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    Default Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    If your regular came to your club to see a feature dancer (not you) that participated in an activity you do not approve of (ie. worked in the porn industry) would you think less of them? :o

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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    This is a tricky thing....

    First off you have to ask why you would be mad at a client?
    Are you mad because you want his loyalty?
    Or are you jealous you don't have his full attention?

    I've found myself being mad at a client for various reasons...one example I'll give you....

    Two regulars were in the same afternoon...they always seem to chat to each other at the bar...creepy...anyway one goes off with another girl while I'm dancing with the other. No big deal...I know this guy likes variety. But, the other client says to me "He's cheating on you, he's not loyal like me".

    What the ? Thanks jackass....what happens next week? The "loyal" client was dancing with another girl. Yea, loyal like a DOG. So I was miffed...he put the idea of loyalty into my head. Just like anything else it comes around full circle.

    Now for a couple of weeks I find myself all wrapped up in this drama...not worth it. He's a client...he gives me money...that's it. I had to put it in perspective. I wasn't mad at the girl or the client. I was mad at myself for getting childish.

    So now they both like variety...I'm ok with it. Now all the sudden they're both loyal again. It's game. Also new at my club is a porn vending machine...GREAT. I feel like porn has ruined my work environment....remember she's only there one night/weekend. He's paying you every week. Be sweeter than ever...buy him a porn she's in...he'll never forget it.


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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    By the way...you may not believe in porn just like other judge your dancing....full circle! Remember that.

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    I wholeheartedly approve of porn and I am not possessive of regulars.

    If I was a cashier at McBurger and he bought his happy meal from another cashier one day, what does it matter. These are customers, not boyfriends.......

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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    Who cares? The feature is there every once in a great while, but I am there 3x's a week! Big deal...may give me some extra time to find some more regulars!!

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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=1;threadid=7186;start=msg81639#msg81639 date=1078616395
    I wholeheartedly approve of porn and I am not possessive of regulars.

    If I was a cashier at McBurger and he bought his happy meal from another cashier one day, what does it matter. These are customers, not boyfriends.......
    LOL you so right. Why take it to heart? They are still a regular of yours.

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    I agree with Katrine. These are regulars, not SO's...we work in Strip Clubs all of this is pretty much par for the course and not something you should take to heart.
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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    Who cares? Guys go to see porn features, that's part of the biz. Clubs bring them in to generate and keep customer interest. Besides, if my regular comes in to see a porn feature, most likely I'll get at least a couple dances from him anyway while she's off in the dressing room. The features aren't performing constantly while they're there, that's when the house girls come out in full force to sell lapdances. That's when I'll be right on his lap getting paid by the song. DUH!

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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    You're kidding, I hope. Or hopefully you wouldn't get mad about it.

    If you do, you can let him know that he can take his money to another dancer who can better understand him.

    I find it deplorable that you would refer to a customer as an ATM.

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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon link=board=1;threadid=7186;start=msg81783#msg81783 date=1078638991
    I find it deplorable that you would refer to a customer as an ATM.

    I agree with that statement.


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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    No Dreamer. They always come back!

    Pamela

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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    Lightneing up pan-dah, I just looked to the left and saw your and Dreamer's gender. th: But I still don't like the term ATM for a customer, and I also don't like PL. Some think it's cute, I think it's degrading.

    ATF is a different story. It's a term of endearment. How nice is it for me to hear that I'm someone's All Time Fave? It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    I don't consider my customer's an ATM... lots of my customers come back not just for dances, but because they enjoy the club atmosphere and enjoy talking with me.. I have more customers who pay me to sit there and talk to them than I do customers who want dances...

    I'm not uptight, just not fond of the phrase used...


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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    Quote Originally Posted by Pan Dah link=board=1;threadid=7186;start=msg81989#msg81989 date=1078698483
    Quote Originally Posted by Gynger link=board=1;threadid=7186;start=msg81908#msg81908 date=1078684234
    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon link=board=1;threadid=7186;start=msg81783#msg81783 date=1078638991
    I find it deplorable that you would refer to a customer as an ATM.
    I agree with that statement.
    Aw, c'mon girls, lighten up.

    First of all, consider the source. It's Dreamer, not exactly a designated speaker for your sorority.

    And it's hardly the first time someone has used that phrasing. Used to see it all over the old ASSC Usenet group, and probably on SCL too. Right along with PL.

    Actually, I think it was originally a rather cute counterpoint to the ubiquitous "ATF".
    Ummm.. Ladies , ATM was a word devised in the stripper vocabulary, not mine! Personally I just refer to them as clients.

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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon link=board=1;threadid=7186;start=msg81783#msg81783 date=1078638991
    him.

    I find it deplorable that you would refer to a customer as an ATM.
    I also agree with that

    I'd like to add too that I have never, not once ,heard a dancer call a customer an ATM. The only people I hear or read calling customers that is customers themselves. I think its some sort of way for them to deal w/ dancers regecting them. Its easier I guess to speak badly about us if that can convince themselves that we look at them as less than human.

    No, I wouldn't get upset if a regualr came to see a feature at my club. Thats the point of a feature being there, so customers will come in a see them.
    seems like a stupid question if u ask me and w/ that topic header well .....

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    Default Re:Ladies, If your client, ATM, regular went...

    I myself never think of a customer as an ATM, but....we do say we bank on certain nights! Awww hell i don't think the guys really mind, we are like watching wrestling at times it seems, doing a job that we know is not real, in that sense. (we are delivering a fantasy) and they pay for it!

    I would love to yell "here comes my favorite ATM"! Just once! I think a customer who knew me well enough would get a good laugh out of it.

    It's all about the money!!!! The guys i danced for know that. And the ones who wanted more, moved on.

    Pamela

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