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    All i can say is this..... don't worry about outsiders. only worry about telling those that are close 2 u thats going to be there regardless like your mother or others in your family that support you.once you have some support like that what these outsiders say dont even matter anymore. just dust it off your shoulders

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    Quote Originally Posted by aphrodite link=board=1;threadid=7198;start=msg82095#msg82095 date=1078724395
    wow, guys, thank you so much, you are all so sweet You're right, i shouldnt let it get to me...if they want to talk about me, fine, what does it really matter. Luckily the girls in my clubs are nice, & not catty (for the most part) so i have made friends w/ most, which does help...

    i think the reason so many people know is because a few months ago a big group (from a frat) came into the club, i knew a bunch of the guys from before, so my "cover" was blown--even though i asked them not to spread it around ...& my roommate obviously knows, so her friends know, etc...coming through the dorm at 4am in full makeup with a backpack on also doesn't help, haha! I'm not ashamed of it. Just afraid of how people react.

    Suprisingly enough-for whoever asked this- the school is in the middle of a BIG city (New Orleans). and i totally agree, living off campus is a great idea...all freshmen are required to live in the dorms...never again though-already have an apt picked out for next year (i can actually afford one, now! ). I'll survive, the year's almost over. Thanks for the kind words, you guys have really helped me feel better
    You're welcome !!! I glad to hear everything is working its self out..
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    This will be my first post, and I am happy about that. This is a worthwhile topic.

    First off, I am so sorry that these people did that to you Aprodite. Its absolutely ridiculous, and these people, I am sure, have no clue the damage they do, nor do they care. I for one have found that most of the women who work at strip clubs are absolutely wonderful human beings, and just because they work there, does not make them bad.

    As for your reaction, one thing I would really like to stress to you is that by reacting badly, you are giving credibility to what they are saying. You let it affect you, because there is a place in you that is afraid what they are saying may be true.

    Well, it is absolutely not. Whatever they say, just remember the type of person you know yourself to be, and that they are wrong. Which makes them stupid. Its a much easier way to think.

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    Girl, make your money..pay your tuition..and tell those girls to kiss your ass!!! I understand the loneliness..I just moved to a new area where I know no one..but I know that I'll be alright, and you will too..just believe in yourself and graduate, if that's your goal..besides, its wonderful to come here and talk to women that do what you do and most times (lol) feel the way you feel...
    At this time in my life, the only way I keep moving forward is to know that things will eventually get better..

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    I'm in college too, and I definately DONT tell people at school what I do for a living. It's none of their buisness. The second thing is...why are you going to school ? To make friends or to get a good job so you can get out of this buisness? I would stay focused on school work and ignore the people who are talking bad about you and also take this as a lesson to keep your work life private.

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    Just in case you meant it literally, Sapphire, I belong to Delta Phi Epsilon's Temple University Chapter. I swear most sororities are not filled with rich members who live to attack other women. Sisters protect sisters and they'd be very happy to stand with you and squash the gossip. If you choose to pledge a snotty one you can have that experience but it's not a given. Just like a gentleman's club versus a casual club. You can connect with catty people or cool but friendship is out there if you want to try. Warning: Frat boys are NOT to be trusted lightly because they live to show off to their brothers and compete with other frats. Anything they know, expect it to be all over campus by morning. Obviously I went to school in Philly so I can't tell you specifics about greeks on your campus. Anyway, don't forget you can connect with students starting out in your field. You have a ready-made conversation starter. And there's no shame in deciding not to share the truth of your job for security's sake. Save it for people who have proven themselves as friends. That's wisdom not weakness.
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