Penis being pulled out? I've never had this happen to me. I would propbably calmly walk away. Then have the manager take care of it from there.
Penis being pulled out? I've never had this happen to me. I would propbably calmly walk away. Then have the manager take care of it from there.
Smoochies...
I dont think it's a matter of being a prude but when a customer insists on forcing his way through a dance just to suck on your goods than that is wrong! It has nothing to do with anything else but being comfortable with who you are dancing for. Every girl who has been in the industry long enough has had a guy they were comfortable with do "almost" anything.
The girls who you so call prudes are probably posting about a few bad customers, so why go and insult?
you know this is the first 6 page thread that i actually didn't get bored with and stop reading! lol. 1st off to darkness where exactly do you work? some places are more "prudish" than others, take memphis for example; i have seen guys hands everywhere on vip's and no girls complain 'cause it's just one of those things. but for example when i worked in cali we couldn't even hardly kiss a guy on the cheek without getting 9 kinds of hell about it. personally i'm a "touchly-feely' kinda chick, i love running my nails down a guys chest when i'm doing a dance and feeling his hands tighting around my waist. (note: no touching my "cookie" or pinching my nips! automatic smack in the face but me and bye bye to the club) that lets me know he is having a great time and is enjoying himself. And we all know if a guy is having a good time he will spend more $$$$$.
Ohio's law is pretty simple - if I pay you, and you touch me in a way that sexually arouses me - then it is, by definition, prostitution.
If this law was always adhered to, then the clubs would all go out of business. The dancing is nice...but that isn't what trips our triggers. And it's not enough to grind, either. I enjoy it when you enjoy what you're doing, and enjoy it enough to pay more if I get the nails down the chest. "Ah.....that car payment can wait...."





I'm curious about this as wellOriginally Posted by kitana link=board=9;threadid=7175;start=msg122008#msg1220 08 date=1087212344
oh crap! that wasen't what I wanted to quote at all!
The nail down the chest part is what I wante to say! lol
Oh well, anywho come down from Ohio some time Stripper Tips, I'll "claw your chest" anytime you want me too! big time LOL for that one!
Kitana
eeeewwww!!! My club is pretty much full contact - I was on stage in the nude room last friday and this guy with a kanker sore licked my back! I was definately keeping my pussy away from him. I feel like my rules are flexible and change as the $$ changes. No pussy licking, probing or pinching however. No biting of the nips - it hurts. I will punch you in the side of the head if you do. A little lick might be ok(as long as you are progressing with your $$.) No pulling out of the cock, I will not grab it, lick it or let you cum. If you do, you owe me extra and take your pants to the dry cleaners!
I enjoy not being a prude...I make $$.
Big D
darkness, you aren't fooling a soul. Go stroke your penis or something (because i know you've got one).
ok here is something that pisses me off. An older guy asked me for a dance saturday. I of course said ok, and led him into the couch room. the second we turned the corner he sqeezed both breasts so HARD it pushed me down under him on the couch. I CALMLY asked him if he liked having all his teeth. This is what pisses me off the most though: he says,"I do it all the time in here" which is an outright LIE because non of the ladies I know that work there would let a man do that at our club. I can't stand the guys that try to excuse their lewd behavior by blaming it on the girls. It would be one thing if I worked in a high miliage club, but I don't.
And most of the men I dance for are perfect gentlemen.
If I want to be touched or licked, it will be in a mutual situation. Anything uninvited is sexual assult basically. The same would apply if I were a prostitute.
As far as being a stripper in Australia is concerned, there are laws against being touched or licked etc, (though they vary from state to staste. Queensland alows some touching.) The laws are extreemly strict.
I wouldn't want to work anywhere where it was ok for people to do what they wanted to you without consent, that's ridiculous!
I also enjoy working with other strippers who feel the same and kick-ass when people try to over-step the boundries.
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