hwile now, or at least I haven't seen him. But I definetely lucked out with this guy!!

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    Default Re:Biggest NO-SEX windfalls?

    Doing private shows for cash is a totally different animal than club dancing. I'm not a newbie, but I never see customers outside of the club for private shows (bachelor parties w/ a Dj and bouncer only exception).

    As far as big windfalls, I didn't even have to take off my clothes at this party. I was with 4 other dancers who earned the same amount as me. We were each paid $1500 to hang around and talk to the single guys at the party. We wore skimpy outfits, but were dressed the whole time. My boyfriend came to the party and just mingled like everyone else. That was pretty easy money.

    I've had days where $100 bills were placed on my stage repeatedly, by the same customer. I've also had nights when every single customer I've asked bought a dance (or 5 or 10) from me.

    Of course the downside is that for every customer that is willing to just part with his money for the sheer pleasure of our company, there are 20 guys that want as much mileage as their $$ will buy. So treasure those windfalls when you get them.


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    My personal opinion. Bad dancer behaviour. Never take customers out of the club for a night of play and jacking off. You are actually escorting inside the club under a "dancer" reputation.

    This behaviour is what "honest" dancers want to keep out of the clubs. He meets you at the club, you lie to the house mom to leave early with him, he pays you for company, and a jack off session.....And you go to a HOTEL with a stranger. Bad advice for newbies. Dangerous advice for newbies. Because lady you just never know....Right?

    You are escorting inside the clubs. DUH.

    Hey you wanted honesty, you got it. And you know it.

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    Default Re:Biggest NO-SEX windfalls?

    You're such a good girl Paris! :wink: I am not encouraging anyone to do as I do. However, I would have missed out on a lot if I had taken that route. Even now I regret the many times I said 'No' just because I was just too damn lazy.

    I have been to many concerts, to dinner, on ski trips, shopping trips and stuff I'm sure I forgot. And yes, private shows. One thing I can never get guys to do, though, is go to the ballet!

    I started out giving private shows before ever dancing in a club. Night after night I danced, in hotels and apartments and houses until all hours of the morning. I learned that there are many guys who are quite happy with a pretty, sexy dancing girl who let's them jerk off. It's something strip clubs don't allow. FS escorts/prostitutes don't want to mess around with that shit, they just want to get down to business. So there is a niche in the market, one that I am happy to fill.
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    Default Re:Biggest NO-SEX windfalls?

    I had a customer in FL. who never bought dances for himself......every blue moon when he had a friend or date with him I'd dance for one of them but that was it. He came in every Wed. sometime between 7-9 pm. and would sometimes surprise me on another night.
    He would steady hand me 20's and stayed about an hour each visit. This went on for 5 years- it went on until I quit dancing.
    We talked about everything under the sun. He would give me gifts but usualy cash- 1000 sometimes on my birthday.
    I know he had a ATF before me( she introduced me to him before she quit) and I'm sure he has one now too , its part of his weekly schedual.
    He is a dancers dream. He was super kind to me and above average generous with everyone else ,all the way down to barstaff and valet.
    He was what you call a power exec- and I or should I say we ,as in the club, were his weekly debriefing session. It was like stress therapy or something not romantic or sex, sexual yes, but sex he didnt need from me, he got plenty of that I'm sure being that he was wild and dated LOTS of women over that 5 years and did settle down with one about 6 months before I quit- he sent us shopping one day- she is perfect for him.

    All told he must have spent 50 grand on time with me. He never asked me or any dancer I know of out either. Funny part is I would have said yes at one point- he is a wonderful guy and good looking mid 40's- former college football player- VP of his company..... I'm sure several other dancers I know would have said yes too


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    Default Re:Biggest NO-SEX windfalls?

    Well.. that niche in the market is filled at a local club in my area (Surfers Paradise not on 'the strip&#039... it is called Just Sinsations. My only long time regular went to the club one night because of my prompting (I wanted to know if what I had read about it was true) and came back to report on it...

    Yup.. what I read was true. They do private lap dances however the mileage makes what I do look very moderate. They are allowed alot of contact with the customer (no genital touching), then the customer gives them a full nude rub down (massage) or vice versa (no genital touching) and then here's where they fill that niche:

    Whilst the dancer does a dildo show the customer canNOT touch her however he has the option of "jacking off" in the shower whilst watching her do the show.

    Now.. considering how high the mileage seems at this place.. I don't know how well those 'no touching the genitals' rules are kept or anything.

    Yet I agree that there is a niche for private lap dances where the guy can jack off whilst watching you. Just that there needs to be alot of precautions and safety checks (etc) put in place.

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    Default Re:Biggest NO-SEX windfalls?

    I've had a few however nothing compared to one a dancer at my club has right now.

    Her customer originally would book her out for the majority if not all of her shift... he was just lonely and likes her company.

