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    Quote Originally Posted by Tina link=board=9;threadid=7175;start=msg83968#msg83968 date=1079211811
    I understand what you are saying Darkness. I don't know if everyone is a prude, but it is true, we knew what to expect going into this business and it goes with the turf. Just like a dentist knows he must deal with peoples bad breath or a plumber knows he must stick his hand in a stopped up toilet.
    LOL! That is a great analogy Tina! But I have to say that way back when I started dancing I honestly had NO idea I would have to deal with guys trying to shove their hands up my pussy and ass while doing a $20 table dance. It's really not quite as simple as the plumber's or dentist's job. I think it's quite the shock for many of us the first time something like that happens. I also remember being shocked when during a dance I turned my back, and turned back around to see the dude sitting there with his dick in his hand, holding it out to me like I was supposed to just jump right on and ride. It's not a prude thing, in the case of newbies it would be a naive thing.

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    I&#039;m not averse to contact (I grind during my dances and work in a fairly high-mileage club) but I admit that it bugs me when girls allow <i>everything</i> ("breastfeeding", fingering, etc.) It really makes the job exhausting for those of us who are constantly having to rebuff such advances.

    When did things start going so far? :o I&#039;m no prude, but I&#039;d rather not have someone actually licking my body for the pathetic price of a lap dance!

    Like some of you have said, what some are prudish about is business as usual to others. I used to work in a peep show, and the girls there were practically scandalized by the fact that I had been a dancer. Now that I&#039;m a dancer again, everyone at my club thinks it&#039;s so dirty that I worked in a peep show! Diff&#039;rent strokes...
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    Under NO circumstance to I want anyone doing things, such as licking me, at my work place.
    I am a dancer, I get paid to dance, I am not a salt lick, nor am I a prostitute.
    Just because I save the more intimate things for my private life, does not make me a prude.
    I think that for you to come on this site and call us prudes is kind of a troll-like thing to do!


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    Where do you draw the line? last night I had a man in the VIP room with pants/underwear around his ankles with no bouncer in sight.. i told him to get the f*ck out

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    Id rather be a prude than a whore anyday, a prude doesnt die of AIDS.

    As far as crying about being touched, well damn If I say no, and the person doesnt listen, I will be damned if I will repeat myself. Darkness, if you are all about giving your ass away for free, then hell it must not be worth much. (At the rate your going you will be able to get a watermelon in that thing by the time your 30)

    I commend the girls who can make the cash without let people fuck there ass. Darkness-Idea for the day- try to keep your legs, mouth, and ass closed for day, I know it may be hard for you, but it may keep some of your body parts from turning green and falling off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PoleKitten21 link=board=9;threadid=7175;start=msg87324#msg87324 date=1080013584
    Id rather be a prude than a whore anyday, a prude doesnt die of AIDS.

    Wrong. Anyone can die from AIDS and whores can be clean as a whistle.

    As far as crying about being touched, well damn If I say no, and the person doesnt listen, I will be damned if I will repeat myself. Darkness, if you are all about giving your ass away for free, then hell it must not be worth much. (At the rate your going you will be able to get a watermelon in that thing by the time your 30)
    She never said she was having sex with customers, for money or for free. And lots of sex with different people doesn&#039;t change your anatomy anymore than than lots of sex with the same person.

    I commend the girls who can make the cash without let people fuck there ass. Darkness-Idea for the day- try to keep your legs, mouth, and ass closed for day, I know it may be hard for you, but it may keep some of your body parts from turning green and falling off.
    This is so ignorant, unfairly judgmental and just plain WRONG that I don&#039;t even know how to comment on it.

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    ::rolls eyes:: Yes I am so ignorant what was I thinking with not opening my legs to every guy I meet, or allowing to put their hands all over me...geez... Let me apologize for not supporting prostitution.

    If she or you want to make your money that way by all means go ahead, but I will choose to have some amount of respect for myself. Just because you take it off doesnt mean you have to damn near give it away. I have confidence in myself that I do not have to put myself in any of those situations that i see to be digusting.

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    I don&#039;t understand why someone would be crying over the girls who don&#039;t want to be touched! Darkness-you actually go into work knowing in your mind that your going to be gropped and slobbered on and you don&#039;t care? I thought it was called exotic DANCING..not come in and molest me. If you have no problem with close contact then I think you might want to check out working at a chicken ranch rather than a strip club.

