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    Default How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    I just read several stories about other dancer getting drugged by customers and it got me wondering how many of us out there have had this crap pulled on us ? Its happened to me 2x


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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    i dont think i've ever got drugged because once i leave my drink i never go back and drink it even if i'm at home ...i'm kinda paranoid like that even with food
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    No thank goodness. I drank bottled water and never left it in a customers view. Or drank half, and trashed the rest. Alot of guys would come up with a drink and i don't drink so they ended up with the drink! So if they had anything in it they would get drugged. Although i never noticed that happening, i wondered about a few guys who would not drink the drink they bought for me however.????

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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    For real?? I have never heard of this happen! (am I naive?) I would have said what is the point because they can hardly drag you out the club to date-rape you or anything, but maybe it's just to have malicious control over you in some way because they can't ever in their life get close to a real woman.

    In saying that, I don't leave my drinks unattended but that's just out of habit from when I started to go regular clubbing as a young teen.
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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    I have never been drugged by a customer. But I am pretty careful in the club.

    However, I did one time meet this girl off a personal ad. She was a cute blond and we met in a coffee house and kind of hit it off. We made plans to meet at her house later in the week and then go out and party.

    When I got to her house, her 'roommate' was there, a guy ( I shoulda known better) and they made screwdrivers. Even though I really don't drink I drank maybe half a glass and suddenly got really, really sick. I spent a good hour wretching violently in the bathroom then passed out on their bedroom floor. I would have passed out in their bed except it was a waterbed and the waves were making me woozy.

    I was never incapacitated, or paralyzed, just really ill. I went home the next day and was fine. I don't really know what happened but I quit following home married women.
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    Oh, ok, I guess I was drugged once when I was living with (ie sleeping with) this hot chiq in Holland. I had procured GHB for her and her friend but did not want to take it...they put it in my juice anyway...I wasn't too pleased, but it was ok....

    The main thing with slipping someone drugs into an alcoholic beverage, is that the alcohol makes the effects of the drugs much, much worse. Since I had juice with the GHB, I did not feel sick to my stomach....mixing this stuff with alcohol is what causes overdoses and illness....bleh!

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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    Whilst it hasn't happened to me.. has happened to co-workers. I am cautious with my drinks. I take them with me and if I do leave them at the table... I get a new one. I also don't accept drinks unless I am at the bar and can see the drink being made in front of me (I do watch).

    At the club, I make sure everyone knows me as the sober stripper so that if anyone goes wrong... the red flags will go up instead of questioning ones.


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    I have heard about a drug that knocks you out, and when you wake up you dont remember a thing that happened, but the worst part is it makes you sterile - no kids ever. I read about it somewhere if I find the link I'll post it here.

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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    The drug is supposed to be called Progesterex but it doesn't exist. The whole story is an urban legend. For those who like to check facts you can read about it here:

    http://hoaxinfo.com/progesterex.htm

    and here:

    http://www.urbanlegends.com/ulz/progesterex.html

    and here:

    http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1597.html

    and....oh nevermind
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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    No, I am pretty good at keeping an eye on my drinks.
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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    No, I dont drink liquor

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    yes, this happened to me. I wrote about it here:

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/ind.../t7080-30.html
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    Thank GOD I've never been drugged. Normally I cover my drink with a napkin even though I'm sitting with my drink. I make a hole in the napkin for my straw then wrap a rubberband around my napkin over the glass. My glass looks pretty funny by the time I start drinking from it but its a good conversational piece because everyone including customers ask me why I do that? I never leave my drinks anyways.
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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    It happened to me once, but it wasn't a customer it was the bartender of a restaurant.

    I wrote about it earlier. I watch everything and take my drinks with me, to the stage, dressing room, bathroom, whereever. If I forget it, then I don't drink it


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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    Not only should you never leave your drink unattended to use the restroom or whatever, you shouldn't even turn your back to it while you're sitting on someone's lap.
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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    yeah I made that stupid mistake once when I waitressed. I left a shot on the table for 40 minutes than the cutomer told me to do it. I felt reallly weird 30 minutes later. The bouncers looked for him but he alredy left. After I got a ride home I started to shake uncontrollably. I called the hospital and they said its the drugs wearing off was causing the shaking and to just let it run its course. I learned my lesson after that!!!!