    Then she realised how he was kinda hampering her and so suggested he cut down his visits... so now he either comes in once or twice a week and books her out (for either most of all of the shift she's working).

    He has been doing this for around 4-5 months now. This dancer is not an "extras" girl.. she might do really great dances which sometimes push the envelope yet she stays within the rules/guidelines. I now she isn't doing anything more with him.

    The reason he stays with her came from his own mouth: I know her and it is too hard to get to know someone else. As she was sick for a period of a couple of weeks at one time hence he tried out other dancers.

    He just wanted company and a friend... he refuses to let her dance for him. She will try to get him to touch her boobs or arse.. will flash him however he turns away or removes his hand. He doesn't want her as a stripper/dancer... he wants her as a friend and likes her as such.

    Man.. oh.. man.. how I soo would love a customer like that!

    The only concern I have is... if she ever moves club or quits... will he start stalking her.. or is he well adjusted ??? I don't know him as he is always with her so I can't confirm or get rid of this little doubt.

    Now.. that is a hellava windfall without sex.


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    Default Re:Biggest NO-SEX windfalls?

    I had a regular that used to love to buy me clothes and watch me play blackjack at the casino with his money. When he first asked me to go, I also explained no sex, he was cool. I would play about $500 of his money and he would always tell me to keep it. Not just the winning (if there was any) but all of it. Okie Dokie, $500 or more after gambling, eating and drinking for 5 hours is fine with me.
    But it all came to a screaching halt when his wife came into the club and bitched me out, turns out she was having him followed by a PI.... Bitch!


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    Wow. You girls live some amazing lives. I am playing a role in the club and don't like to take it outside. To much talking gets me revealing private things, so I just keep it all low-key.

    My favorite customer came in like twice a week for a very long time. He had known me from when I worked somewhere else and he had always had a crush on me. He always gave me a ton of money and I would call his cell phone any time it was slow. I loved seeing him because I felt like I really knew him and could trust him.
    Then a few weeks ago his Mom died unexpectantly and his brother came into the club to find him. He came up to our table and with in a few minutes I learned that he was married, which I didn't know and that he had two kids. The guy I trusted was a total liar in my eyes and I have never looked at him the same. I don't like accepting his money because before I thought he was a single guy with nothing better to spend it on. Now that I know he has a wife and kids, I try to avoid him.

    I don't mind when other men lie to me or tell me they are married because I believe I am offering a valuable service and getting paid the correct amount. But something about this guy lying to me for such a long period of time on such a personal level really bothered me.
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    Pamela,
    I honestly do not see the problem with Vanilla_Dog's story. After all, she did a private show, you do private shows. Instead of going through an agency, she just did direct sales. Do you think this prevented the guy from patronizing another strip club again, or would have prevented him from calling an escort later if they did not get along so well?

    I think your story is great VD. Risk = reward, and it payed off in that instance. Even the newbies here should be smart enough to realize its an exceptional experience and not something to always expect.

    Women go home with strange men they meet all the time, and get nothing for it but a case of herpes (lol, NOT)....I am a bit apalled at some of the hypocrisy on this board, but I guess we strippers have a bad enough rep already that its not feasible to actual appear "human".

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    Default Re:Biggest NO-SEX windfalls?

    I've had similar experiences to most of those described here, including Vanilla's. And for a girl like myself who travels, it can make trips much more fun and profitable. I'm not a dancer who ever makes big $ off of doing one or two dances at a time. I need a big spender who likes to have fun and doesn't say to himself "ok,I have $150 alloted for dances, $25 for tips, $75 for drinks then I'm done". Yeah, those big $ guys aren't the norm, but when they do come around you bet your ass I'll meet them at Tiffany's for shopping and lunch the next day!
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    I have had guys spend thousands in one night on me in the club and never even tried to touch me. Kept their hands to the side, on the couch, the whole time I danced in VIP. Many times this turned into more chatting than dancing, and the guys STILL kept renewing the very expensive VIP time with no sales pressure at all. Just a resounding "yes" when the waitress asked if they'd like to renew.

    I've had plenty of guys tip me $200 or $300 at work for hanging out at the bar.

    I also used to have a guy in PR who came in every other Thursday from out fo town and handed me $100 every 10-15 minutes for merely chatting at the bar. He never even paid attention to the stage and when I danced, he chatted with the bartender. He usually came in sometime in the middle of the night and stayed less than an hour, but I always wound up with $300 in the deal. One night he stayed until closing (which was unusual for him as he always said he had an early flight and needed sleep), and invited me to a casino for gambling after hours. He specified it was just for the gambling and nothing more. The casino he wanted to go to happened to be one where I knew several people who worked the casino bar, and I felt comfortable in this situation and reasonably sure from past dealings with him that he wasn't a maniac rapist, so I went. This is not my usual thing, but I knew I could walk out of that in a second if need be. He handed me a wad of hundreds when I walked out of the club and we walked down the street to the casino. (Mind you this is a very high-traffic street, the main one in the main tourist area of town, in a neighborhood where there were always plenty of cops and people I knew around to help me out if need be.) We hit a blackjack table and he played a few hands, won some money, tipped the dealer and waiter with $100 chips, cashed in, and as I was hugging him goodnight, he handed me another wad of hundreds. We had never discussed money and it wasn't necessary. When I got home that night I counted my money and I had $2100, all from him, for nothing more than talking and hanging out, fully clothed. I never once danced for that guy, ever. Heh, he also had the same sarcastic sense of humor as I, so he was even fun to hang out with. I only saw him one more time after that as he was concluding his business in PR. Damn it would be nice to have a few more like that!