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    pole kitten?!? is that your alias? first you don&#039;t get it never will. the touching part was meant by me grazing his hands across my stomach and a quick brush against my breasts. the licking is meant by if a guy sticks his tounge out you can say "hey please don&#039;t do that because your licking the cum off that my boyfriend just released and l wanted it to stay there so i can remember what hot sex we just had" ha ha ha.but anyway you have got to be a pain in the ass to work with! dancers as stupid as you are give the rest of us a bad name.keep your comments up,they give me a good laugh!

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    Why is it the first time an internet fight breaks out between strippers, someone feels compelled to say "YOU are the reason we have a bad name!!"

    In fact, Darkness, sometimes I even wonder if you are a dancer, or if you are just a customer getting his jollies off by telling strippers to increase their mileage.

    YOU are the idiot if you don&#039;t realize that every club has different rules, mindsets, and standards. Just because you and your coworkers can&#039;t make any money without letting people touch you doesn&#039;t mean it is like that in every club. I don&#039;t let anyone touch me, not even on my leg below the knee, and I made three times my rent last weekend--aftedr tip-out. That&#039;s just how it is in my club. *Your* standard for what makes a prude is not an *industry* standard. If you ever want to give away less for more money, you&#039;re welcome to come apply.

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    I&#039;ve never thought darkness was even female much less a dancer.
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    yes i am a dancer,just have different thoughts on certain subjects.you aren&#039;t listening to me at all! l have a million customers and i just know how to string them along.very well i might add. i&#039;m sorry but "pole kitten" had made a very rude comment and i defended myself.every club has way more than needed bitchy girls who sit there and watch you get dance after dance and they are sitting at the bar all night bitchin about you(me) it&#039;s quite annoying.my advice to them get up off your duff and ask for dances.prude to me means a lot.there is nothing wrong with a harmless touch of the hand,it&#039;s not going to kill you. it will also show that it&#039;s not you who doesn&#039;t want them touching you it&#039;s the managment. stop and really think about it. guys want someone that they will never get in the real world. if you are so uptight your not going to get anywhere in this industry. if you worked at the club i do you would wonder "gee,all she is doing is getting grazed by a hand and the dancer across from her is getting finger banged! if you take my tips you&#039;ll see a drastic change in your money.remember a slight touch isn&#039;t gonna rob you of your self respect.

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    I never thought Darkness was

    A. Female
    B. A Dancer

    Why? The comments are too male-like. Troll???


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    ::rolls:: Jealous of you(you think alot of yourself)... hate to break your feeble pathetic little mind, but you have absoulutley nothing that I desire to have or be like. I just started dancing and doing quite well for myself. The only reason you might find me sitting at the bar is if one of my new found regulars is there getting a drink.
    Besides, if your doing so wel in the club, why the hell would you care what everyone else isnt doing, seems to me you might be the one with the issue.

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    C&#039;mon Pole.....you&#039;re a lovely girl....i&#039;d like to see you post the same thing after you&#039;ve been dancing full-time for over a year....seriously...good luck, but show some realism and sensitivity...you ARE working in the sex industry whether you like it or not and your in-home pole is only going to amount to <10% of your earnings potential.

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    Word.....

    Pole, you started dancing a week or so ago? You will see how this industry changes you.

    And for the record (because you are so quick to point a finger), I&#039;m not a whore.


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    First of all Whoever made this topic up in the first place Needs to listen to what you are saying first of all this is why you never will be married and you will probably get A.I.D.s okay I work in the Entertainment Industry I am An Exotic Dancer (VISUAL ENTERTAINER) I don&#039;t want Strangers touching my private personal areas and they don&#039;t even try cause they know better and you know what I make plenty of Money. IT IS HOOKERS LIKE YOU that give The Entertainment Business A Bad Name so there fore they treat any dancer they meet like they are a hooker. Not Fair I bet you don&#039;t even have a college Degree what are you gonna do when you turn about 38-40 and the business doesn&#039;t want you anymore and believe me I have seen it the business won&#039;t want your old crusty ass. So guess What Honey your gonna be on the street corner doing $20 blowjobs which you should be very good at that by now you&#039;ll have no problem out there on the streets. ( you&#039;ll probably end up Addicted to Coke if your not Already) GOD you Give Dancers a Bad Name.

