OK, all this talk about girls thinking they are too chunky, or that older guys prefer more curvy girls has got me thinking. And if any of you guys out there want to smack me down or correct me, feel free. But I don't think it's so much that older men prefer girls with more meat on their bones or anything like that. I think that you girls worry WAY too much about how fat or how skinny you are. It's all about the confidence and the way you project yourself. As was stated on this forum earlier, "Confident women = beautiful women". Considering myself as what some would call "an older guy" (as opposed to the 20 somethings) I can tell you that it has nothing to do with me liking a girl with more meat on her bones and everything to do with the way she presents herself and the confidence that she has. I think these young Barbie girls KNOW that you are intimidated by them and it gives them confidence and it projects in the way they dance and the clientele that they attract. I don't think any guy goes to a club thinking,"I'm gonna find me a skinny girl to dance for me.". It's all about the girl who looks like she's having fun. The girl who looks like the type of girl you would love to spend time with, because isn't that really what it's about? You're selling fantasy. Most guys' fantasy is being with a girl who looks like she's having fun. And she doens't have to be Barbie. I'm not trying to preach to anyone I just think that all women -whether they are dancers or not- tend to focus way too much on how they look. I think most guys would tell you that when it comes right down to it, it's not all about how skinny you are. It's how you carry yourself. Just something to think about. Guys, if you think I'm wrong, please indulge me! Talk to you all later.
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But like I said up top things seem to be slowly changing and diversity and ethnicity is becoming more interesting to general society.

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