    These guys are extremely few and far between. They ALL have told me they prefer not to get dances because they've had more than their share in the past, and it's all the same after a while. Some even go on to say they can pay for sex anywhere (and have), but sometimes they just want to have some pleasant company with a pleasant, beautiful woman who can hold a conversation about something other than her breast size or problems. A good escort can provide the same service they seek, but often they find themselves in cities they don't know and it's easier to just hit a nice SC and spend some money on a pleasant stripper. These are men who've most likely had all the extras, dances, sex most guys could ever get or pay for and are looking for stimulation outside the groin. Don't get me wrong, I know they still ultimately would like to fuck, but when a guy has been around the world and had every type of sex imaginable with every type of woman imaginable, their desires change a bit. Also most of these men tend to spend alot of time in airports and hotels, and begin to specifically seek out 'normal' interaction and prefer to pay a pro rather than waste time with golddiggers in regular bars who will likely be a bigger pain in the ass than just parting with a few hundred dollars.

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    Hi
    this probably sounds weird but here i go anyway.
    Me and a few fellas are coming up to the coast in a couple of weekends and I was wondering if you know of any dancers that do call outs and full live shows for my brothers surprise bucks night.
    I don't even know if this is the right place for me too ask, but i thought that you are in the industry and in the area so i thought you'd be in the know.
    Thanx, hope to hear from you soon.

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    Default Re:Biggest NO-SEX windfalls?

    This one was a few years ago, but it's still my recordholder. I was working in a small club in a resort fishing town in southern Michigan, sort of a working vacation really. There were a total of about a dozen girls working in this club. Things had been pretty routine for the few days I had been working there - some local businessmen, vacationers from Chicago, some 'regular guys'.

    Then later in the week an old guy wearing slippers and a bathrobe walks into the club, along with six other younger guys in Armani suits. The old guy just sits, drinks, and looks around, while the Armani suits start grabbing girls to sit with the old guy and also buying private dances like crazy for themselves. Well, it turns out that the old guy in the bathrobe is actually Mr. David Packard, the co-founder of Hewlett Packard, and tha Armani suits are various bankers and stockbrokers. We're talking guys peeling tips off 3 inch rolls of $50 bills here !

    It seems that earlier in the day Mr. Packard had sold his stake in the company to the tune of 1/2 a BILLION dollars or so, with each of the bankers and stockbrokers also making millions in the deal for themselves. Needless to say, even the low earning girl in the club walked out with at least a couple of grand that night !

    Ahhh, how I miss the "dot.com days" !

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    Katrine i just saw your post...sorry. To reply, i never take customers out of the clubs, it's against rules at the club/s i have danced anyway. Also, yes this "habit" can actually change a customers way of thinking while in the club. Some will come to expect a dancer to leave with them, because it happened before, or the same guy may yet again seek out the club for the same person who went outside the club with him before.

    These are not pick-up bars, but strip clubs, and all exchange of monies should be kept inside. Hon, that right there sets my parties apart. Seriously if you owned a business, would you want your employees or IC's taking clients that would be paying your business the rent away from what you offer, stripping, only to watch them leave with a dancer, when the dancer lied and said she was sick?

    Late, so i let it rest, just wanted to respond.

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    I once had just walked up to a guy and had only talked to him a minute before being called on stage for a set of four songs. Before I went he said he would buy a dance from me when I got back. After my set I went over to him and he said his friends wanted to leave and he couldnt get that dance, I thought I was out the money too, oh well I gave him a hug anyway and he put a bill in my hand. It was a $100! I hugged him again and he left.

    At the same club I had a younger guy come in (maybe 25) and he said he still lived with his parents. He got one dance from me but didnt feel comfortable with it so we went back to his table and talked. He was kinda delusinal because he thought I really liked him and he wanted to take me home to meet his parents. He started makeing up stories to tell his mom because he couldn't tell her he met me in a strip club. The whole time he was talking he kept handing me $20's. I walked out with three or four hundred dollars.

    Last summer I had a regular who came in every other week or so and would pay for an hour with me. He would give me a shoulder massage for at least half of it and only expected me to dance a little. He wasnt the best but he didnt want sex and he did rub my shoulders which always hurt.

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    Thanks to responding Pamela. You make an excellent point.

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