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    I Love you Pole Kitten

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    {{Puke}}

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    Quote Originally Posted by sadiskittie link=board=9;threadid=7175;start=msg89767#msg89767 date=1080626516
    First of all Whoever made this topic up in the first place Needs to listen to what you are saying first of all this is why you never will be married and you will probably get A.I.D.s okay I work in the Entertainment Industry I am An Exotic Dancer (VISUAL ENTERTAINER) I don&#039;t want Strangers touching my private personal areas and they don&#039;t even try cause they know better and you know what I make plenty of Money. IT IS HOOKERS LIKE YOU that give The Entertainment Business A Bad Name so there fore they treat any dancer they meet like they are a hooker. Not Fair I bet you don&#039;t even have a college Degree what are you gonna do when you turn about 38-40 and the business doesn&#039;t want you anymore and believe me I have seen it the business won&#039;t want your old crusty ass. So guess What Honey your gonna be on the street corner doing $20 blowjobs which you should be very good at that by now you&#039;ll have no problem out there on the streets. ( you&#039;ll probably end up Addicted to Coke if your not Already) GOD you Give Dancers a Bad Name.
    This is why I think parents should moderate what their kids are doing on the internet.

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    sadiskittie, have you READ your post over? I think not. Firstly, add some punctuations, your entire post seemed like a huge run on.
    Secondly, you sound like someone who IS NOT a dancer. "this is why you will never be married, and probably get A.I.D.s" What the HELL is that kind of shit? That sounds like something a little girl would tell her friend in grammar school or something.
    Please, if anyone is giving dancers a bad name, its girls like you who think that anyone who DOES provide contact (not extras) is a whore, or is gonna gets AIDS, or...never be married.
    You are pathetic!

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    In home pole??? ??? Umm, okay but, anywho, I have been goin to strip clubs for over a year before I started dancing. Am I saying extra&#039;s dont happen...hell fuckin no, what Im saying is I will not be the one giving them. Doing anything for money can get you in some serious trouble.
    All of my friends have always been males, guys only hang around extra&#039;s girls for a minute...Im not turning tricks for no one....if you let start off with brushing against your body, touching your leg, your breast, then all of sudden your kissin some guy for "more money"...eww
    Who knows, maybe because I have a day job I dont feel I need to "extras", or maybe because I feel some things just arent apprioate no matter what the hell your doing. Taking my clothes off onstage, sure why not I love dancing, But no one is violating my space, no amount money is worth that. I have limits and boundraies and the begin with self-respect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sadiskittie link=board=9;threadid=7175;start=msg89767#msg89767 date=1080626516
    First of all Whoever made this topic up in the first place Needs to listen to what you are saying first of all this is why you never will be married and you will probably get A.I.D.s okay I work in the Entertainment Industry I am An Exotic Dancer (VISUAL ENTERTAINER) I don&#039;t want Strangers touching my private personal areas and they don&#039;t even try cause they know better and you know what I make plenty of Money. IT IS HOOKERS LIKE YOU that give The Entertainment Business A Bad Name so there fore they treat any dancer they meet like they are a hooker. Not Fair I bet you don&#039;t even have a college Degree what are you gonna do when you turn about 38-40 and the business doesn&#039;t want you anymore and believe me I have seen it the business won&#039;t want your old crusty ass. So guess What Honey your gonna be on the street corner doing $20 blowjobs which you should be very good at that by now you&#039;ll have no problem out there on the streets. ( you&#039;ll probably end up Addicted to Coke if your not Already) GOD you Give Dancers a Bad Name.
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    there is a huge difference between having someone brush against you for a brief second (as in putting your tip in your garter) and having someone grope you. i&#039;d prefer and insist that only my fiance do the groping- my guys friends are aware of that. they can give hugs and that&#039;s about it. and they get plutonic kisses on the cheek from me. one of my friends who i worked with last year (he&#039;s training to be a firefighter right now and will be 20 in august) asked if he can into the club i was working at would it be a prob if he touched me. i told him it depends- if you only touched my knee for like 2 seconds, no. but if he decided to grope me then yeh. there&#039;d be a major prob.

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    Oh my word! Some of these posts have made my day.

    I thought pole kitten was an ok girl. Maybe I don&#039;t have the best troll detecting skills, but she just got carried away with the topic.

    What makes stripper web great is that we do have these diverse opinions. There is no need to insult each other because of them. Judging others is a waste of time and energy.

    We will inhibit our openness and therefore ruin the site if we are all insulting each other.

    I come off as a prude on line because I am talking to mostly women while wearing pajamas and watching my kid play. In the club I am a dirty talking, wild woman.

    What do you want me to say -"Oh yeah, I brush against hard ons all the time and let guys feel my legs and I get off on it."

    Sorry but I want to talk about other stuff.
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