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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    No, but I know of 2 or 3 times when it happened to other dancers in the past. I never leave a drink with someone else. :o



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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    This is a very disturbing topic.

    Can i ask a q? Is there any way that I, as a customer, can keep a lookout for this? What are any warnings, if any?

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    I have never personally been drugged, but I worked with a girl who was. This poor girl didn't even take aspirin, and somebody slipped her some Rophenol (sp)? We had to call an ambulance to take her to the hospital. We didn't find out what had actually happened to her until the next day.


    As far as things to look out for, both as a dancer and as a customer, certain things should tip you off.

    1. If you see a guy going up to a table with an unattended drink on it and you've already seen him sitting at another table.

    2. Anyone who offers a drink to a dancer that she didn't order i.e. the guy already has a drink for her even before she first approaches the table.

    3. A guy who seems angry or upset if the dancer isn't drinking her drink fast enough, or isn't drinking it at all.

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    I've always been really paranoid about this...I've only accepted a drink directly from the bar or shot girls. I'm even a bit paranoid about letting a cust. order from the waitress b/c ya never know...
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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kittie link=board=27;threadid=7100;start=msg149668#msg149 668 date=1091690655
    1. If you see a guy going up to a table with an unattended drink on it and you've already seen him sitting at another table.
    Well, this tells me to keep an eye on that drink and who's drinking it. A lot of parties are spread out. Plus i can't see a responsible dancer just leaving her drink with 'some guy' (as you see us, no venom there BTW, just reality) and coming back to it.

    2. Anyone who offers a drink to a dancer that she didn't order i.e. the guy already has a drink for her even before she first approaches the table.
    Well, this is kind of a chance thing. Meaning do i see the dancer refusing the drink, after all there is so much going on in a SC that it is like 'where's waldo' with something like this. And i mean this even if you are trying to be alert!

    3. A guy who seems angry or upset if the dancer isn't drinking her drink fast enough, or isn't drinking it at all.
    Now this, this i can see and have seen.

    Jeeze, this seems to be harder than it at first appears.




    You know, i hate to say thism but it appears to be mostly on the dancer. Order a drink, sit with the man until it comes, then drink it. Don't give him, whoever he is, a chance to slip you anything. Now, dig this... The vast majority of guys aren't trying to slip you anything. Think about it, even if the guy is successful he still has to get her out of the club. He's certainly not going to be doing the fireman's carry.

    In fact the vast majority of guys will try to charm you to one extent or another. Some have none, some have lots, most are somewhere inbetween.

    But my advice, as far as drinks go is this... If he buys you a drink (I have, hell I bought shots for a dancer before) wait until the waitress brings it and drink it on the spot. Give the guy that bought it for you a smile.

    Even someone like me. Don't just leave a drink with any man in a SC. Not ever. I don't mind being under the magnifying glass when i am buying a drink.

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    Makes you sterile?? LOL....yeah, that would make the whole "tube tying" operation a tad obsolete.

    That aside, anyone caught doing this should be sentenced to having 100 dancers kick the shit out of them. And not naked strippers....strippers dressed in...I dunno....THEIR CHURCH CLOTHES!!!
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    never happend to me but I know a few girls who it happend to them.
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    Default Re:How many dancer have been drugged by a customer?

    Hi,

    Yes, this is a terrible terrible thing, and while it may seem that even drugged nothing can happen to you in a crowded locale or in a place with friends nearby, with the right set of unfortunate circumstances terrible events can occur. It doesn't help if you have inept and moronic staff who are supposed to watch your back. Ultimately you have to look out for yourself, and there are a lot of spiteful assholes out there.

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    I never, ever, never, ever get up from a table and then finish my drink after coming back to the table. If my customer asks me why, I just say that I "hate watered down drinks." (from the ice melting). If the drink is not in my hand, in my line of sight...then I just won't drink it. Full stop...end of story.

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