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    Do you girls ask for money before the dance, after each individual dance, or count as you go and collect at the end.

    At my club a song is $20. I was pretty easy about money and collected whenever it felt appropriate. But the other night I danced my ass off for a guy and at the end of every song I sexed it up and wispered in his ear and he kept saying he would take another. Then at the end he didn't have nearly enough and claimed he had no way to pay!!!

    I have read through the hustle hut and know it happens to others, but my question is different here.......

    I would like to know if you girls have any certain order you like to do things in and how do you know if he is good for the money?
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    I would like to know if you girls have any certain order you like to do things in and how do you know if he is good for the money?
    I collect after the two dances, unless can't speak english , or they seem shady, then I get the money first. I try to peek in thier wallet discretely while they get their money for a cash check. After the first, I collect every five dances.

    There's never a garuntee that they have the money. I've found though, that if you collect first, their less likely to tip. So it's a gamble either way.

    At our club we have a bouncer at the executave lounge (room where we do our dances) door, so if they don't pay, they can't get out without a fight.

    One girl got scamed for $200 worth of dances once, and the guy had the balls to show up the next week! I thought she was going to kill him.

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    Depending on who it is, whether I've ever seen them before and/or the overall impression I have of this person I ask for payment after each five songs (or my hourly equivalent of $100, which is no more than 30 minutes, depending on if it's downstairs or in VIP). Unless they are running a credit card tab (be sure to check with the server to make sure it's a CREDIT CARD and NOT a DEBIT CARD), in which case I settle up at the end. Hopefully they have enough on their card to cover all their charges (usually they do but I have seen dancers get screwed on this every once in a while).

    There is no sure-fire way of not getting screwed over. You can only try to prevent yourself from getting screwed out of a whole lot of money and minimize your losses.

    The only way to no for sure you won't get screwed is to collect up front, but the overwhelming majority of customers are terribly uncomfortable and turned off by this so you can screw your own self by trying to do this. You'll make more money taking the risk of a small loss than turning off a potentially big-spending customer.

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    If it's a club where you sit and chat with the guys, make sure you look at their wallet when they pay for a drink. If it looks like he doesn't have much in there, make sure you collect every 3 songs or so. I always would just dance like 3 songs, take a break, get paid, then resume in a song or two. Never dance 10 songs in a row for a guy you don't know without getting paid. And ALWAYS make sure you are getting a definite yes between each new song, that they are cognizant of the fact that the meter is still running and you are still counting. Even if I have to stop dancing for a few seconds and ask more than once (in a sexy way), I always make sure it's clear. This way most of the time I don't even have to tell the guy how much because he already knows the number and there is no room for argument about whether he really wanted that many songs or not.

    Regarding the situation you described, and the fact that you were asking between each new song, I'd say the asshole was scamming you on purpose. Guys know at least approximately how much they have in their wallets. I have had many guys tell me to wait a sec while they check to see if they have enough to cover one or two more dances. This is why it is important to stop every few songs and get paid. This way you're cutting your losses, and as he pays you for each few songs, you can have a peek in his wallet to see if he has enough for more. Unless there's a cc tab running or he is going to the ATM, I always stop when I see an empty wallet. Next!

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    I'm one of the few girls at my present club that asks after each song After the 1st I Ask if they want a second and then after the second I Ask if they want to just do an even $20 (our dances are 1/2 songs for $5) SOme guys will just say dance until you are tired and then I'll let him know every $20. If a guy doens't pay I have no problem having him thrown out after I accidently spill his drink on him. I can generally get a guy to give me my $$ though. Once a guy owed me $400 for a V.I.P. and only had $200. I went ballistic on his punk @$$ and ripped the $200 up and told him "this isn't good enough b---h !!! Where is my f---ing money?!?!?!?!" The complete switch from super sexy sultry girl to evil b---h convinced him to "remember " his PIN # and get my $400-- he kept the ripped bills.
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    Wow nina. You are bold, I would have ran if I was that guy. This inspires me to be more demanding. Now that I think of it this loser probably was just scamming me,

    I will start to make sure between each song and tell him his total.

    Before I thought it would look greedy if he caught me checking out his wallet, but I will start trying to do this.

    Any other suggestions?
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